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RE: appalled by a request by a "Master" - 9/19/2007 11:31:24 PM

iammachine

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You may want to concern yourself more with quality over quantity, Hyperion. Maybe, y'know, actually reading a woman's profile. Searching out people that list body modification as an interest, as opposed to spamming every woman on the site definitely would be a huge leap in the right direction.

You also may want to think about what's more important to you: engaging your fetish, or real people. Focusing on a real connection with a real person doesn't mean you can't engage in your fetish (you may need to compromise on the extent of the augmentation), but taking the approach of simply looking for someone to faciliate something you want regardless of who they are is a pretty good way to turn people off.

YMMV

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RE: appalled by a request by a "Master" - 9/20/2007 5:47:55 AM

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Not my personal kink, but I suppose there's some out there who would thrive on it. So who pays for the bigger bustline, anyways?

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RE: appalled by a request by a "Master" - 9/20/2007 7:00:55 AM

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Damn I am a DD cup??? What do they want blood???!!! Silly man, he has eyes bigger than his brain no doubt!!!!!!! (I am jesting please don't attack me!!)

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RE: appalled by a request by a "Master" - 9/20/2007 7:19:37 AM

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ORIGINAL: Bearlee

waaaaaaaaaaait a minute!!!

You get to have a reduction at the end of the year? OMG... if I had an extra ten grand or so laying around I'd give myself one for Christmas, too!

<sigh>
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RE: appalled by a request by a "Master" - 9/20/2007 7:20:51 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterHyperion

Hi A/all.
I belive it is me that astartefinch is referring to.
My reason for being so 'upfront' from the outset is that it is an unusual kink, and one that most subs find a little too much. consequently, i feel i have to cut to the chase immediately as it would be time consuming and rather frustrating to engage in a long series of communications with a sub who ultimately isnt interested.
I can assure you i have had subs truekajira, and am not full of Bs. I am sincere in my search for subs interested in this, and have, in fact, been in contact with several onsite. Needless to say, I have encountered many differing opinions on the subject during my quest.
Hope Y/you understand where i am coming from.
And i hope everyone finds whatr they are looking for here.
Master Hyperion.

Yes. But have you been in a long-relationship with a sub/slave who was the size you are looking for? We don't tell men everything right away you know. And if they are implants, they aren't going to be in nearly as much pain!

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RE: appalled by a request by a "Master" - 9/20/2007 10:33:05 AM

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returning to this post and LMFAO, Some of the replies have been hysterical, just what I needed after a very tough day. Thank you all for your insight. As it happens I am a suitably well endowed DD myself, anything more would look very disproportionate, think Lola Ferrari. (poor woman)

One thing I have to say is that I noticed that I had response to my thanks but no thanks reply. I didnt open it until now and I was fully expecting a response along the lines of (and in the words of an actual reply I got from someone else) hi and thank you for your reply.but like most of them you are not a true submissive plus you are a fake.now like a good fake on your knees and crawl back under your bed .good day mistress XXXXXX ps a real person whos genuine and not afraid
But no, I got a polite reply from Master Hyperion.

ah feck its been a too-hard day, its days like this that I really need a Dom on tap, so to speak, to demand my attention, to absorb me in him, give me something else to focus on.

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RE: appalled by a request by a "Master" - 9/20/2007 12:44:41 PM

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Body Mod is common in this "life", but is usually only done after the Master and slave/submissive have reached a certain comfort level. To be so presumptuous and assume that you can broach that subject in an initial contact message is ridiculous. It would indicate to me that this person has no real clue about this life, and you are probably recieved one of probably a 100+ messages this idiot "shotgunned" out.

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RE: appalled by a request by a "Master" - 9/20/2007 4:20:30 PM

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To Master Hypererion: My concerns

What if you and the sub you get implants for break up? What if a few years down the road her doctor strongly requests she get smaller ones? Will you dump her? And further more, while I can understand this kink, I don't think you completely understand what it is like to be a big breasted woman. ( I am 44DD, and I would LOVE to be a 36C!) As a big breasted woman I often have back pains, and chest pains. Bra shopping is the pits,(that is sexy bras.) because I have to spend anywhere from 40-80 on one bra and that is if I can find sexy bras, alot of times I can't, or if they are sexy, there are more like Fredericks of Hollywood. bleh! Plus like others have pointed out, depending on the woman's body frame, breasts that big would be a baaaad idea! So I strongly suggest that you research this more. Go to a plastic surgeon, or write to one and ask questions. politely ask those on this site to tell you of their trials and tribulations being big breasted. Women feel as much self consciousness about our breasts, as men do about their dicks. As for my own personal tastes,(;) ) I love big nipples. I don't really care how big the actual breast is, as long as I can chew on a nipple without having to hunt for it! Now that being said, I further more agree with others who have said, concentrate more on her qualities, on her submissiveness and making the relationship be/stay healthy emotionally and physically.

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RE: appalled by a request by a "Master" - 9/25/2007 9:12:39 PM

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i think it's great, it is currently looking for a MASTER into body mods such as extensive tattooing of slave.

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RE: appalled by a request by a "Master" - 9/26/2007 5:03:51 PM

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finch,

your new and I believe he is also. But the upside is that you need not waste time on him.

CP

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RE: appalled by a request by a "Master" - 9/26/2007 8:37:38 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

quote:

ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss

Like they can sufforcate you with them lol.

quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

I just want to know if he has ever actually been with a girl who was a F or G cup. There are some definate downsides to it.

Or be suffocated! I could, in fact, be smothered with my own breast! It's vaguely disturbing...

Hahaha! Been there. I found out the hard way that inverted yoga poses and HH breasts don't mix. I had to put my feet down or pass out from lack of oxygen... sports bras just aren't designed to keep them from falling UP! :D

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RE: appalled by a request by a "Master" - 9/27/2007 2:55:30 AM

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this joker belongs in a comic book

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RE: appalled by a request by a "Master" - 9/27/2007 7:28:14 AM

MrDiscipline44

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quote:

ORIGINAL: astartefinch

I have a profile up on collarme, hoping to meet the Dom of my dreams, I had a first email from a man today, this was the email, without signature obviously, Hi, one question before i'll probably move on--- are you comfortable with body modification? It means i like to surgically enhance my subs in the breast department. Its important to me that my slaves are kept in good physical condition, that they look their best. I generally like my subs/slaves to be an F or G cup.

I was appalled by this, the fact that elective surgery carries risks, health risks of implants, the whole notion that a sub needs to be literally cut and reshaped to please him, what do you think, am I over-reacting. Is this OK, (bear in mind this is in Ireland where plastic surgery is not overly common and very expensive. I don't know anyone who has had any)

Damn, it occurs to me now to ask if he would be paying

Fuckall. If you think thats appalling you better get the fuck out of this lifestyle now while you're still "innocent".

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RE: appalled by a request by a "Master" - 9/27/2007 7:35:54 AM

MrDiscipline44

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quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

quote:

ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss

Like they can sufforcate you with them lol.

quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

I just want to know if he has ever actually been with a girl who was a F or G cup. There are some definate downsides to it.

Or be suffocated! I could, in fact, be smothered with my own breast! It's vaguely disturbing...

Oooooo, a new twist on breath play. Niiiice. I like it.

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RE: appalled by a request by a "Master" - 9/27/2007 2:48:04 PM

Bobkgin

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quote:

ORIGINAL: celticlord2112

quote:

I just want to know if he has ever actually been with a girl who was a F or G cup. There are some definate downsides to it.

Anything more than a handful just goes to waste!

Oh I wouldn't say that.

Who is going to let that much sensitive skin go to waste without doing anything with it?

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RE: appalled by a request by a "Master" - 9/27/2007 6:38:29 PM

PairOfDimes

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Is it okay for people to undergo body modifications, like breast implants? Well, yes--at least in the U.S., you can do it legally.

Is it okay for people to undergo body modifications, like breast implants, because someone very important to them asks it? This is up to the person who will be modified--it's his or her body, and he or she has the responsibility to consider the options available and the various reasons for (among them: "my SO asked, and doing what my SO asks is important to my sense of happiness") and against ("it's surgery, and surgeries carry risk, and I don't properly need it"), and to decide whether that is an appropriate choice for him or her. You know, provided there are legal ways to do it.

Is it okay for you to briefly consider this and to decide that you would be unwilling to undergo surgery to change your body in response to a request from someone important to you? Yes.

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RE: appalled by a request by a "Master" - 9/29/2007 1:58:16 PM

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ORIGINAL: MsBearlee

LOL You're new...wait till you get the 'Kneel, bitch' ones! Or...the ones who tell you to "bend over so they can f'ck ya in the ass right NOW, young lady!" ...and they live a million miles away.

Or... the ones who go on and on about enemas or dogs or whipping you do a bloody pulp; or the very best ones who tell you they want to chain you in the basement with a bucket and leave you for 3 days.

Or...perhaps the ones who tell you they give you permission to Cam them naked?

Or...the ones who tell you they want YOU to spank them. Yeah...those are fun, too.

heh heh heh,
Beverly

This reminds me of one of my most amusing collarme interactions.

i was e-mailing back and forth with a local Dom on the site and it all seemed good. We talked about meeting for coffee and seeing if there was a connection.

A few hours later i get another e-mail from him telling me that i am to take 9 pencils and band them together. i should take these pencils and insert them in my vagina and masturbate with them. When i was to meet him, i was to present the pencils to him for scent inspection. i read this was literally ROTFLMAO!!!!

The scary thing was when i went into work the next day, there were 9 brand new pencils sitting on my desk. i was totally freaked.

jen

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RE: appalled by a request by a "Master" - 9/29/2007 2:57:14 PM

trusting

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i see that this offends you... but trust me that this is very mellow message that was sent to you. anything imaginable is in messages on CM. if one offends you then i would advise that you delete the message and block the sender. we are all adults here and there is really no reason to down another person based on a message that was offensive to you personally.

people have their own preferences and He has the right to 'weed' out all who are not going to obey His wishes. He is seeking a certain type of sub/slave and when He finds her He will know... i suppose you could simple view His message as He is as a person or Owner?

i wish you better luck in the future...

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RE: appalled by a request by a "Master" - 9/29/2007 3:44:51 PM

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My personal opinion is that major body mod surgery before even knowing someone is ridiculous.

Body mod in general is not entirely uncommon in TPE and beyond, however.

The key is knowing what you want, and not feeling like you're locked into the relationship until... well, until you are. :P

-DR

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RE: appalled by a request by a "Master" - 9/29/2007 4:52:07 PM

littlebitxxx

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A reply from the other end of the spectrum:
I am an AA cup but remember fondly my C's from before children. I am saving for my own body-mod but because I want it, not someone else. I obviously can't go to a DD or larger like most seem to want and that's okay. Back to B/C would be great.

Having implants suggested right off or even in initial discussions really drags down my already on-the-rocks self image. It's all well and good to discuss it with me, be open about it and agree to it but not request or demand it. I wanted to be wanted for the way I am, not the way I could become. Almost seems to go against my own wish for bigger but not really if you think about it. I am making the decision for my own reasons, he just needs to agree with it.

Implants in play provides a whole new can of worms. I discussed it with the surgeon during my consult...man, the guy was open-minded, just great. They can't be play-pierced or even used extremely roughly for fear of tearing them from the wall. They can't be bound in the normal way or figure 8 sense but must go around the chest. Nipple piercings are okay but must be done very carefully with the piercer aware of the implants. Tit beatings are still okay to get the marks, as are various clips and clamps because you're just pinching skin. While it is true that smaller breasts are usually more sensitive to touch than larger, breasts after implants retain their original sensitivity...it is the same skin after all and when stretched actually may become more sensitive.

I don't necessarily think Doms that demand body-mods are wrong, they just want what they want. But demanding in an opening message is pretty rude, I think.

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