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Forced feminization of a butch submissive - 9/19/2007 8:43:46 AM

Aubre

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I wondered if there were bi and lesbian femdoms who would want to do forced feminization on butch females?
I kind of like the idea of being a maledom and force feminizing a butch heterosexual sub (they do exist, I've met them).

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RE: Forced feminization of a butch submissive - 9/19/2007 1:09:44 PM

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I've heard of it happening in the context of a Femme Domme/Butch Sub couple. I don't get the impression that's it's terribly common though. The dynamics of forced femme on a butch female-assigned person would be very different than on a straight, non-trans guy.

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RE: Forced feminization of a butch submissive - 9/19/2007 2:24:43 PM

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I haven't actually heard of it happening. In fact it's one of my limits...I call the limit in simplicity "I don't do pink." Mainly because fighting for my identity as a boi within common society triggers me way too much to be able to handle "forced femme" in play. Just my take on this from the bottom end of things.

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RE: Forced feminization of a butch submissive - 9/19/2007 5:16:56 PM

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for some reason, I can't quite wrap my mind around the idea. Gender identity is such a complex issue, especially when you combine it with those that feel they were born in the wrong body. And somebody wants to take away everything you have built up? Sorry but that seems to scream psychological abuse. I maybe wrong in this perception, but someone who feels like they were born in the wrong body,(usually from an early age.) sooner or later rebuilds themselves, tries to change as much as they can physically/mentally/emotionally to the gender they feel they should be. And all thru this process, and afterwords they are going thru enormous amounts of stress from family members, friends, neighbors,co-workers,students who can't/won't understand why they want this. so much depends on how we see ourselves. To take that away, like taking someone's ability to breathe away. I know when most people (in the bdsm community.) says forced, it is with quotation marks, implying that the other person secretly wants this, but I cannot help but think that person who does want that done to them, isn't as sure about their identity as they thought. Not including soft butches. :) I hope this makes sense. It seems to to me, but then I'm skewed.

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RE: Forced feminization of a butch submissive - 9/19/2007 7:17:13 PM

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I have to agree with BoiJen and LadyLynx on this one. I just don't think that I would enjoy doing any forced fem on a Butch.

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RE: Forced feminization of a butch submissive - 9/20/2007 5:07:37 AM

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Yeah, it's a limit of mine too; but i imagine if some hypothetical butch, boi, or transmasculine fellow was really into sincere and deep humiliation, it might be appealing to them. i think it's akin to black subs who want to do play involving racial humiliation - one has to tread really carefully.

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RE: Forced feminization of a butch submissive - 9/20/2007 5:51:57 AM

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Yes, I think I'm with Lynx on this one. I think this is an area that has far too many real hot spots to simply be a playful form of humiliation.

Besides, I think most of them would break your neck if you tried.

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RE: Forced feminization of a butch submissive - 9/28/2007 7:32:43 AM

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err??? by yaself some frilly panties... and DIY maybe???.... maybe you have some innate feminine energy that needs some release.. but its "easier" to feminize someone else than yourself??? i,m no psychologist... but hey... most shopgirls wont even look ya in the eye when buying a garter belt n other fetish numbers... plus... ya could always use the "can you suggest something pinkish and satinnish for my girlfriend... err she,s about the same size as me uhum???" line and wear dark sunglasses
In my humble opinion.. there,s no reason why a Dom male...couldnt spank someone while wearing bridal stockings etcetcetcetc
maybe wait till Halloween tho... best time for closet ceasefire.. good luck

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RE: Forced feminization of a butch submissive - 9/28/2007 10:28:29 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aubre

I wondered if there were bi and lesbian femdoms who would want to do forced feminization on butch females?
I kind of like the idea of being a maledom and force feminizing a butch heterosexual sub (they do exist, I've met them).

I imagine it could be just as amusing as male-to-female forced feminization.
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