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RE: Age and bdsm - 9/14/2007 6:36:46 PM

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I have grandchildren, his children are still in their teens.

This is exactly the situation my Master and i are in...BUT...i am 8 years younger then Him...LOL go figure !

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RE: Age and bdsm - 9/14/2007 6:42:45 PM

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there is always an excpetion to every rule But it is like playing the lottery. play the odds see what happens

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RE: Age and BDSM - 9/14/2007 6:57:25 PM

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I love older men , always have but I met a 22 yr old that could put any older man to shame....he runs a huge business, hes smart, sexy and knows what he wants. At first I thought one so young could never make a good Dom... boy was I wrong he put me right in my place. He can park his ass under my sheets anytime!

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RE: Age and BDSM - 9/14/2007 7:05:24 PM

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i guess maybe it is what you want . but wants and needs never equate correctly for the long term

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RE: Age and BDSM - 9/14/2007 8:26:42 PM

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Thank you all so much. It was actually his eyes........even in the picture they looked through my soul....the same blue as mine and old wise eyes at that...and his taste in music that attracted me......Led Zep,Floyd,Doors,Cure,Stones,Fleetwood Mac,Damien Rice,Jack Johnson,Aqualung,Moby, Faithless, Massive Attack, Enigma,Ian Dury, Kate Bush, Bowie,Jet,White Stripes.....how cool is he?
And then his need for kink, well he's already inside my head on that one. I don't know if the age really will be much of a deal when we are up close and personal but it might be for other's out and about.
He's awat until Tuesday and it's like a part of me is missing.
And yes, if God were to give me a gift, if only for a short while, and then to take it away...I would accept it and nutyure it and keep the box and wqrapping paper it came in, in case it had to go back. If I grow out of it, or get bored by it or grow weary of playing, then I will give it back and pray that someone else will also love the gift. And I will unwrap it as slowly as is humanly possible, because much of the pleasure is in the discovery of what that gift is.
All I know is that the boy gets my tantric juices flowing as soon as his name appears on my phone. I have already stated that I need a friend as well as pleasure and pain and he has let me know what he is doing until Tuesday. That's a friendly thing to do isn't it?
Ok here's to taking it slow.............

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RE: Age and bdsm - 9/14/2007 8:58:38 PM

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Cordwainer Smith has always been one of my favorite writers!

As for the age issue, I understand and share the experience of becoming more submissive with age. And, although I did not actively seek younger men, my former doms were younger than I am.

I wish you a lovely and enjoyable time.

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RE: Age and bdsm - 9/14/2007 9:20:47 PM

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What worries me .i hear this from other countries is. trends or so social structure. Do not get cought up in a trendy things and MIss a Great full filling of dreams with someone your suppose to be with. While experimentation is good. do not ever do it to the point to were it will ruin the world around you.

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RE: Age and bdsm - 9/14/2007 9:30:13 PM

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I adore younger men

And some men adore older women, i've seen a lot of that over the years. I have some friends who met in a pogo.com chat room, she was 63 at the time and he was 34 and they have been happily married for 4 years now. Hope it works out for you.

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RE: Age and bdsm - 9/15/2007 4:12:38 AM

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I lost a love because I was such an ass that I thought she was too young for me. I hurt her and I left a hole in my heart. I used to think I was being noble by telling a young lady that she was better off with someone "her own age".
Go for it. Relationships are rare enough when you click with a person. Don't get hung up on things like age, religion, race or other extraneous things. Is there physical attraction? Can you sit down and talk about things? Can you cuddle together and be content? Does your idea of a relationship jell? If so, who cares about the other things. Good luck.

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RE: Age and bdsm - 9/15/2007 5:00:05 AM

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ORIGINAL: proudsub

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I adore younger men

And some men adore older women, i've seen a lot of that over the years. I have some friends who met in a pogo.com chat room, she was 63 at the time and he was 34 and they have been happily married for 4 years now. Hope it works out for you.

cheers my dear xx

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RE: Age and BDSM - 9/15/2007 7:09:03 AM

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I can respect you because you really did care about her.. Honest enough to not let her go through things you would face.. This age debate is really ridiculous sometimes just wonder where common sense goes to. When is age to much a 60 year old and a 19..People change in years their ideas, likes, health status.

Reality really bites. There is this thing about Dom, Dommes and younger subs This is a stereo type of this lifestyle due to mags and sites and stuff. and the gaming industry. Just watch G4 make sure your kids do not lol. to much adult content for minors. That go on at that station. All I can say is ride the rail of what ever. If you crash move on. Learn from it t. You Only get so many chances to get it right then your life's over.

There is this movie I love with dennis quad and that guy from thats seventies show. The kid is young comes in runs the company. Fires a lot of the older people But then the company is bought out and the young kid is fired and the old man brought back.
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RE: Age and BDSM - 9/15/2007 8:15:33 AM

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I am younger than my girl. She tells friends and family that she got tired of looking for Mr Right so she decided to raise him herself. Have fun enjoy the ride

Eric who is 36 and has 3 adult kids and 7 grandkids (told you she was older than me)

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RE: Age and BDSM - 9/15/2007 8:28:13 AM

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Itchy feet............
he rang me this morning out of the blue. Strange as he had said he was away.
I had told him about my girl...she is adorable and submissive to me and I have courted her and been in relationship with her for nearly three years on line. We are planning a scene in r/t.
Anyway his phone call was quite truncated. He wanted to know whether I had been with her.
I smell a swinger.
I have emotionally shut down now until I meet up with him on Tuesday. I will not, as it says on my profile, be used as food for other swine. If he wants a hareem he can do some work on it himself.
I'm a cold hearted bitch when it comes to head games.

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