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Creative ways to deal with online idiots - 7/17/2005 2:42:46 PM   
ChainedAngel


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Status: offline 		I know that almost everyone submissive that is reading this has received at least ONE truly idiotic email in their inbox from some moron demanding that they offer themselves, body and soul, just because they are the big bad dom and everything should fall at their feet. I also know that the standard response to this situation is to delete the email and block the sender. My question here is this; has anyone come up with any creative and amusing ways to deal with these random idiots (besides using the block function) that actually worked?
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RE: Creative ways to deal with online idiots - 7/17/2005 3:05:11 PM   
Gemeni


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Status: offline 		Hmm......I used to hang out on the bcom chat server. There was an asshole "dom" who was harassing a femsub friend of mine on there. We tried everything to scrape him off of the stalking routine. He'd change nicks,and she would ignore them. He'd change them and keep doing it. I showed her how to block isp domains. He would then use proxies,and failing that working-change isps.

I finally grew tired of this. Told her,"Unregister your nick and let me take it over for a few days. Take a break,he will be gone when you return." So she did and I took it over..Sure enough up pops lover boy. Wants to cyber,as usual,so I did. He was overjoyed,until.......I whispered to him,"I have a secret."

" But yanno I have really enjoyed playin with you,and since you gave me your phone number,and I used it to track down where you LIVE....maybe I'll come play with you real time some day."

"But I just can't do it without you knowing my secret..Here's my home page,and what I love to do with guys,just like you.."

And pasted this url to a pic on the home page of a big nasty ass weight lifting FLAMING gay Leatherman.

It had this cute picture of the guy with his fist up a dude's ass, to the elbow. Lover boy was suddenly absent. I signed the nick back over to her,and he never bugged her again-in fact,he kept disappearing when she would come on.

Funny how that works.,hmm?

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RE: Creative ways to deal with online idiots - 7/17/2005 3:55:18 PM   
EmeraldSlave2


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Status: offline 		Ones lack of manners is never a reason to forget your own.

Most people who write like that just don't know any better- they are online only and haven't understood the "fuller" picture.

I think it's showing lack of respect for one's self to respond impolitely.

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RE: Creative ways to deal with online idiots - 7/17/2005 4:15:41 PM   
Gemeni


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Status: offline 		And many take a polite response as meaning "maybe" emerald.

Those who refuse to take no for an answer need to be told in less than polite terms. "Block" doesn't always work when all a clown has to do is set up another email address and account.

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RE: Creative ways to deal with online idiots - 7/17/2005 4:22:56 PM   
perverseangelic


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Status: offline 		I'm just very very dense. ;)

Iam always polite and pretend I have -no- idea what they're talking aout.

Them: Wanna play?
Me: Well, when will you be in Cali
Them: no, i mean here
Me: Ah, like my profile says I can't travel
Them: No, I mean play ONLINE
Me: Oh. I'm not allowed to do that.

It's like that for everything. I tell people if they have any questions, they're welcome tom eet me for coffee on my next day off, but I will not give them my phone number.

It's fun.

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RE: Creative ways to deal with online idiots - 7/17/2005 4:31:45 PM   
EmeraldSlave2


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Status: offline 		Killing with kindness is always fun :)

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RE: Creative ways to deal with online idiots - 7/17/2005 4:43:22 PM   
ChainedAngel


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Status: offline 		I'm not too fond of being rude, unless the person really insists on pissing me off or is obviously a total idiot. It drains me way too quickly. I find that being kind in my responses, especially when I lay it on thick with really eloquent language, can be pretty entertaining. That is why I was asking for creative ways to tell these people to go away. The ignore feature is getting used so much here that it is getting a bit boring.

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RE: Creative ways to deal with online idiots - 7/17/2005 4:44:13 PM   
ChainedAngel


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Status: offline 		You'll have to send me the link to that website if you can find it, if you get the time to do so.

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RE: Creative ways to deal with online idiots - 7/17/2005 5:00:56 PM   
Gemeni


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Status: offline 		irc.bondage.com

Add it to most any chat client that allows new servers.

I used to op there in many rooms for years way back when. I got tired of wankers,wannbes and the basic childishness of people who think that anonymity gives them carte blanhce to be assholes.

I'm at least "with it" enough to say the same things to people to thier faces that I would here.

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RE: Creative ways to deal with online idiots - 7/17/2005 8:06:32 PM   
babyland


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Status: offline 		I would love to assist you in this manner, please feel free to contact me.

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RE: Creative ways to deal with online idiots - 7/17/2005 8:16:05 PM   
slavedesires


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Gemeni

And many take a polite response as meaning "maybe" emerald.

Those who refuse to take no for an answer need to be told in less than polite terms. "Block" doesn't always work when all a clown has to do is set up another email address and account.


OMG...i always respond. Did today to a guy who came on with the silliest of stuff and found out he was referring to a post i made and of course i had no fucking clue what the hell he was saying origianlly..... ah well!

"No thank you i am NOT interested"...always does it for me...and last time i looked there is no one on my blocklist.

~~shy

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RE: Creative ways to deal with online idiots - 7/18/2005 3:30:11 AM   
mossy


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Status: offline 		i get a lot of thank You's for at least responding back to say i'm not interested.
i usually tailor each no thank You individually. Such as....i tried that kind of domination once, and it is just not for me. This can sometimes lead to further discussion,
but since i am working on assertiveness, this has been to my advantage. i count the letters it takes for the dom to stop writing, i want it to be 2. The first letter, and no more then the second. This is a very good exercise for me. When i get it on the first letter!!! i'm really proud of myself, but i am well mannered and kind. When and if the person turns nasty? Or will Not stop? Then i use block!

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RE: Creative ways to deal with online idiots - 7/18/2005 6:17:21 AM   
BlouLady


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Status: offline 		Ummm nothing creative, just ignore them or them you're taken but thanks anyway

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RE: Creative ways to deal with online idiots - 7/18/2005 7:38:53 AM   
sudja


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Gemeni

And many take a polite response as meaning "maybe" emerald.



Very true!

I had some fellow on the afore-mentioned b.com server recently intrude into my PM. Yes, I could have ignored him, but I am sometimes stunned by the clueless factor, and wonder how obtuse somebody is going to be after they hear not one, not two, but three times that I am very much not available.

Finally the words "moved her to be with my Mistress" clicked with him and he said, "Oh, well I don't want to interfer with your r/l."

As if!

But it wasn't worth telling him, "Not in your wildest wet dreams, buddy."

Hmm, come to think of it, I might have said that had the thought popped into my head in time. ;)

sudja

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RE: Creative ways to deal with online idiots - 7/18/2005 7:43:33 AM   
plantlady64


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Status: offline 		Hello There,
When someone contacts me I'm not interested in I thank them for noticing me, and explain why I'm not interested. If they send back other messages I consider their tone and if I think they are jerks I just ignore them and delete their messages without reading them after that. If they want to elaborate on why they have interest and ask normal questions I tolerate it to be polite.
Sincerely,
sub suzanne

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RE: Creative ways to deal with online idiots - 7/20/2005 7:43:24 AM   
Hissweetshiv


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Status: offline 		With reference to collarme, i have spoken to exactly two people via my email and both responded quite courteously to "Just for the sake of clarity, i'm not looking for any kind of a partner. I'm married and collared to a wonderful Man."
That being said, as a veteran of yahoo i am also well versed in the "other kind" lol. My favorite has always been the "on your knees now b***h" because they're laughably easy to derail. If being polite doesn't work, tell them about your 6 kids, or your bad knees, or your flaming halitosis... anything unsexy....and they vanish. For the more persistent type, i simply tell them that i am not permitted to play like that without Master's permission and feel free to contact Him at....... 99.9% of them never contact Him, lol. Those who do are often the ones who have a genuine interest in the lifestyle, but not enough experience to know the etiquette. Overall, the response needs to be tailored to the original post/email/what have you.

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RE: Creative ways to deal with online idiots - 7/20/2005 9:01:05 AM   
Faramir


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quote:

ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2

Ones lack of manners is never a reason to forget your own.

Most people who write like that just don't know any better- they are online only and haven't understood the "fuller" picture.

I think it's showing lack of respect for one's self to respond impolitely.


Here here - well said.

I have experienced this from the other side - when I had pics and my profile up some of the emails I got were sweet and polite, but a few were demanding or bizarre. It wasn't hard to be polite and firm. Now, my guess is that men can be 10 x 38th times more annoying and persistent, but that just affords ladies even more chances to be gracious

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RE: Creative ways to deal with online idiots - 7/20/2005 3:53:14 PM   
sub4hire


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Status: offline 		It isn't creative but you merely ignore them. Never block them. The e-mails you get are so humorous they make your day.
If everyone ignored, eventually the offender would stop and think what they were doing wrong.

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