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BondageTopJere -> Female sissy? (9/21/2007 12:57:37 AM)

Amongst my wanderings of the electronic wilds, I've ran across the sissy/feminization area on several occasions. Its interesting, but I just realized that it applied almost solely to males.

Is there such a thing as a female sissy?  By this I'm referring to a women who enjoys dressing in the same highly exeggerated "little girl/ultra femme" style that is normally associated with male sissies.  I'm usually good at digging through info sites for answers to questions like this one, but I hit a wall trying to find out.   Logically, there are women who do enjoy doing so, but either the number is so miniscule as to be a very niche thing, or its simply lumped in with something else.  Either that, or I simply don't know what its called in the first place.




hisannabelle -> RE: Female sissy? (9/21/2007 2:28:53 AM)

greetings bondagetopjere,

i think something like this would probably be subsumed into a larger group - ageplay comes to mind - although i might be wrong.

respectfully,
annabelle.




xoxi -> RE: Female sissy? (9/21/2007 3:23:28 AM)

Yes we exist and I just call myself a girly girl.  Or a princess.  Or a pretty girl.  Some like the term 'lil girl' or 'femme' - the latter especially if they are lesbian.

It's not 'sissy' though if we're actually female [;)]  It's just hyperexaggeration of our femininity - going with the grain...completely...rather than against it.

And also - there is a BIG difference between 'ultra femme' and 'little girl' - one is gender based and the other is age play.




Lashra -> RE: Female sissy? (9/21/2007 5:45:00 AM)

Yes I am sure that there are women out there who enjoy being overly femme to the point that you could call them sissies I guess. For every conceivable kink there is someone..I personally would not enjoy a sissy femme it would tend to get on my nerves after awhile, I prefer tomboys..I certainly am not a sissy femme, I go with the way I was designed, feminine with a somewhat masculine personality and quite Dominant.

~Lashra




mnottertail -> RE: Female sissy? (9/21/2007 5:56:50 AM)

girlie girls?

financial girlie men?

Arnold




divi -> RE: Female sissy? (9/21/2007 6:00:08 AM)

I guess I'm considered ultra fem.  Never knew there was a title for it.  Girly girl makes me sound as If I'm a teenager and well I'm a little old to be called a little girl. 




TreasureKY -> RE: Female sissy? (9/21/2007 6:20:38 AM)

I'm not familiar enough with fetishes to answer it from that perspective, but I have noticed that quite a few doms make a point of saying that they are interested in their female subs being more feminine.  I wouldn't say it's an exaggeration of feminine behaviors, but more a reduction of those "masculine" aspects that many women have adopted over time... wearing pants all the time, only low-heel "practical" shoes, no make-up, and short low-maintenance hairstyles.  I've personally felt it was simply that many men just enjoy a more distinct (and visual) difference between the sexes.




xoxi -> RE: Female sissy? (9/21/2007 6:23:27 AM)

Very good point Treasure.

Might I add, not to contradict anything you're saying, but it's a true lady who can make her femininity both obvious and understated while in full hiking gear.  The clothes are just to dress up the woman - I've seen plenty of monkeys in pretty dresses.




TreasureKY -> RE: Female sissy? (9/21/2007 6:28:47 AM)

lol... So true, xoxi.  I'd like to think I can pull off still appearing feminine even when in dungarees and covered in mud.  [;)]




dollylima -> RE: Female sissy? (9/21/2007 6:30:04 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: TreasureKY

I'm not familiar enough with fetishes to answer it from that perspective, but I have noticed that quite a few doms make a point of saying that they are interested in their female subs being more feminine.  I wouldn't say it's an exaggeration of feminine behaviors, but more a reduction of those "masculine" aspects that many women have adopted over time... wearing pants all the time, only low-heel "practical" shoes, no make-up, and short low-maintenance hairstyles.  I've personally felt it was simply that many men just enjoy a more distinct (and visual) difference between the sexes.



Wow, I had no idea I was so manly, treasure!
What with my short, no-maintenance curls and my chore boots. I think if Noah saw me feeding the chickens in stilettos, he just might decide that Ive indeed lost my marbles...once he stopped laughing, that is.
(Of course, now Im sure Ive planted a seed...)
I do admit that I much prefer skirts to pants and that I have an extensive "fancy apron" collection....but, Ive always thought that those of us who look smokin without makeup would just be wasting our time painting over a masterpiece. I figured out a long time ago that the more time I spend on my "beauty regimen" the less time I have to do things like pack his lunch, rub his feet, care of his clothing and bake him a pie.
There are lots and lots of ways that women can be feminine. Many of them do not require that you buy your hairspray by the case.




domiguy -> RE: Female sissy? (9/21/2007 6:31:18 AM)

"sissy girl"..."ultra femme" ..."little girl" ..."girlie girl"....All slits with a different twist....I've fucked a few monkeys in a dress....Don't discount them so easily....Got to love the attentions of a women that is satisfied with staying in and eating the bugs out of your hair in lieu of going out for an expensive dinner....

Thanks Ron....For all of the monkeys in a dress.  Bastid




earthycouple -> RE: Female sissy? (9/21/2007 6:31:26 AM)

xoxi

I agree with you..it's a state of mind and actions; not what one wears. 

Now, OP, what I've not seen is the making of a straight woman more akin to a male.  I've enjoyed, on occassion, dressing men enfemme who enjoy that themselves but never once have I met a straight woman who wants to be masculated....

Don't get me wrong....I've certainally seen women who want to gender change or feel they should live as a man instead of a woman, but they are not *typically* straight. 




xoxi -> RE: Female sissy? (9/21/2007 6:36:14 AM)

I've never wanted to *look* like a guy...but I have a horrible fascination with putting my hair up under a cap and putting on a guy's button down shirt.  And knee high socks and mary janes and nothing else.  I have nooooo idea why I think I look cute like that and I have had plenty of guys tell me "yeah you look cute just take off that stupid hat and let me see your hair" but I looove the way I look with it all covered.  It's like a mix of masculine from the waist up and blatantly feminine from the waist down.

Yeah...I'm strange [8D]




xoxi -> RE: Female sissy? (9/21/2007 6:39:34 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

"sissy girl"..."ultra femme" ..."little girl" ..."girlie girl"....All slits with a different twist....I've fucked a few monkeys in a dress....Don't discount them so easily....Got to love the attentions of a women that is satisfied with staying in and eating the bugs out of your hair in lieu of going out for an expensive dinner....

Thanks Ron....For all of the monkeys in a dress.  Bastid


Yes but did you take them to get bikini waxed first?




domiguy -> RE: Female sissy? (9/21/2007 6:39:40 AM)

Nah...That is kinda typical.,..Dig a chick in a man' button down shirt...Pair of boxers....Baseball cap...Who is also sporting a throat full of Domidong....It's cute.




LATEXBABY64 -> RE: Female sissy? (9/21/2007 6:44:43 AM)

so looking like  woman is a girly girl is this some kinda of freaking 90s generation x term or something. I mean come on all the older stars just look like adorable women who love fashion. To me there is nothing more classy or beautiful then a a woman that wants to be her self rock on




TreasureKY -> RE: Female sissy? (9/21/2007 6:46:54 AM)

You seem a bit sensitive, dolly.  I simply said that it appears that some men prefer the visual differences that come with a woman employing the more traditional female beauty methods.  I don't recall making judgments, just observations.  How you apply those is entirely up to you.




domiguy -> RE: Female sissy? (9/21/2007 6:49:29 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64

so looking like  woman is a girly girl is this some kinda of freaking 90s generation x term or something. I mean come on all the older stars just look like adorable women who love fashion. To me there is nothing more classy or beautiful then a a woman that wants to be her self rock on


Interesting enough....Dare I say there might be a tad bit of wisdom in what Lax64  had to say....How many women truly have a unique sense of style that seperates them from the masses?  It's few.

Did I mention I like anal?




TreasureKY -> RE: Female sissy? (9/21/2007 6:54:51 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

Did I mention I like anal?


lol... Once or twice in passing maybe, but nothing blatant. 




xoxi -> RE: Female sissy? (9/21/2007 6:55:03 AM)

OK I am *so* derailing this thread, it's a temporary delay I swear.

I just have to say...You look gorgeous in the black dress Treasure...but that 2nd profile pic...in the white...rawr.

That white thing does not allow for any 'coverup' and clings to your curves SO perfectly that if you weren't so sweet I would be forced to hate you.

Remind me when I actually bother to go on a diet to look at that picture at least twice a day [;)] You are smoking hot, lady.




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