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ORIGINAL: ocilla
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I love love teasing merciliously and then sending them over the top in terms of pleasure.  I love being pampered and never being taken for granted.  I love knowing that he has absolute trust in me and that he is really turned o n by me.

I find that when a man who is quite dominant and in control in his work life yet trusts me, yearns for me and is into me enough to give up control to me and has a deep desire to please me, extremely satisfying and a huge turn on for me.  I like to see how far they will go and then I like to know what their triggers are - turn ons, etc and use those in creative ways to kind of blow their mind as a reward to him for pleasing me. 

Part of the motivation is that it is satisfying - and part of it is a sense of relief that in a world where women are not treated equally in so many ways that I can kind of release my anger over the injustice I feel and accept the lovely submission of my man. 
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A man that wants to make me happy on all physical and mental levels makes my heart go ‘thud’ - likewise, I am devoted in return. Loyalty and devotion is a turn on for me.