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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 2:08:35 PM   
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Blaakmaan, you asked,

"With respect to many of you, I can't help but wonder, why it's so damned hard to see what's right in front of your face?"



I think we can see how this flag can be offensive towards you, but that doesn't mean that we view the flag in the same way. Some of us choose to view the flag as what it evolved into, and some of us choose to view it as it originally was, such as myself. When I see the flag, I simply see the flag of the Army of Northern Virginia.

I do not attribute to this flag what you attribute to it. It is just a symbol, each of us chooses what importance we want to give to it. Now, I used to overflow with anger at the sight of this flag, until doing research for a paper on General Lee, I found out that this was not the actual "Confederate Flag."

I don't think that your perspective is more correct than mine, just as you don't think that my perspective should override yours. I do not disqualify your perspective just because it isn't the same as mine.

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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 2:17:07 PM   
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ok i get it-your opinion is the only one that matters-and were all ignorant as heck....thanks for the awakening to what is right and wrong in my thinking.....

i no longer wish to defend your right to be offended by the flag.......i think youre offended by anyone or anything that doesnt absolutely agree with your outlook on something.....so if you dont have to give me the right to how i feel, which to me is right and not racist in my mind and heart-i dont have to allow you to be pissed about something that happened a generation ago....

im getting the rebel flag tag for my truck tomorrow......thanks for helping me make up my mind on this touchy subject.....glad to know, no matter how much i try to be understanding and sensitive, jerks are still gonna be jerks.......

have you ever worn a hat or shirt or anything with the big X on it?





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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 2:23:55 PM   
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Okay, i'm one of those "damn" yankees who moved to South Carolina after having been raised a Swedish-decent Lutheran in Minnesota... was raised to see racism as an atrocity and the N word held equal punishment in my childhood home as saying the F word. i was taught only the ignorant and the crass would think or talk like that.

One of the first things i noticed when i moved here is that EVERYthing is race related and that it is nearly a crime to be caucasion or non Baptist. My UMs were called "white boy" and "white girl" every single day even by teachers and bus drivers. My daughter's best friend was not allowed to even come to our house because we are white and the friend was black. Recently a hiring decision i made at work was challenged by one of the internal applicants and the FIRST thing the HR director asked me was if the woman i hired was black. Had i hired a white person i would have had to make a written statement to defend that decision. Luckily i hired a black woman.

i can honestly say that 95% of the racism i've experienced since i moved here has been hatred toward whites.

The problem with symbols is that any symbol can be offensive to someone. Doing away with one symbol and another takes its place. Maybe a certain amount not taking symbols so seriously coupled with being more sensitive to others would result in more tolerance. Maybe seeing people as more alike than different would help. Name calling has never been productive.



Well, you're a white man, aren't you?  Just how would you "experience" white hatred toward blacks???




no.  i'm a Swedish-American WOMAN and i can't experience anything for anyone else nor did i claim to but it's nice to see real hatred alive and well in your thoughts.  i don't recall being mean, in fact i clearly stated that name calling is totally unproductive.

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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 2:30:07 PM   
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ok i get it-your opinion is the only one that matters-and were all ignorant as heck....thanks for the awakening to what is right and wrong in my thinking.....

i no longer wish to defend your right to be offended by the flag.......i think youre offended by anyone or anything that doesnt absolutely agree with your outlook on something.....so if you dont have to give me the right to how i feel, which to me is right and not racist in my mind and heart-i dont have to allow you to be pissed about something that happened a generation ago....

im getting the rebel flag tag for my truck tomorrow......thanks for helping me make up my mind on this touchy subject.....glad to know, no matter how much i try to be understanding and sensitive, jerks are still gonna be jerks.......

have you ever worn a hat or shirt or anything with the big X on it?



This is my favorite part of these kinds of threads...When people simply can't help themselves..They will always manage to show their true colors.

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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 2:33:24 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: eyesopened

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ORIGINAL: Blaakmaan

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ORIGINAL: eyesopened

Okay, i'm one of those "damn" yankees who moved to South Carolina after having been raised a Swedish-decent Lutheran in Minnesota... was raised to see racism as an atrocity and the N word held equal punishment in my childhood home as saying the F word. i was taught only the ignorant and the crass would think or talk like that.

One of the first things i noticed when i moved here is that EVERYthing is race related and that it is nearly a crime to be caucasion or non Baptist. My UMs were called "white boy" and "white girl" every single day even by teachers and bus drivers. My daughter's best friend was not allowed to even come to our house because we are white and the friend was black. Recently a hiring decision i made at work was challenged by one of the internal applicants and the FIRST thing the HR director asked me was if the woman i hired was black. Had i hired a white person i would have had to make a written statement to defend that decision. Luckily i hired a black woman.

i can honestly say that 95% of the racism i've experienced since i moved here has been hatred toward whites.

The problem with symbols is that any symbol can be offensive to someone. Doing away with one symbol and another takes its place. Maybe a certain amount not taking symbols so seriously coupled with being more sensitive to others would result in more tolerance. Maybe seeing people as more alike than different would help. Name calling has never been productive.



Well, you're a white man, aren't you?  Just how would you "experience" white hatred toward blacks???




no.  i'm a Swedish-American WOMAN and i can't experience anything for anyone else nor did i claim to but it's nice to see real hatred alive and well in your thoughts.  i don't recall being mean, in fact i clearly stated that name calling is totally unproductive.


Unfortunately, that doesn't mean anything. The moment you were born, you inherited the crimes and the guilt from actions taken by past generations. You must bear the burden now, you must be insensitive, unable to understand, unable to sympathize. And your only crime was being born white.

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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 2:33:56 PM   
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Well, I get that one!

The reference is to the quotation:

"It is better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to open your mouth and remove all doubt," which has been attributed to George Eliot, among others.

I'm not sure if I should be offended by your post, since it's supposed to be a reply to mine.

But, I always fly my flag, and I'm never a fool.

Anyway, substance, please...!

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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 2:41:12 PM   
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My point is not that the flag is offensive to me.

The question wasn't am I (or are you) offended by the Confederate flag.

My point (and the answer to the question that was initially posted) is that the flag is offensive to many people, and particularly to African-Americans!

The test of whether or not something is offensive, is whether people are, in fact, offended by it.

And people are offended by that flag.

That's not a matter of opinion, it's a matter of fact!

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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 2:44:06 PM   
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If you say it's so, it must be so!

Damn!

Can I get some substance???

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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 2:47:28 PM   
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Well, let's get personal, why don't we?

What a deep comment, SeeksOnlyOne!

You're gonna run right out and get that rebel flag for that good ol' pickup, huh?

Well, I think that says all about you that I would ever need to know!

I'm glad I'm not a sub!  Some of you couldn't lead me to the bathroom!

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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 2:50:25 PM   
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You all need to STOP!

White man, Swedish-American (I thought that was white!) woman!

All the same to me!

And, I wasn't aware that "white" was name-calling around here!

What ever happened to substance?

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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 2:54:43 PM   
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Ok  folks, it's time to chill please.

Thank you.

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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 2:56:50 PM   
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This thread needs a little levity...How about checking this out....

http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://cagle.msnbc.com/news/flag/flaggifs3/20000119edhan-a.gif&imgrefurl=http://cagle.msnbc.com/news/flag/&h=379&w=500&sz=21&tbnid=nptslNxFQqtv4M:&tbnh=99&tbnw=130&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dconfederate%2Bflag%26um%3D1&start=2&sa=X&oi=images&ct=image&cd=2

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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 3:02:46 PM   
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What Blaakmaan doesnt seem to grasp is that he thinks that events can only be interpreted correctly thru' his eyes and he simply will NOT accept anything else.

If its not considered patronising I think you should hold to your views even tho' they are not totally correct lol

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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 3:05:57 PM   
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He said he finds the confederate flag to be offensive "to him"...What is so difficult to understand about that?

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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 3:10:56 PM   
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There's really not much Blaakmaan fails to grasp.

I thought the moderator wanted us to chill...

Does that mean we can continue, but with a lowered temperature?  Or that we should stop the discussion?  I'm unclear.

I would invite anybody to give a substantive response to anything I posted, as opposed to personal attacks, which I'd be more than happy to return if not for the admonition of Moderator 11...

I'm not fazed by personal attacks, although I don't think they move the discussion forward, which is supposed to be the point.

I really didn't think I was personally attacking anybody in my post, as opposed to attacking the factual accuracy of what you asserted, when facts actually were asserted.

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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 3:15:47 PM   
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I find the flag to be offensive...I do jump to conclusions about those who choose to "fly" it....There have been others on this thread that have chimed in to say that they also find it to be offensive....If you go through the cartoons in the link that I posted,  There are obviously many people who have reached the same conclusion.

Judging how the "flag waving Southerners" are depicted within these cartoons it is rather obvious that others share in my mindset as to what type of individual still clings to this relic from the past.

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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 3:21:51 PM   
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This wasnt the case prior to the revolution. More white people were indentured servants, ie white slaves, than black people. Most left their homelands due to religious persecution or because they were convicts. Here in the UK if you were caught stealing to feed your family, the choice was " Do you want to hang or be removed to the Colonies " Guess which people " Chose" The founding fathers left England not for a better life but to escape persecution.

As far as the flag is concerned, it`s a bit of a generalisation to call everyone displaying it white scum.




"Indentured servants, i.e., white slaves"???

There were fundamental differences between indentured servants and slaves!

An indentured servant willingly entered into his agreement to serve his or her "master" for a definite period of years.  In exchange for his or her service for those years, an indentured servant received free passage from Europe to America.

An indentured servant could, after the indenture was completely served, go on to be a property-owning (even a slave-owning), voting, full member of society. Often, at the end of his or her service, an indentured servant received his or her own plot of land to work.

Does that sound like slavery as blacks knew it in America?  I don't think so!

While an indentured servant's period of indenture was settled and finite, a slave served his or her master until the day he or she died!  While an indentured servant's status did not pass down to his or her children, the child of a slave was, by definition, a slave.  A slave's status as slave was inherited, and a slave could not escape his status until he was freed by his owner, or was allowed to purchase his freedom, or escaped from slave territory.  The status passed down, from generation to generation, in perpetuity, until slavery was abolished!

An indentured servant had rights.  As the Supreme Court famously ruled, a slave had "no rights a white man need respect."

So, let's not talk about indentured servants and slaves as though the two statuses were equivalent, ok?

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To me, that case is closed!

If you don't want to see that, I can't make you, and I wouldn't bother trying.  You'll see what you want to see, and you won't see what you would prefer not to see!

With respect to many of you, I can't help but wonder, why it's so damned hard to see what's right in front of your face?



Do you really know the history of indentured servants prior to the revolution, which is which i have refered to all along ? Firstly, the terms convicts had to serve were 7 years minimum, the maximum term was often indeterminate and set by the slave owner. A minor infringement was enough to increase the term, as the owner wished. Poor white people worked the same jobs, lived in the same conditions and endured the same punishments as the Africans they worked alongside.

Not all white people were enslaved either, many had been kidnapped and sold, till death, and yes any children in a relationship inherited their parents slavery. If you think this is B/s look up the word kidnapped. Kid and nap or nab which are slang english words for snatch. Street urchins were taken from major ports and cities to work on mainly North American plantations.
Are these children any different than the ones taken from Africa, it seems to me none had any say in the matter. I know the numbers involved with whites were nowhere near as large, but i never said they were.

Here is one link but there are many available for you to read.
http://www.crusader.net/texts/bt/bt07.html

As you said yourself, you will see or not see what you wish.

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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 3:27:26 PM   
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He said he finds the confederate flag to be offensive "to him"...What is so difficult to understand about that?


Nothing at all. It has been admitted by posters that not all who display the Confederate Flag have pristine motives.
That this is not true of all who display it is a FACT that people who take your side will not accept.
Maybe as an outsider I do not "get it" but the point of view I express was present in a link provided by Alumbrado, who was trying to demolish what I and others are saying.

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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 3:30:43 PM   
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I agree that there are obviously people who feel different about that red rag than I do....To each their own...I will even go as far as to defend their right to fly it....Doesn't change the fact that some people find it to be offensive.

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RE: Heritage or Hate? - 9/19/2007 3:43:27 PM   
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someone said something about symbols and just gettin over em. the thing is symbols run really deep inside of us. i am a painter and have studied a lot of symbols. the reaction is visceral, it is not something you dictate your mind to respond or not.

being a beaver from canuckville i am not as connected to the confederate flag. but i get the whole cracker, redneck thing and i hate it.

i have a friend in alabama he attempts to convey to me the shite that goes on there in terms of race.

i find Ku klux klan offensive, i find white supremacy disgusting. ya know if ya think about it, our society is so technologically- advanced. what i like to imagine is, what if Africa hadnt been a third world country all these centuries long? how bout if South, Central america wernt either. can you imagine the influx, the contributions these continents would have made to our very cold and heartless world (in so many ways)? there would be more balance, more color, better fashion, music, language, art etc. i mean considering all the things black people, for example have brought to our world in spite of the hell and crap they have had to endure cuz they funky like that. (i mean good funky not stank funky)



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