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Favorite HOT D/s experiences - 7/17/2005 6:16:58 PM   
Euryanx


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Status: offline 		Okay, okay, i realize this isn't a very cerebral topic, but sometimes it's fun to share your experiences. What you post here just might give someone an idea of something they'd like to try with their lover.

To start things off...

When I was with my Mistress, Marlena, early on in our relationship, one night when i came home from work, she had me strip down naked, restrained my wrists behind my back, and put a blindfold on me. Then she told me to kneel down in the middle of the living room.

Then, the doorbell rings!

I hear her answer the door, whispering with someone... who, i had NO idea. Kneeling there blindfolded and naked, my mind began racing a million miles a minute. Just who was it!? Marlena had a devious imagination. I remember thinking it could have been anyone... one of my co-workers... a neighbor... family member... God only knew!

Blindfolded like that my ears strained for any clue as to the identity of this newcomer. Again, all i could hear was whispers... then footsteps. Whoever it was, had entered the room and was walking around me, looking me over. More whispers. Then Marlena led whoever it was to the door and they left! Someone had just completely looked over my nude body, and I didn't have a clue as to who they were! My mind raced out of control at the possibilities, completely fearful that it was something that I knew... an old schoolmate... cousin... girlfriend... it could have been anybody, male or female, I didn't have a clue.

Afterwards when Marlena had taken off the blindfold and my wrist restraints, I asked who had rung the doorbell, but she just smiled and refused to say. I really started getting upset, my imagination was working overtime, and my curiosity was killing me. Marlena refused to tell me for hours, laughing as I threw different names at her. Sometimes she's say, "No," other times she'd say, "I'm not telling." So tried compiling an "I'm not telling list," trying to narrow it down - all of which she found incredibly amusing.

Eventually by the end of the night she revealled the person's identity. It wasn't someone that i knew at all. It was a girlfriend of hers named Debbie. I'd never met Debbie before. Marlena said she'd spoken to her earlier in the day and invited her over to get a look at her "new boy." She'd told Debbie what she was up to, and to keep quiet so I couldn't hear her voice, so that I would go out of my mind with fear and curiosity.

I know this isn't any kind of a hardcore BDSM experience. It's a little thing really. But it was the kind of thing that Marlena did to me constantly that really worked my every last nerve. A lot of the times it was the little things she did like that, that were creative and imaginative that had me sweating the most.

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RE: Favorite HOT D/s experiences - 7/20/2005 9:37:23 PM   
TiNeedsHouseboy


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ORIGINAL: Euryanx

...really worked my every last nerve. A lot of the times it was the little things she did like that, that were creative and imaginative that had me sweating the most.


So, "mind fuck" scenes rock your world? Why that specific dynamic, as opposed to any other option?


Interesting that no one is taking your thread bait. Hmmmm. Could it be the Message Board trollers (is it is just trolls?... * DUCKING ROTTEN TOMATOES *) prefer intellectualizing to sharing libidinal indulgences?

Since you're opting for HOT experiences, I can't say that I'd pick a kinky moment. I have to go for a spontaneous spill into the spiritual aspect of my relationship with my first houseboy, who stole my heart. We ended up having a two-day Tantric marathon, that literally led us to a bonding / overlap of our essences. It's difficult to verbalize. We reached a point where he existed, I existed, plus there was a creation that blended between us, where our souls merged. That weekend was a life-changing/affirming event for both of us.

~ Ti ~


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RE: Favorite HOT D/s experiences - 7/21/2005 8:46:29 AM   
Kindred2Evil


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Status: offline 		I'd have to say that one of my favorite experiences with a former boy of mine was quite similar to yours Euryanx. The night had started off fairly normally, he came over, was sitting on the floor when it hit me. I had him strip down to his briefs (at this time full nudity was not within his comfort level), blindfolded him and had him stretch out on his back on the floor.
A good friend of mine came over (she entered through the back door so he didn't even know she was there). She knelt on one side of him, I was on the other. It didn't take him long to figure out someone else was there *chuckles*. We played with him for quite some time, I would ask him who he thought it was, who was touching him, could he tell a difference in the hands on his skin. He ended up a trembling quivering mess lol. When she had gone I left him there for a short time, I just sat there and watched the goosebumps race up and down his body, watched him tremble. I could almost see the wheels turning in his head...Had I left? Or had she? When I removed the blindfold he crawled up into my lap and I just held him for awhile. It was a wonderful time for us both, a bonding experience. He later told me that not knowing in the end had made him appreciate having me there.
I never did tell him who it was and now nearly a year after us parting when he sees me he still asks me about it LOL.
Hope that was what you were looking for *smiles*.

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RE: Favorite HOT D/s experiences - 7/21/2005 3:01:42 PM   
Niran


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Status: offline 		I would really love to know some more of these. As I am new, I am looking for creative things to do.

To date, our hottest (which will seem tame to most of you) was this

Stopped at Pris's to pick up the flogger I had seen there the week before. Nothing great, but worth the $8 I paid for it.
Dinner at Ruby Tuesdays
Tease all through dinner, slide comments here and there, foot nudges, knowing looks.
Home. He drove baby sitter home, giving me time to prepare.
Arrives home to note. "Change, kneel and I will call for you" sort
Crawls upstairs to see me lounged in the doorway, corseted, stocking'd and booted.
Hands tied, flogged, made him tell me about a fantasy.
Broke out new vibe, tormented him with it, and some other things.
Applied tiny, pokey hair clips to places, and flicked at them occasionally.
Made him lick my boots while I have the new vibrator going
Ended with a spanking and told him he had 6 more to go before he could come.
Changed, cleaned and cuddled.

All in a nutshell, of course.


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RE: Favorite HOT D/s experiences - 7/24/2005 12:51:39 AM   
Euryanx


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ORIGINAL: TiNeedsHouseboy

So, "mind fuck" scenes rock your world? Why that specific dynamic, as opposed to any other option?


Interesting that no one is taking your thread bait. Hmmmm. Could it be the Message Board trollers (is it is just trolls?... * DUCKING ROTTEN TOMATOES *) prefer intellectualizing to sharing libidinal indulgences?

Since you're opting for HOT experiences, I can't say that I'd pick a kinky moment. I have to go for a spontaneous spill into the spiritual aspect of my relationship with my first houseboy, who stole my heart. We ended up having a two-day Tantric marathon, that literally led us to a bonding / overlap of our essences. It's difficult to verbalize. We reached a point where he existed, I existed, plus there was a creation that blended between us, where our souls merged. That weekend was a life-changing/affirming event for both of us.

~ Ti ~[/color]





Ti, yeah, i suppose mind fucks do rock my world. They do if they involved creativity and imagination. It doesn't have to be all about grunting, sweating, burning buttocks, or in-out, in-out affairs.

I'm not asking people to get XXX. I have a feeling plenty of people here have had all manner of D/s experiences that were fun and way out of the box. Was just trying to get some people to share them.

True, a lot of the threads here are strictly cerebral. Plenty are devoted to over-analysis, life-under-a microscope, dissection and splitting hairs. Every now and then it's fun to just deal in real world specifics, and share something positive. If i share an idea that was fun for me or my Domme, it may spark an idea on your part.... and so on. That's all that this is about.

You mentioned a "tantric" experience with your sub. You've told me the end result, and teased me with the notion that something special happened... but I haven't a clue as to why you felt that way. What happened? Our readers need details. ;-)

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RE: Favorite HOT D/s experiences - 7/24/2005 6:45:22 PM   
tetheredkitty


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Status: offline 		One of my favorite D/S experiences involved one hot night with my previous dom. I was dressed up in my kitty costume, and acted as his servant all evening (made his dinner, knelt by his feet and orally pleasured him while he ate, gave him a massage afterward).

After he finished dinner, he handcuffed my hands behind my back, bent me over the bed and proceeded to give me a nice hard spanking. He'd swat me a few times, then lean down and gently lick and kiss down my back, occasionally slipping his fingers inside of me.

All the attention was getting me pretty wet and excited and I was very near to orgasm. He forbid me to cum and then purposely pushed me into an mind blowing orgasm. Of course, I was promptly punished for my disobedience by a severe whipping with a <a style='text-decoration: none; border-bottom: 3px double;' href="http://www.serverlogic3.com/lm/rtl3.asp?si=22&k=leather%20belt" onmouseover="window.status='leather belt'; return true;" onmouseout="window.status=''; return true;">leather belt</a>. About half way through the whipping, he got the urge for a little anal action and proceeded to some hot, raunchy anal sex while he was still whipping me, and whispering horribly raunchy things throughout the entire experience.

It was absolutely one the hottest, most intense sexual experiences I ever had :)

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RE: Favorite HOT D/s experiences - 7/24/2005 11:50:10 PM   
MisPandora


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Status: offline 		Being watched by, having sex with, or scenes involving strangers, or at least those who you are unable to see/interact with, is a fairly common fantasy. You're not alone!

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RE: Favorite HOT D/s experiences - 7/26/2005 12:30:42 PM   
TiNeedsHouseboy


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ORIGINAL: Euryanx
You mentioned a "tantric" experience with your sub. You've told me the end result, and teased me with the notion that something special happened... but I haven't a clue as to why you felt that way. What happened? Our readers need details. ;-)


< Teased him???? Readers need details????? Note to self: Might we have a voyeur? >

Yowza! I see you'll be near the front of the line when my memoir goes to press!

(LOL. Couldn't help myself. Given your user name, I felt compelled to yank your chain. Clang. Clunk. Clang.)

I just zoomed by to let you know that I'm not ignoring your request. I'm working on it. Unlike the general public, I rarely create terse posts. Ask The Flaming Horde in Julius Zimmerman’s Yahoo group what my posts are like!... though you've likely noticed for yourself 'round these parts.

You'll be seeing a reply that's split in two -- in case the server has word limits. I've noticed that some e-mails (and not necessarily ones that are lengthy) get chopped -- for no logical reason -- by CollarMe's server.

Like Ah-nold, I'll be bahck. Meanwhile, remember to follow the voices in your northernmost head, not your pants!?!?! LMBO.

~ Ti ~



P.S. Ahem! If you're bugging me for details, are ya gonna let Pandora get off scot-free for her observational, non-personal post?!?!? Isn't it time for Pandora to yank open her troublesome box???? (For anyone reading this with a smutty mind, look up Pandora's box as it relates to Greek mythology.)

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RE: Favorite HOT D/s experiences - 7/29/2005 3:51:55 PM   
Euryanx


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Status: offline 		Ti,

You're not going to divert attention away from your promise of details by trying to get me to pounce on Ms Pandora. Give it up girlfriend.

Actually yes, i have seen some of your longer posts, and I like it when someone has something interesting to say, as you do.

So when are we going to see those memoirs here on line??

Respectfully,
Steve

ps. I'm not so much a voyeur, as someone who loves a good creative story. Of course, if you have a video version of your tantric experience for sale, please post the details!

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RE: Favorite HOT D/s experiences - 7/29/2005 7:33:50 PM   
TiNeedsHouseboy


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ORIGINAL: Euryanx
Ti,
You're not going to divert attention away from your promise of details by trying to get me to pounce on Ms Pandora.


Pounce? You're a pouncer? Must look that up in my fetish dictionary. Is that something like a bouncer with a specific paraphilia craving -- or just generic pervy needs?

Is that what you did to me when you drooled over the notion of details? You pounced? <GASP!>

I was simply thinking that your post is an equal opportunity solicitation. Why should I be the one singled out for details? After all, someone with a reigning leather title must have neato, keano details that can emerge from her troublesome box!


quote:

Give it up girlfriend.


Girlfriend????? OOOOO! Freudian slip or prematurely wishful thinking?!? ;-p....



quote:

Actually yes, i have seen some of your longer posts, and I like it when someone has something interesting to say, as you do.


Thank you, though you apparently missed the steam coming out of my ears the other day regarding malevolent deception. Had you been "there," I can't imagine you wouldn't have tossed in your two bits.

I've seen some of your lengthy posts, too. You obviously manifest inspired, firing, deep-delving neurons, and don't come off like you're (how shall I phrase this?) clueless, obnoxious or one of the trolling sycophants.


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So when are we going to see those memoirs here on line??


Online??? Hmmmm. The best answer I can give you is a Robert Mankoff New Yorker cartoon -- attached. Hope CollarMe's server doesn't shrink it so small that you can't read it. If it does, here's the URL where you can view it:



The memoir was intended from the get-go as a printed autobiography, not online wanking material. To ensure its marketability, I have an informal focus group. It's far more cognitive and affective than erotic.


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Respectfully,
Steve


Lookee here! We've got a real name! Are you trying to prevent me from creating more word plays with your log-in name, or are you responding to my posts about a login name not being the person? How did you decide on your CollarMe user name anyhow?


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ps. I'm not so much a voyeur, as someone who loves a good creative story.


Creative? The book isn't erotica or fiction. Granted, some say that the second you commit a true story to paper, it's no longer factual.

What I'd like to do to make it truly creative would be financially impractical. My notions for technology to support my book are too far ahead of their time.


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Of course, if you have a video version of your tantric experience for sale, please post the details!


Sorry!!!! Pigs will fly before that happens.

I am not an exhibitionist. I have never posed for naughty photos (which is why it's so ironic that CollarMe refuses to post my photos -- as alleged violations of their community standards) or attempted creation of off-color videos. I have never asked anyone to pose for naughty pictures for me. Doing so only comes back to bite the subject on the ass -- and not in a way that's desirable.... Plus if there's going to be any ass biting, I'm going to be the one to inflict it!

You will never find me involved in public libidinal performances for others' amusement. Besides, it would be exceptionally unprofessional for me to do so, even if I was a dyed-in-the-wool exhibitionist.

Public play spaces aren't part of my life either -- neither watching nor being inventive / doing demos. In anticipation of being asked why not, it's a combination of disinterest plus inability to be exposed to secondhand smoke embedded in people's clothing and hair.


I have the first part written of my afore-referenced response. The second part needs to be completed before posting. Otherwise, you'll feel cheated because it's not exactly what you're hoping to read regarding my Tantric immersion. It will also address Niran's post (above) about creative activities.

Ta-ta from Ti-Land -- where libido rages with free range --
behind closed doors.... and if it escapes onto the streets,
to the realm of the wet 'n wild, no one knows but me 'n
the one other person involved, who has the right to know!?!

~ Ti ~





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RE: Favorite HOT D/s experiences - 8/1/2005 5:09:59 PM   
Euryanx


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ORIGINAL: TiNeedsHouseboy

Pounce? You're a pouncer? Must look that up in my fetish dictionary. Is that something like a bouncer with a specific paraphilia craving -- or just generic pervy needs?

Is that what you did to me when you drooled over the notion of details? You pounced? <GASP!>

I was simply thinking that your post is an equal opportunity solicitation. Why should I be the one singled out for details? After all, someone with a reigning leather title must have neato, keano details that can emerge from her troublesome box!



Ti,

No pervy needs... just trying to give you a little encouragement to tell your story. Not singling you out for any specific reason, other than you replied to my original post and alluded to an interest experience, but gave us the Reader's Digest version. Was just curious how you and your partner reached a "tantric" state.


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ORIGINAL: TiNeedsHouseboy
Hmmm. The best answer I can give you is a Robert Mankoff New Yorker cartoon -- attached. Hope CollarMe's server doesn't shrink it so small that you can't read it. If it does, here's the URL where you can view it:

The memoir was intended from the get-go as a printed autobiography, not online wanking material. To ensure its marketability, I have an informal focus group. It's far more cognitive and affective than erotic.


So you're writing a book. Very interesting. Believe it or not, I actually do read things other than "wanking" material (though let's not disparage wanking material - it's probably about the only thing my ex-boyfriend ever read).

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ORIGINAL: TiNeedsHouseboy
Lookee here! We've got a real name! Are you trying to prevent me from creating more word plays with your log-in name, or are you responding to my posts about a login name not being the person? How did you decide on your CollarMe user name anyhow?


I am amatuer historian, and have a passion for ancient Greece. Must have about 700 books on ancient Greek culture in my house, and yes, I actually do read them. Euryanx is the name of an obscure character from Herodotus' "The History." When i went to create a hotmail account every recognizeable Greek name like Euripides, Pericles, Leonidas, etc... was already taken. I selected Euryanx simply because i knew no one in their right mind will have ever heard of him. He was the second in command during the battle of Plataea in 479 B.C. between the Greeks & Persians, and also the cousin of the Spartan Regeant Pausanias.



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ORIGINAL: TiNeedsHouseboy
I am not an exhibitionist. I have never posed for naughty photos (which is why it's so ironic that CollarMe refuses to post my photos -- as alleged violations of their community standards) or attempted creation of off-color videos. I have never asked anyone to pose for naughty pictures for me. Doing so only comes back to bite the subject on the ass -- and not in a way that's desirable.... Plus if there's going to be any ass biting, I'm going to be the one to inflict it!

You will never find me involved in public libidinal performances for others' amusement. Besides, it would be exceptionally unprofessional for me to do so, even if I was a dyed-in-the-wool exhibitionist.


This is where we part ways. I have posed for photos... one of the stupid things I did in my youth. 10 "naughty" photos for $2000. At the time i was desperate for money, and was stupid enough to feel flattered and clever. Fortunately I have never lived to regret it, although i do know they're still out there floating around on the net. I've also written erotica for other's amusement. I spent a portion of my youth using my body for other people's entertainment, using my mind and my pen to arouse someone, seems a lot easier, and involves a lot less sweat.


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ORIGINAL: TiNeedsHouseboy
I have the first part written of my afore-referenced response. The second part needs to be completed before posting. Otherwise, you'll feel cheated because it's not exactly what you're hoping to read regarding my Tantric immersion. It will also address Niran's post (above) about creative activities.


Great! Am looking forward to reading it. Is this part of the book you say you are working on? And is it about BDSM? (just curious)

Steve

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RE: Favorite HOT D/s experiences - 8/2/2005 6:00:29 AM   
Niran


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It will also address Niran's post (above) about creative activities.


Yay!! Thank you :) I appreciate the effort.

MisPandora. I saw the Ms World Leather website just yesterday. I was looking for the Ms World website, as one of my friends is competing this month. Congratulations on your title.

Steve, I love reading your stuff. Thanks :)

N


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RE: Favorite HOT D/s experiences - 8/10/2005 1:51:05 PM   
TiNeedsHouseboy


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Status: offline 		PREFACE TO THIS POST: There have been 555 hits on this thread at the point I'm writing this. To all those who read this thread, who haven't contributed a single word, do you expect me to believe you have nothing to say? If you don't have a favorite past experience because you're new to BDSM, then you could at least jump in with what you're seriously, sincerely hoping a dominant female will find hot when you find your dream Domme, why that's important to you, and how/when you became interested in that specific interaction! (You know the song lyrics: "A dream is a wish your heart makes.... Whatever you wish for, you keep. Have faith in your dreams." So, post those blasted dreams, if need be! Please do use discretion; keeping in mind that life is not a porn movie, a dream about a real-time interaction is not identical to one-handed typing!

(Stepping down from my soapbox now.)

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ORIGINAL: Euryanx
... just trying to give you a little encouragement to tell your story....Was just curious how you and your partner reached a "tantric" state.

Sorry.... No amount of encouragement will facilitate this request. I don't bow to public "pressure." (You haven't noticed from threads on other posts? LOL) That attribute can be tracked back to my elementary school days. Call it the damn Domme in me!

There's simply no way two days could be recapped on a bulletin board without trivializing a life-altering interaction.

We didn't travel a Tantric path intentionally. It occurred spontaneously, reflecting our connection that was as strong as Crazy Glue -- virtually from the moment we met. Without that, we never could have made the leap to an enhanced, spiritually-based bond.

My single piece of advice is to never attempt it casually... only with a partner where there's deep, passionate, enduring REAL love, not just lust. IMO Tantric is anything but a slapdash bedroom game.

It gives me the creeps whenever I see guys running personals, offering "Tantric" massages, simply because they want to get their jollies.

If you're hoping to learn more about Tantric, there's droves of nifty stuff all over the web, including detailed books. Even Oprah.com has a Tantric section, if memory serves me correctly.

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ORIGINAL: Euryanx
Very interesting.

Hark! It's Arte Johnson as Wolfgang, reacting to your statement.
(Photo embedded of Wolfgang on Laugh-In, for readers who have no idea what that remark means. Wolfgang was a Nazi soldier, who'd poke through bushes, and then comment on the previous gag by saying, "Verrry interesting" -- generally with the appended critique, "...but schtupit!" It was one of Laugh-In's many famous tag lines that pervaded pop culture during the late 1960s to early 1970s.)

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ORIGINAL: Euryanx
... let's not disparage wanking material - it's probably about the only thing my ex-boyfriend ever read

Disparage wanking material??? Moi??? ROTFLMBO.


Before explaining why I find your remark so hysterically funny, let's peel off your ex-boyfriend statement. Despite my buddies' magazine freebie proclivities (noted below), it appears he would have been odd man out in my social circle!

I used to work for a mass market magazine and book wholesaler. Employee spiff: 10 free magazines (or 5 books) per week of our choosing. That's far more than any solo person wants/needs/can stash around the house. So, I gathered a list of titles friends found desirable: either too expensive and/or embarrassing for them to buy at the newsstand. (Preface to the following statement: Ti -- pronounced "tie" -- is the tail end of Patti -- regular pronunciation.) I was dubbed Patti's Porno Palace.

I still live with the "consequences" of my generosity. My long-term partner was one of many Patti's Porno Palace beneficiaries. He has a large photocopier paper box, filled to the brim, with girlie magazines. He's long since finished paging through those babes, yet refuses to part with a single issue. I guess they manifest archival/reference value?!?!? So, the whole kit and caboodle sits beneath a living room chair because he can't handle the thought of the box being relocated to my storage closet on another floor. (I guess the gals must send out vibes to him, and he needs the box nearby.) Perish the thought something might happen to all those nekkid women. (Sigh!)

Besides, if I'm not into humiliating my sub, why would sausage parties and mammary memories qualify as "belittle-able" subject matter? In fact, one of our "sideline" entanglements involves being Glamourcon's Chicago liaisons.


It's all the T&A a person can muster.... Vanilla on the surface.... But you never heard a word from me that if you know where to look.... Well, mum's the word. LMBO.

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ORIGINAL: Euryanx
I am amatuer historian, and have a passion for ancient Greece.

If I knew you better, that line would be difficult to ignore. (OY! Why are you baiting me like this????) I don't know you well enough. ;-p.....

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ORIGINAL: Euryanx
Euryanx is the name of an obscure character from Herodotus' "The History."

Yup! Not many names get more obscure than that!!

I can count on one hand the people I've crossed paths with who opted for such remote literary name adoptions.

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ORIGINAL: Euryanx
I spent a portion of my youth using my body for other people's entertainment, using my mind and my pen to arouse someone, seems a lot easier, and involves a lot less sweat.

It's unfortunate that there's no audio component here to grasp your vocal inflections when making such statements. When read, I perceive an element of braggadocio (rationalization/justification?) to this aspect of your post -- despite your assessment of previous stupidity.

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ORIGINAL: Euryanx
Is this part of the book you say you are working on?

Are you asking if my pending post will be an extract from the book? If so, absolutely NOT! (Persistent, ain't cha!?!?!) None of that book will be posted to bulletin boards or online. That's how we got into the above matter regarding wanking material!

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ORIGINAL: Euryanx
And is it about BDSM?

Not sure if the "it" refers to my post or the memoir. Are you asking if the book is about BDSM? If so, then I have to say that it's not. My book is my memoir. I'm far more than a blob of ambulatory D/s, just as I expect my houseboy to be a fully realized person, with a far broader cognitive/affective/libidinal focus than mere BDSM. The flames that ignite in my libido are only one aspect of my entire being.

For BDSM reading matter, I regularly suggest Jack Rinella's weekly e-zine (click Free E-zine ... I guarantee he will not spam you or sell your e-mail address), plus his old articles are now archived on his site [click Kinky Info]). Search for a topic that interests you and see what pops up. No subject matter is off limits, including the details of Jack's sexual indulgences, generally described with a "lesson" in mind.



Given your historical affinities, you might be intrigued by some of Jack's less libidinal/more intellectual analyses. For example, check out this 2003 article:



(Warning! There's a URL in the article that's supposed to lead you to photos that support the article's text. Apparently, when Jack revamped his website's organization he did not update that link, along with numerous others that remain in limbo. *IF* you politely send him a flogger and tell him to beat himself, and then update the link, and then beat himself again, he just *MIGHT* follow through!?!... or not. <smiles> Not sure what's up with the defunct links. Perhaps they're works in progress. I could swear that Patrick used to be Jack's webmaster, though there's no overt trace of that now. Assuming (and you know what happens when one assumes) that Patrick still provides that service, perhaps it's Patrick's "fault" that the links didn't get updated. If that's the case, IMO the onus falls back on Jack, since Patrick is his property and it's Jack's article.... Not that I'd seriously tell another dominant how to run his life. <insert evil grin> But I digress. Welcome to my life: Too much to say.... to too many people.... Not enough hours in the day to get it all expressed.)

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ORIGINAL: Euryanx
(just curious)

As in: I Am Curious (Yellow)? (THERE’s a seminal late '60s reference that will get lost and misconstrued by many! ;-) )

Dunno about you, but exchanges like this are the sorts I have via e-mail, IM (though I rarely chat, as I don't have oodles of spare time, waiting for people to type detailed answers), phone, or face-to-face. IMO it's too far removed from bulletin board threads to continue here. Therefore, if you decide to reply to this section of my posts, please relocate to my e-mail box. I'll provide a "real" e-mail address where I can be reached. I'm running into ongoing problems with CollarMe's server attenuating e-mail text.

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RE: Favorite HOT D/s experiences - 8/10/2005 2:39:11 PM   
Nuke718


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Status: offline 		OK Ti, quit complaining. I'd contribute, but my hottest so far was as a top.
And this is the Mistress forum.

Would be happy to share elswhere tho ;-)

Nuke }:-

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RE: Favorite HOT D/s experiences - 8/14/2005 1:10:03 PM   
tarnishedhalo777


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Status: offline 		MIne would be the first time I made my ex,my bitch....the look into each others eyes ..omg, that was the biggest turn on for me.

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RE: Favorite HOT D/s experiences - 8/14/2005 6:40:44 PM   
Euryanx


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Thank you for your detailed reply, as well as the links and the obscure references to Laugh-In and I Am Curious Yellow. ;-)

Rather than respond to your many colorful points, I think I'm going to try to get back to the subject at hand, namely real-life experience.

My boyfriend of five years Jesse knew of my past BDSM experiences and was always pushing me to play the role of the Mistress with him. I'm really more of a sub than a Domme, but I decided to oblige him, mainly to get him off my back. So I left him this phone message on his answering machine:

"Hi Jesse. So you want to play, do you? Okay, this Saturday I want to be at my house at 1:00 sharp. I want you to drive her naked... you heard me... naked. Wear only your long jacket - with nothing on underneath. When you get to my house, be prepared to be blindfolded as soon as you walk in the door. And... don't be surprised if you see a strange car in the driveway, because I just might invite a friend over to play with you too. So, you really want to play? If so, be here at 1:00. See ya." Click.

The "strange car" i mentioned was my brother's car. He'd left it at my house and wouldn't be picking it up for a week. But Jesse didn't know that. Just seeing a strange car in the driveway ought to get his imagination running - especially when he had no idea who might be in the house - particularly because he knew he was going to be blindfolded.

On Saturday, Jesse showed up at 1:00 sharp all right. And he'd followed my instructions. He came to the door wear only his long coat - with nothing on underneath. I met him at the door wearing a pair of skin tight black leather pants and a see through blouse.
He looked at the cars in the driveway, looked at me, and gulped. I could see the fear and excitement in his eyes. But not for long. As soon as he stepped inside the door I took his coat from him, and blindfolded him.

"Who's here?" he asked nervously.

"You'll see," I purred.

I led him into my den, where i pretended to hold a conversation with someone else in the room. Of course there wasn't anyone there, but Jesse didn't know that. He stood in the middle of the room blindfolded and naked. Sweat started pouring from him.

I sat down on my coffee table and positioned him over my knee. I had a paddle ready, and started things off by giving him a nice sound spanking. I didn't intend on making this a regular part of our intimacy, so I was hard him. I didn't want him to like this - at all.

After I was done with him he was soaked with sweat and excitement. I stood up and made him kneel in the center of the room. Tied his hands behind his back with a scarf. Then i lowered the zipper of my black leather pants and... well... the rest i'll leave to your imagination. Eventually I removed the blindfold. During this entire little charade I'd been chatting with an imaginary person in the room, so poor Jesse thought his paddling and his performing oral sex on me was all witnessed by some stranger. He was relieved and surprised to find out we were alone. We both laughed about it later.

Sadly, my paddling of him didn't really work. I mean, I didn't want him to ever ask me to do this again, but ironically he loved every bit of what I'd done to him, and was always after me to play the role of his Mistress again. *sigh* Ah well. Things don't always go as planned. But it was fun to play the role of Mistress on occasion.

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RE: Favorite HOT D/s experiences - 8/17/2005 10:58:50 PM   
TiNeedsHouseboy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Euryanx
The "strange car" i mentioned was my brother's car. He'd left it at my house and wouldn't be picking it up for a week. But Jesse didn't know that. <snip>
I led him into my den, where i pretended to hold a conversation with someone else in the room. Of course there wasn't anyone there, but Jesse didn't know that.

Hi, Steve! Great tale (tail? LMBO). I'm having a major deja vu experience due to the car and fake conversation elements. Have you ever posted this scene elsewhere -- perhaps on DOMestic -- quite some time back?

I'm sure you think I'm stalling on the promised two-part post on this thread. I've got my hands full.

Will be tied up amid frantic missing commas and generalized typo abuses through Monday morning. I generously/foolishly volunteered for an editing project on an advice book that's about to go to press, without a clue that I'd be jumping into a tsunami of corrections. <Mutter....Mumble...$#&*@@>

I posted a question to you on one of the other threads as a follow-up to something you posted. I'm sure you'll find it.

Back to the editing morass....

~ Ti ~

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RE: Favorite HOT D/s experiences - 8/17/2005 11:18:30 PM   
AAkasha


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Hmm, well where does someone start?

I'll offer a completely different perspective. Does anyone have any HOT D/s experiences that were not HOT because of the extreme nature, the extreme intimacy, or any kind of edginess? They'd seem ridiculously tame to an outsider -- but to you, *WOW*?

I can get really turned on by tame, tame bondage in the right circumstances -- it's so much about the intensity of the moment. A few people here know I have a bit of a hockey fetish. I get incredibly turned on by the idea that a man gets put in a box when he's bad, and I love the pinning that happens along the boards and the desperation to get free. Instant wet panties.

About three years ago a young Russian player on our team caught my eye for some reason, and I asked a veteran Russian player to ask the younger one if he had ever been tied up (this was at a charity event). The elder Russian did, and came back to me later and said yes, he had. I knew that had to be a lie -- not only that he had been tied up, but that the veteran even asked him. He just blew it off.

The next season, a year later, I asked the young Russian myself, since his English must be better by then. I asked him first if the veteran had asked him a question for me, and he said yes. And he got embarassed. I didn't believe him so I made him repeat the question, and indeed, he had. But, he said no, no way, he had never been tied up. But, he had thought about it. It was a bit of a kick that he was actually asked the question a year earlier, and that he remembered it.

For two years or so at random encounters he always did remember, but had this impossible to read reaction -- sort of confused, timid, stoic sometimes. During the lockout he played in another location, and a girlfriend and I were going there for a concert, so we went to a game in the same trip. We got back from concert and on our way back to our room, who comes into the elevator but a very drunk Russian. He recognized us, and said "hi, what're you doing?" and I said (jokingly) "taking you to our room." (Yes, I did mean it as a joke). He thought I MEANT it, and came to our room. Long story short, I told him there was no way he was getting any sex (since that's obviously why he came, and my invitation certainly could have suggested that, so I wanted to be crystal clear), but he was welcome to stay and get tied up. He said ok.

He got no sex, he got nothing. But, I got to tie him up -- and, while that was incredibly tame compared to things I have *done* to people, it was HOT. My vanilla-ish GF was there, and even SHE got turned on by the helpless bondage hockey boy.

It's going to be hard to top that this season. I think that was some good karma in action though!!

Akasha

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RE: Favorite HOT D/s experiences - 8/18/2005 8:46:20 PM   
MistressGrace07


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one of the hotter ones that comes to mind was a kidnap scene/role play... I had the boy tied and told him what he was feeling and hearing (W/we were actually just in My bedroom) but he got so into it... then at one point his "Captor" (Me) sat on his back and pulled a gun on him (I had a fake, but feels and looks real, gun) I cocked it and put it at his head and told him that unless he pleasured the ever living life out of Me, I'd blow his brains out.....

it was an amazinggggggg scene.

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RE: Favorite HOT D/s experiences - 8/21/2005 3:53:16 PM   
subimale49


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Status: offline 		My hottest and most memorable scene was back in 1992. I was a personal slave for 3 years to a young lady who was attending Harvard University. I would travel from my home 3-4 times a week to serve her needs. Mistress's family lived close to me so often on Sundays, mistress would be in my area. This was before the day of cell phones. She would beep me (remember the beeper?) and I would call and make arrangements to see her.

On this particular Sunday evening, we found ourselves at Colt State Park in Bristol, Rhode Island. It was in early August, around 8 in the evening. We were walking along the path near the water, when mistress told me to remove all of my clothing. I was scared as we had never played outdoors before, and never in a public place. Mistress led me to a large tree and ordered me to face the tree and hug it with my arms. Mistress pulled a length of rope out of her pocketbook and tied my hands.

Mistress took a switch off the tree and started really laying into my ass with it. I started making a lot of noise, so mistress removed her shorts, took off her panties and stuffed them into my mouth. Mistress put her shorts back on and went to work, carving my ass once again. It couldn't have been more than a couple of minutes, when 2 girls approached us. I could hear them laughing and they asked mistress what was going on. I wanted to disappear into the dirt when mistress told them I was her slave and I was being punished because she felt like punishing me. Mistress untied my hands and told me to thank her for the whipping. The girtls laughed hysterically as mistress removed her panties from my mouth and I got to my knees and frantically started kissing and licking her bare feet through her sandles. I thought I was going to die, I was so humiliated.

After the girls left mistress told me I was a good boy and let me plant a kiss on each on of her butt cheeks before letting me get dressed. On the ride back home, I thanked mistress over and over. It was extremely humiliating, but extremely exciting at the same time. God, I miss you Mistress Alyx.

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