Breast worship-- D/s or not?

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Aimtoplease101 -> Breast worship-- D/s or not? (9/18/2007 6:34:55 PM)
I've noticed a number of folks on CM and other D/s oriented sites listing breast worship, or breast play, as one of their interests. These include dominant women, so there does seem to be a femdom aspect to this type of play for many. What aspect of breast worship makes it a femdom D/s activity? My sense is that breast play is a bit like tofu-- it takes on the flavor of its context, the things surrounding it. In a vanilla sex context, most guys enjoy caressing, licking, suckling, etc., boobs and nipples. In a male dom/ fem sub relationship, the doms seem to enjoy binding, squeezing, twisting, etc., breasts and nipples. Is it the respectful, and therefore "worshipful" approach to breast play that can convert it into a femdom D/s activity? How much of this is really an attractive and enjoyable activity to the Dommes out there, and how much is just wishful thinking and fetish fulfillment for the male subs? If you are a Domme who enjoys breast worship, what aspects of it appeal to you, and how do you like it performed? Regards, ATP

MaamJay -> RE: Breast worship-- D/s or not? (9/18/2007 7:53:52 PM)
I think what makes it D/s is that it is the Domme who controls it ... when it is done, how it is done and yes, the attitude in which it is done. The sub can drop hints that they'd like to ... then it's up to the Domme to decide if She wants it or not! In a vanilla r'ship, the breast worshipper could be much more initiatory and controlling of how long they stay there! And yes, I do enjoy it, love the sensations, love that sort of glazed look in the eyes that the besotted sub gets! Maam Jay aka violet[A]

petdave -> RE: Breast worship-- D/s or not? (9/18/2007 8:33:54 PM)
Dude, you just compared breasts to TOFU??? [&:] Sorry, i just... tofu [&o]

undergroundsea -> RE: Breast worship-- D/s or not? (9/18/2007 8:35:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: petdave Dude, you just compared breasts to TOFU??? [&:] Sorry, i just... tofu [&o] [:D]

Aimtoplease101 -> RE: Breast worship-- D/s or not? (9/18/2007 9:29:07 PM)
Yeah, bad metaphore I guess. On the other hand, I've seen some very nice, firm bouncy bits of tofu in my day ..... ATP

ocilla -> RE: Breast worship-- D/s or not? (9/18/2007 9:31:48 PM)
roflmao. yall are too cute. I have not gone there in a D/s setting yet, but I can see Maam Jay's point. I do like the sensation. And I must admit - the girls are a feature that can mesmerize and it is kind of fun to see the reaction.

FullfigRIMaam -> RE: Breast worship-- D/s or not? (9/18/2007 11:54:10 PM)
His worship of breasts is a submissive act because he's to do it as I ask, when I ask, because I enjoy it, and want him to do it. It doesn't bother me one bit or make me less dominant that a man should enjoy submitting to some of the things I ask of him. If I liked them bound, I'd have him do that too, but I'm a softie, and don't much enjoy pain on myself. M

MsLilac -> RE: Breast worship-- D/s or not? (9/19/2007 1:40:29 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aimtoplease101 Yeah, bad metaphore I guess. On the other hand, I've seen some very nice, firm bouncy bits of tofu in my day ..... ATP Hey, I thought it was a great metaphor! [;)] Lol, I like tofu!

petdave -> RE: Breast worship-- D/s or not? (9/19/2007 7:53:58 AM)
Sorry, i try not to derail serious threads with goofball remarks, but that one got me. To me, the key to body worship in the D/s context is that She is allowing you to touch her body specifically for Her pleasure... i don't approach it as a way to fulfill my fetish for touching a particular body part, but a chance to sort of lose myself in Her... i think it's one of the most intimate ways to express submission... i use every part of my hands, subtle combinations of pressure and movement, tongue, lips, breath, cheeks, hair, eyelashes, all as a very slow and gradually seductive act of massage... But the focus is always on Her reactions. By far, the most frequent result is that She will relax and drift off to sleep, so although i find it very exciting, there is not an element of "getting off" on it in any normal sense, nor is there any active dynamic of teasing and denial. All that She needs to do is permit/encourage me to touch Her, and everything that follows is me actively working and reading her reactions to deliver the sensations that She will enjoy the most. So, it may be wishful thinking on my part to believe that She enjoys this, but i think there's a reasonable basis for doing so [:)]

LadyLynx -> RE: Breast worship-- D/s or not? (9/19/2007 5:23:09 PM)
Oh Damn! I really Did Not need that image in my head!! like I need a pitchfork in my brain.

AFlyInYourWeb -> RE: Breast worship-- D/s or not? (9/19/2007 6:28:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MaamJay I think what makes it D/s is that it is the Domme who controls it ... when it is done, how it is done and yes, the attitude in which it is done. That sums up my feelings about breast worship thoroughly and concisely.

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