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Don't Stop - 9/18/2007 4:53:54 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		Today Master and i were playing, and he was doing something very enjoyable to me.  It felt really good and i begged him please Master don't stop.  He did stop because i was hypervenaliting and he was afraid i was going to have a heart attack.  I did not care i did not want him to stop but he was looking out for me when i was not able to look out for myself.  He hugged me and said ok sweetheart relax come down.

So has this happen to others?  Something your Master/Daddy is doing to you that you enjoy, and you don't want him to stop but he does because he is looking out for your health.

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RE: Don't Stop - 9/18/2007 4:57:24 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		I have, yes.  I have been the one stopping. Dealing with painsluts, they forget their are physical limits whether or not they want them to be there. When Kitten and I were playing, he would often beg me not to stop. However, watching what he is going through, and how he is reacting, no matter what he says in his subspace I had to make sure I knew his boundaries.
It isnt unheard of, as frusterating as it might be for you. We would prefer to keep our pets healthy, if a tad bit frusterated, rather than seeing if our judgement call might have been wrong.

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RE: Don't Stop - 9/18/2007 5:00:17 PM   
super12


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Status: offline 		kinda like kids asking for more candy while daddy will say no and cut you off... lol

that's exactly why subs has to be trained and limits has to be pushed... slowly, and step by step...

if he keep doing that to you, you may die happy... but he will lose his sub and got in deep shit...

again, i always think subs should have faith on their master and let him/her to take control of you...

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RE: Don't Stop - 9/18/2007 5:02:27 PM   
Littlepita


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Status: offline 		Yes that has happened because he said if he hit me any harder he was afraid he would do some real damage.

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RE: Don't Stop - 9/18/2007 5:49:30 PM   
softpjOS


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Status: offline 		Oh absolutely!  I remember being so upset that She had stopped! 

Later, after we had both had a chance to relax and regroup She explained to me why She had stopped and asked if I had wanted more. 

Mistress takes full responsibility for my health and safety during a heavy scene and will stop if She feels harm may come if it continues. I don't always like it when She stops but I know that I can trust Her not to take it too far :)


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RE: Don't Stop - 9/18/2007 6:25:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		Sure, it's one of the main reasons safewords are not very useful.

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RE: Don't Stop - 9/19/2007 7:46:28 AM   
Celeste43


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Status: offline 		Oh yes. If the bondage is comfortable I never want to be untied. But you can't trust me to know how long I've been lying there or to know that a limb is going cold. He ran his hand over one of my feet once and immediately started undoing the ropes while I was going "no, I don't want to be untied". It was nearly ten minutes before the pins and needles went away with him and me rubbing the whole time.

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RE: Don't Stop - 9/19/2007 1:15:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		I get that same feeling when he's handing me money.

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RE: Don't Stop - 9/19/2007 1:17:50 PM   
painlovingsub


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ORIGINAL: windchymes

I get that same feeling when he's handing me money.


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RE: Don't Stop - 9/19/2007 2:13:02 PM   
ownedkitten


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quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35
So has this happen to others?  Something your Master/Daddy is doing to you that you enjoy, and you don't want him to stop but he does because he is looking out for your health.


There have been several instances while we're playing that I begged Master not to stop, and he did because he saw in my body's reactions that I could not take any more, no matter what I thought I wanted.  He considers it his responsibility to "not break his toys" so to speak.



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RE: Don't Stop - 9/19/2007 2:20:22 PM   
FRSguy


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Status: offline 		You know as a Master you have to do that.  If he had video taped what was going on and showed it to you later you would have understanding.

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RE: Don't Stop - 9/19/2007 3:26:03 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35

Today Master and i were playing, and he was doing something very enjoyable to me.  It felt really good and i begged him please Master don't stop.  He did stop because i was hypervenaliting and he was afraid i was going to have a heart attack.  I did not care i did not want him to stop but he was looking out for me when i was not able to look out for myself.  He hugged me and said ok sweetheart relax come down.

So has this happen to others?  Something your Master/Daddy is doing to you that you enjoy, and you don't want him to stop but he does because he is looking out for your health.

Matt's littleone


This happened to my recently, I was hitting my head (not intentionally of course) on the headboard and looked at him and said, no I dont care, don't stop.  Of course he told me I was a nut and stopped anyway.  Concusions are not fun, in retrospect he was right. :P

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RE: Don't Stop - 9/19/2007 10:26:26 PM   
Daddyskittin


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Status: offline 		Thought it in my head.... yes.... ever verbly begged him not to stop.... no.... but I have medical issues that we both know where my limit is with them.... more often than not he will tell me... "I didn't want to stop, but I'm not done with you yet so I did."

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RE: Don't Stop - 9/19/2007 11:14:20 PM   
ownedgirlie


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ORIGINAL: windchymes

I get that same feeling when he's handing me money.


LMAO!! 

I have, at times, wished he wouldn't stop, but he did for my own well being.  I have, at times, wished he would stop!  I have, at times (when he's holding me on an edge), wished he would start!  I can beg for any of it.  He loves me begging for him to start, which usually prolongs the start just to feed his cruel and sadistic heart, lol.  I don't beg him to stop anything though, it seems wrong to me to beg him to stop doing something he's enjoying. 

But yes, he's quite aware of my state when he's doing what he's doing to me, and will pull back if he thinks it's for my own good.

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RE: Don't Stop - 9/20/2007 7:12:25 AM   
RRafe


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Status: offline 		Subs sometimes forget that WE have limits and safewords too. And that we care.........and the fun is often not worth the collateral damage-that we are going to have to witness and deal with after the fact.

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RE: Don't Stop - 9/20/2007 11:19:32 AM   
junecleaver


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Status: offline 		It happened frequently in the beginning of my relationship.  My partner was (and still is) getting to know me.  I have to be pushed to this certain point with um 'painful pain' before anything starts to feel good.  So we would get to the precipice where the bad was about to feel good and he would stop!  It was very frustrating.  I never begged him not to stop during the play, but while we were discussing it afterwards I asked him why he stopped so soon.  He didn't feel like he knew me well enough to push me that hard.   Sometimes, he doesn't feel comfortable enough with a skill to go very far with it.  Sometimes, his arm gets tired, lol.

Around eight months later, he still stops early during certain activities.  I trust his decisions.  I would rather date the 'safety police' (my affectionate nickname for him ) than someone who had no regard for my health.



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