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RE: Teaching from the bottom - 9/19/2007 9:05:31 AM

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If I did not have the caring guide that is My submissive , this very novice Domme would never have blossommed forth ... I can do all the reading and investigation on the BDSM subject .. but thats never enough is it ! So I for one am grateful for a bottom who is willing to teach ...

You sound like a very wise and insightful woman.

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RE: Teaching from the bottom - 9/19/2007 9:05:49 AM

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I don't think i could teach my Master anything he does not know. Master was taught by his very first sub how to be a good Dom. He is the best Master i could ever have dreamed of. No i could not teach him.

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RE: Teaching from the bottom - 9/19/2007 9:08:55 AM

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I don't think i could teach my Master anything he does not know. Master was taught by his very first sub how to be a good Dom. He is the best Master i could ever have dreamed of. No i could not teach him.

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RE: Teaching from the bottom - 9/19/2007 9:11:18 AM

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I would never enjoy teaching from the bottom, and i do not consider teaching a potential partner about me...to be doing so.
I've never believed that one could be "taught" to be dominant , in my mind, you either are...or you are not. It would lead me to the question of , how would a submissive teach a dominant to be dominant?
Also, i enjoy some rather extreme play, so I've always felt it in my best interest to be partnered with someone who is experienced and enjoys the same type of play that i enjoy.
Some may consider this as "limiting" i consider it no more than a preference, and we all have those.

Edited to add.....this does not include life lessons in general..i enjoy learning as well as teaching...

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RE: Teaching from the bottom - 9/19/2007 9:51:53 AM

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I think the OP is not about teaching someone how to be dominant, but a skill set like flogging or wax play.

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RE: Teaching from the bottom - 9/19/2007 9:57:19 AM

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I think the OP is not about teaching someone how to be dominant, but a skill set like flogging or wax play.

I already stated I agree with aquatic but will expand on being dominant and the passion for a power exchange life cannot be taught and certainly my comments and I personally hope most people comments are not tied into thinking that.

When I refer to teaching/experience it is the toys, talking out and explaining the big picture of things, potential problems and other things that are in this life that we learn by doing.

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RE: Teaching from the bottom - 9/19/2007 1:52:26 PM

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In my reply i was not talking about teaching the Dom that i serve how to be a Dom, He already is one. He just didn't know there was a term for it, or anything else about the BDSM community, use of different toys, looking into Himself and seeing what it is He wants, that sort of thing.

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RE: Teaching from the bottom - 9/19/2007 4:06:05 PM

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Talking to a new Dom, sure. Giving my thoughts, advice, sharing information, no problem. Playing guinea pig for them.... no. Call me selfish, i'm not willing to play with someone unless i know that they know what they're doing. "What do you mean i'm not supposed to punch you in the kidneys?" is NOT what i want to be hearing on my way to the hospital... lol

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RE: Teaching from the bottom - 9/19/2007 7:15:52 PM

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I'm fairly sure I wouldn't want to be with anyone who couldn't teach me something(technique, or about life, or about myself, or about, well anything )....why can't a dom/master type feel the same way? It certainly doesn't make them less domly ...imho.

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