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jezzabelle -> RE: How many... (9/17/2007 1:16:49 PM)

i've been with a whopping two people, lol.  First one was my hubby when i was a month shy of turning 20 and the other was a girl he and i had sex with when i was 32.  That's been it.  Not a lot of history to share.



alivingdoll -> RE: How many... (9/17/2007 1:49:25 PM)

Growing up in a very rural small town in Washington sex and drugs was all there was so I had sex .We started as a circle of friends coupled up  but 5 yrs later everyone had exchanged partners , that was 4 what can I say the pool was shallow in that town lol.

Then moved to a larger city first guy of interest we began a poly closed relationship(meaning all partners were mog to one another no outsiders) So my numbers are 9 

I'm 37 right now I'm being so wreckless . I'm giving commitment to one guy a try. I hope I can respect myself after this lol.
                                          ~~~~Doll
                        
       



SusanofO -> RE: How many... (9/17/2007 2:44:12 PM)

Nine (9) in my life (I've tended toward longer-term relationships, IMO). That includes everyone - including the person who raped me (and some folks might not count him, because with him it wasn't really sex, it was a crime, he was a total stranger), and 2 people I only slept with once, that I never ever saw again, after that night.

So - I am 49 years old, and I'd classify 5 of those 9 (all men) as long-term romantic partners (more than half with whom I had a relationship of 3 years or longer)

Of the rest: 2 were "One night stands", one was a rapist, and one a relationship in-between 1 night and 3 years (several months).

I had oral sex with all of them (as well as vaginal sex.) Only 2 involved D/s relationships, and BDSM activity, as well as sex.

I don't feel ashamed of any of that, particularly. But probably would not have mentioned it in such specific terms, if someone had not out-right asked.

But you did - and I answered you (aren't you proud of me?)[:)] 

- Susan



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: How many... (9/17/2007 8:37:41 PM)

My closest guess is about 150.  However, most of that was between 2002 and 2005.  Only a few dozen before and only about 6 since.



daddysprop247 -> RE: How many... (9/18/2007 10:01:47 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SusanofO

Nine (9) in my life (I've tended toward longer-term relationships, IMO). That includes everyone - including the person who raped me (and some folks might not count him, because with him it wasn't really sex, it was a crime, he was a total stranger), and 2 people I only slept with once, that I never ever saw again, after that night.

So - I am 49 years old, and I'd classify 5 of those 9 (all men) as long-term romantic partners (more than half with whom I had a relationship of 3 years or longer)

Of the rest: 2 were "One night stands", one was a rapist, and one a relationship in-between 1 night and 3 years (several months).

I had oral sex with all of them (as well as vaginal sex.) Only 2 involved D/s relationships, and BDSM activity, as well as sex.

I don't feel ashamed of any of that, particularly. But probably would not have mentioned it in such specific terms, if someone had not out-right asked.

But you did - and I answered you (aren't you proud of me?)[:)] 

- Susan



actually yes, i am proud of you. [:D] and everyone else who has been brave and kind enough to share their sexual "stats."




daddysprop247 -> RE: How many... (9/18/2007 10:03:21 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

My closest guess is about 150.  However, most of that was between 2002 and 2005.  Only a few dozen before and only about 6 since.


why have things slowed down?

btw i'm envious of your number, i feel like somewhat less of a slut now, which is not a good thing lol.




SusanofO -> RE: How many... (9/18/2007 10:16:56 AM)

daddysprop: Well, I thought it was an intriguing topic. I don't see why anyone should be ashamed to admit how many partners. Especially on a site such as this one. Glad to have helped.

- Susan



Lashra -> RE: How many... (9/18/2007 10:25:42 AM)

Wow my number is shockingly low compared to some here, I've been with 12 over the years and if I am involved in a relationship and my partner asks, I do tell them truthfully as I expect them to tell me. But I think if a person doesn't want to tell then that it their business.

~Lashra



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: How many... (9/18/2007 10:31:28 AM)

i'm 38 and i've only had 2 sexual partners  ...they were my ex and former dom.

it's not about sex between Daddy and i which is just fine with me



WinsomeDefiance -> RE: How many... (9/18/2007 10:35:34 AM)

I've had 8 partners in the last 21 years.  As much as I enjoy sex, I'm surprised myself it isn't higher.   Though I was monogomously and faithfully married for 10 years of those 21 and have had only 4 partners in the last 10 years.  I really need to get out more!



e01n -> RE: How many... (9/18/2007 11:22:36 AM)

Satyr: nope, no excuse coming from my quarter... putting 'em up or even an honest "I don't really remember" would be fair.

"Serious" relationships: 1
"Moderately Serious": 3
"Friends with benefits": 8
"Um, this never happened - I was never here": 3
someone who's name I never learned: 1

I'm pleased with my symmetry in a rather abstract way, yet blanch at the fact that I can count all of this out so easily. I think that what makes it more odd is that all of my "sex" as defined in OP has been very measured out and deliberate (with 1 exception), yet I have problems even thinking of how many people I may have tied up or flogged and gotten sexual satisfaction with that way... or equally gotten satisfaction from being on the receiving end of the same. I can barely even remember the name of the person who caned me last, much less the name of who I last caned...

Dammit! - I need someone to volunteer to be "the last" so I can remember them... [;)]



WinsomeDefiance -> RE: How many... (9/18/2007 11:56:47 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: e01n
Dammit! - I need someone to volunteer to be "the last" so I can remember them... [;)]


Hmm, if it was floggings, or crops, or paddlings I might volunteer [:)] .  Not so much into the canes.  Sorry E01N! 

edited to add:  the numerical symmetry is pretty cool. 



e01n -> RE: How many... (9/18/2007 12:31:54 PM)

Canes, floggers, fire, knives... eh, I'm pretty open, flexible and versatile.

Damn, I'm such a slut! [;)]



adoracat -> RE: How many... (9/18/2007 4:37:37 PM)

lets see...married 10 years to my ex, had 3 others before that.  (all non consentual)  my current husband,  and a few others....14 total, plus three women.

and i dont think i would skip any of them.

kitten



e01n -> RE: How many... (10/14/2007 11:08:55 PM)

I think that in all fairness, I can finally say I've found "my last"... and what's even more amazing to me is that I don't really care if She becomes #17 and destroys the symmetry of my little grouping...



kittyinpink -> RE: How many... (10/14/2007 11:31:47 PM)

I was deflowered when I was 17.  Best decision I ever made!

I try not to count, but I know since I've been in college the number has tripled



velvetears -> RE: How many... (10/14/2007 11:46:18 PM)

Lost my virginity at 13, i am 47 now and have had 12 partners total.



earthycouple -> RE: How many... (10/15/2007 10:00:09 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: e01n

I think that in all fairness, I can finally say I've found "my last"... and what's even more amazing to me is that I don't really care if She becomes #17 and destroys the symmetry of my little grouping...



I'm "She", I'm "She"

Yes, Lovely e01n, it is quite safe to say.  You fit into my personal space in the best of ways.  You fit into your new family with ease.  You fit into life "near Gurnee" beautifully.  You fit me exquisitely.  Lucky for us, I fit you too.....



BeingChewsie -> RE: How many... (10/15/2007 10:14:00 AM)

3..the first was a guy I married, second was a guy I served for a little, and then R.  I am 35. None of them were casual.

I need to add in 2 women..I never considered them in the total.

I'll add that R makes up for my low number..as his is in the triple digits and still growing...over a 35 year period.

If ever allowed I'm going to raise my number by getting it on with as many hot women as possible :).

quote:

ORIGINAL: daddysprop247

...sexual partners have you had?

the "sexual past" thread on the General board sparked this question, which i'm sure has been asked before, but never by me, so there you go. [:D]

i'm curious not just about the answers but about how many of us here are actually bold enough to share...after all, it's just sex right? no biggie. and "sex" btw, in this thread will be defined as any act of oral sex, anal sex, or intercourse with another person or persons.

so how many? also i'd be interested in knowing your age (or age range), and what percentage of your partners were casual vs. romantic/relationship partners. and don't worry, i'll spill the beans myself shortly. [8D]



LaTigresse -> RE: How many... (10/15/2007 10:26:01 AM)

I'm 45

3 men..... plus one incident when I was a child of 11 or so, molested by an older male 25ish, distant family member
2 women

The 5 that I count as consentual, I love/d



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