taintedlove75 -> RE: how many have had gastric by pass and please explain it all (9/15/2007 5:30:13 PM)
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I have had the surgery in May of this year and while I would do it over again in a heartbeat, there is alot to consider, reconsider then reconsider again before doing it. I know about 6 people who had it done and who all recommended it so I plunged right in. I did do alot of research but nothing really prepares you when actual people who have had the surgery are not telling you the negatives. Its sort of like childbirth, when its all over and done with you forget the annoying agonizing painful things that got you from point A to point B. Some programs will have you lose weight before the surgery. There is a debate among surgeons that do gastric byypass that those who lose weight first are more committed to the lifestyle changes that have to occur after surgery and therefore have a better recovery. Some doctors say it doesn't make a bit of statistical difference. Personally I first chose a program that required a 10 percent weight loss right at Christmas time, needless to say, with the lifestyle that got me into needing the surgery in the first place, I gained 20 pounds in about 3 months. I am sure I will be flamed with stuff about discpline and such but those who do not have this particular eating disorder can't fully understand that surgery is, for some, the only hope. I later found a program that did not require the weight loss first and got right in. The requirements that have to be met before you are a candidate for surgery are determined by your doctor and your insurance company. For me, I had to undergo a full physical, blood workup, psychological evaluation, ultrasound of my heart and intestines, EKG, ECG, and a chest x-ray. Many of those things are what my insurance required. The doctor will determine if you are healthy enough to undergo surgery. As for the surgery itself, I had no complications at all except for the fact that I was unaware that I do not tolerate morphine well and that put me in the hospital an extra day. Before surgery you will have to fast and clean yourself out with a emetic(sp?) The day of the surgery you are not allowed any food or fluids except for a sip of water to wash down any mandatory medications you have to take daily. One thing no one really told me was about gas pain. I understood that they fill your abdomin with gas during the surgery so they can do what they need to do but no one mentioned how painful that gas is once you wake. I have never cried and begged and pleaded to pass gas before but I was doing it for the week after my surgery. You feel very weak and it is difficult to move for the first few days. Your stomach will be distended, tender, and bruised around your incisions. You will not want to eat or drink but they will bring you trays filled with jello, juice, water, tea, broth, popsicles. It is really important to keep your fluids up. It is really not painful to drink but you have this full feeling and you wont want to. A few days out it gets easier and easier. About a week after you can have things like creamy soups and such and then from there you follow your doctors nutrition plan as far as when you can graduate from clear to full liquids, then from full liquids to soft foods, then to more solid foods. It took two months of babyfood for me because I just didn't tolerate things well. After I started experimenting with solid food I discovered the dreaded dumping stage. You will eat something that your body can no longer tolerate and it comes out one of two possible ways. I'll leave that to your imagination but it is not pleasant. I also discovered that my tastes had changed and many foods that I used to love I can no longer eat or tolerate at all like chicken. It just makes me nauseous. It is strange too that you will sometimes feel like they didn't really do anything and that you can eat that bite of food that you know you shouldn't but yuour body reminds you very quickly that it has changed and you will throw up. After surgery your stomach no longer breaks food down into smaller particles like a normal stomach does. That job now belongs to the mouth. Chew and chew and chew until the food is the consistancy of applesauce and it should go down fine. Also, you can no longer drink with meals. Fluids fill up the stomach and there is no room in the new tiny tummy for drinks plus food. If you eat and drink at the same time, you will throw up. Fluids too soon after eating also wash the food out of the stomach before they get the maximum amout of time to absorb nutrients. And speaking of nutrients, you will take vitamin and mineral supplements for the rest of your life. Its called a bypass because it bypasses some of the intestine that absorbs certain nurients and minerals like calcium, vitamin D, B-12. You can no longer get these from food so you need to supplement or your systems will eventually break down and you can suffer nerve damage or die. I can eat almost anything now except for fiberous raw vegetables, rice, pasta, big chunks of meat and soft breads. Rice expands in your tummy and will make you sick as well as breads, They turn into a soft gummy paste and do not go down. Carbonated beverages turn into foamy phlem that will come right back up. I eat tons of canned chili, canned soups, or I make my own for the less sodium factor. I eat fish and shrimp which is funny cause I couldn't stand fish before the surgery! But now its a great source of soft digestable protein. Basically cook the hell out of whatever you are going to eat and chew the hell out of it and you may be okay. Sugar is an issue for some and they can't eat it at all without dumping, Sugar for me, is fine and I do not dump it. It is all very individualized and everyone will have different reactons to different foods. You may get new allergies or lose old ones. So far I have lost over 70 pounds and yes I have sagging skin but I didn't have the surgery for my looks. That can be dealt with later or I can just accept it as battle scars. Or hell, I can always just get a moonlighting job at the circus as the worlds first human flying squirrel. So far the skin has not been any worse an issue as when it was filled with fat. That's what industrial strength bras and corsets are for right? Yes the surgery is extreme but for some it is their only lifeline. You can look at those people as lazy or undisciplined for not being able to diet the weight away or you can look at obesity as a medical issue and be happy for the people who have found a medical way of dealing with that particular health issue. For me, it was, either have the surgery or keep beating my head against the brick wall I have been beating against my whole life. If you or your friend have any questions please feel free to ask here or on the other side. I am very happy with my surgery and more than willing to share my experience with it. There is no going back after you do it so embrace all the changes and have fun with it!
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