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RE: No sex Master's - 9/23/2007 8:41:56 PM

FangsNfeet

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Not all my domination or scenes had to do with sex. Some of it is actually for discipline and or controll purposes only. I'm a sadist because I enjoy it. Sex or no Sex, I still get gratification from the results of my actions. Fucking is fucking. Sure, I like having more controll when fucking but I also like having control in just about everything else I do.

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RE: No sex Master's - 9/23/2007 9:08:15 PM

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ORIGINAL: FangsNfeet

Not all my domination or scenes had to do with sex. Some of it is actually for discipline and or controll purposes only. I'm a sadist because I enjoy it. Sex or no Sex, I still get gratification from the results of my actions. Fucking is fucking. Sure, I like having more controll when fucking but I also like having control in just about everything else I do.

It's possible to be in control by simply accepting service. Control can be passive, rather than overt. Devotion makes it so.

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RE: No sex Master's - 9/24/2007 11:52:45 AM

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I have been with a Dominate who was traning me and a few others, he took sex totally out of the picture said that sex just messed up peoples minds and they tend to allow it t o hamper thier learning,,,

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RE: No sex Master's - 9/24/2007 6:39:20 PM

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I have been with a Dominate who was traning me and a few others, he took sex totally out of the picture said that sex just messed up peoples minds and they tend to allow it t o hamper thier learning,,,

If you want to learn service skills-it certainly does. It's entirely the wrong goal set.

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RE: No sex Master's - 9/24/2007 8:01:28 PM

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Hell yeah it happens.

I've played with about a dozen bottoms/subs. And I've only had sex with one woman in my life.

And I only plan on having sex with one more.

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RE: No sex Master's - 9/25/2007 12:36:05 AM

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Hell yeah it happens.

I've played with about a dozen bottoms/subs. And I've only had sex with one woman in my life.

And I only plan on having sex with one more.

me right? on a roller coaster in Orlando.....

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RE: No sex Master's - 10/2/2007 11:56:06 PM

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not all BDSM relationships are based only on sex. with Master we play a lot without sex... and there are times that He allows me pleasure (if earned) and we will have sex. sex is a somewhat more important issue to some than it is to others, i suppose it is all up to what sexual preferences one has with His sub/slave.

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RE: No sex Master's - 10/3/2007 12:18:47 AM

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Their's way to be Domineering without involving sexual intercourse.
And even without sexual activity but as a couple people said before me, this is a bit harder to go by.

I have been without people who were in it just for the control and not the sex, so this is not completely impossible or unheard of.

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