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Having Trouble knowing what I want. - 7/17/2005 12:51:38 AM

crowswitch

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Hi There, first of all this is my first post and therfore not sure if this is the right place by here goes.
I have been doing self bondage for the last 14 years, which I enjoy but for the last year I have wanted to share what I enjoy with others. By this I mean I want a partner. I have put profiles on most site by seem to have no luck.
I count myself as a switch/sub. I like being dressed in womens clothes, light pain, lie nipple clamps, CBT. I also want to explore more of a dom type role at the same time.
Here is my question how do I find the right person and how do I know what I like and dislike.

Hope this wasn't to long

Thank all

crowswitch

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RE: Having Trouble knowing what I want. - 7/17/2005 1:40:17 AM

onceburned

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quote:

Here is my question how do I find the right person and how do I know what I like and dislike.

First, what have you been doing to find the right person? Have you attended munches or events? I think, generally, you will have better luck in person than by online contacts.

But we are online, so you might want to read the advice offered in:
10 Steps For Making A Good First Impression

As for your second question, how you know what you like or dislike... well, experience helps. If you don't have experience with a given topic, be upfront about it. Maybe you are curious or maybe it worries you - these are all good things to communicate.