AAkasha
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For me, body worship/massage/foot worship can all be done in two different ways. In one way, it's an act of dominance with the purpose of creating emotions and sensations in the submissive - pushing his buttons, making him feel certain ways. If it's foot worship, I'm likely to tease, torment - put my feet in his face, put toes in his crotch with the free foot when he is trying to concentrate, etc. The other way is totally different -- it's for my pleasure. If I am expecting to be treated to a massage, I am not going to be interested or focussed on pushing his buttons and enjoying his reactions, I am going to be expecting to enjoy the experience. Part of the relaxation aspect is not having to worry about his fetishes or desires for the time being and not being provided a sub par massage because he is horny and really half assed about it. When a man says he is into "massage" and an expert, I would hope for at least something comparable to a professional massage. Not just a guy who says that because he wants to rub my ass or something. As always, clear communication about expectations and desires help clear up any confusion ahead of time. I get manicures and pedicures, foot massages and full body massages fairly regularly at a nice spa -- it's hard to find comparable service from a male submissive unless he's been professionally trained. It's almost always easier to have it done at the spa when I know I am getting what I paid for! My partner does a pretty good job at it as well, but it always turns into sex. Not that that's a bad thing, but that's the kind of relationship we have. Akasha
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