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oooo wouldnt it be nice - 7/19/2005 7:47:00 PM

beenbadgirl

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Wouldnt it be nice if one could go to a disciplinarian as you would a therapist or md?
Being a girl with limited experience,the 300 emails i recvd the first 24hrs after i put a profile up on this site, were very overwhelming and difficult to deal with in any kind of effective way.
It would be great to be able to ask a girlfriend for a referral, look in the yellow pages,or even dial 1-800-MASTER.

Dontcha think?

kim

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RE: oooo wouldnt it be nice - 7/19/2005 7:48:10 PM

fourpeas

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Ha ha ha... Like the 1-800-MASTER. Sort of how it worked for me. Ha ha. Good luck being a newbie on the site. ;)

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RE: oooo wouldnt it be nice - 7/19/2005 7:55:14 PM

beenbadgirl

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Thanks fourpeas!
i'll take all the luck i can get

kim

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RE: oooo wouldnt it be nice - 7/19/2005 8:00:51 PM

quietkitten

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It does get better.... after a month or so ... lol!!
In the meantime you just have to take a lot of the messages with a grain of salt. Good Luck!!

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RE: oooo wouldnt it be nice - 7/19/2005 8:07:24 PM

stef

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quote:

ORIGINAL: beenbadgirl

Wouldnt it be nice if one could go to a disciplinarian as you would a therapist or md?

You can, they're called pro doms.

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RE: oooo wouldnt it be nice - 7/19/2005 8:29:32 PM

beenbadgirl

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sfgrrl

You can, they're called pro doms.

~stef

Forgive my ignorance, but where can i find one of those??

kim

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RE: oooo wouldnt it be nice - 7/19/2005 11:11:22 PM

hullman

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if that is what you seek you should check my profile i would do it ,till i found what im seeking,but a true sub/slave isnt after a quick fix they crave total commitment and yousound like your only halfway to what you seek at this time.

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RE: oooo wouldnt it be nice - 7/19/2005 11:21:14 PM

onceburned

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Forgive my ignorance, but where can i find one of those??

Pro doms seem to be less plentiful than pro dommes. But they do exist. I am not sure of the Denver area, but the Edmonton Sun just ran a feature article about a pro dominant couple.

I am guessing that folks in your local munch group might know of any pro doms in your area.

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RE: oooo wouldnt it be nice - 7/19/2005 11:23:10 PM

LRODANDMASTER

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JUST EMALE ME LRODANDMASTER

quote:

ORIGINAL: beenbadgirl

Forgive my ignorance, but where can i find one of those??

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RE: oooo wouldnt it be nice - 7/20/2005 5:49:55 AM

Hissweetshiv

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Well... i can't deny that life would be easier if we could open the yellow pages for referrals to great Masters. I really don't think, however, that a Pro Dom is what you're looking for (and yes i could be mistaken, it's happened

) A Pro Dom or Domme is like the BDSM version of a high class escort service - they will fulfill your need for a spanking or what have you without sex (since paying for sex is illegal in most places) but there is no permanent commitment. If this IS what you're looking for then hey great! More power to you. But for the lasting commitment, allowed to have sex kind of relationship, unfortunately we all still have to do it the hard way. Meet Him(or Her), get to know each other, decide where to go from there. Either way, i wish you the best of luck in your search.
~shiv

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RE: oooo wouldnt it be nice - 7/20/2005 9:02:07 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Hissweetshiv

But for the lasting commitment, allowed to have sex kind of relationship, unfortunately we all still have to do it the hard way. Meet Him(or Her), get to know each other, decide where to go from there. Either way, i wish you the best of luck in your search.
~shiv

Lasting commitment and allowed to have sex commitment are two totally different things.

The fact is, any one of us chicks could have at least one man do exactly what we want to have done to us, sexually or kinky every day of our lives.

Whether they would be especially GOOD at it, or be someone we WANT to do those things with is another issue.

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RE: oooo wouldnt it be nice - 7/20/2005 9:06:01 AM

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If you want to pay someone to teach you ill do it as im wishing to travel to the USA and would gladly let you pay :) :) :)

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RE: oooo wouldnt it be nice - 7/20/2005 3:02:42 PM

sub4hire

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quote:

You can, they're called pro doms.

Go to a munch and say publically what you are seeking. You will literally have lines of people waiting to discipline you.

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RE: oooo wouldnt it be nice - 7/20/2005 6:21:58 PM

beenbadgirl

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Hissweetshiv

But for the lasting commitment, allowed to have sex kind of relationship, unfortunately we all still have to do it the hard way. ~shiv

i'm just not convinced that the hard way is always the best way

quote:

ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2

Lasting commitment and allowed to have sex commitment are two totally different things.

The fact is, any one of us chicks could have at least one man do exactly what we want to have done to us, sexually or kinky every day of our lives.

Whether they would be especially GOOD at it, or be someone we WANT to do those things with is another issue.

"GOOD" in this case meaning having exactly what i need to have done to me by someone who wants to do it as much as i want to receive it.

I could probably get almost any man to spank me til i cried, especially with sex being the reward. Even if they had a strong aversion. That doesn't really hit the nerve i need it to hit.
Just as i feel that the needs that i have are visceral, i need the person that i am with to feel the same. You don't have to be in love with me or commit to me, but it does have to be part of what makes you tick.

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RE: oooo wouldnt it be nice - 7/20/2005 10:38:46 PM

domtimothy46176

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Recognizing that puts you head-and-shoulders above the crowd, IMO. I think the biggest obstacle you're likely to face is those who will tell you anything they think you want to hear in order to get into your pants. This is an instance where your looks (very nice pic, BTW) will work as much, if not more, tagainst you as they will work to your advantage, unfortunately.
If you were in the neighborhood, I would invite you to compare notes with toy, but although I ~do~ make housecalls, I'm not coming all the way to Denver, not even for bad girl who really needs spanked. OTOH, if you're ever travelling to the Cincinnati area, drop us a line and toy can spot you a cup of coffee.
best of luck,
Timothy

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RE: oooo wouldnt it be nice - 7/22/2005 5:39:20 PM

teapaw

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[You can, they're called pro doms.

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Is that like Con Doms.....**giggle** sorry all just had to go there...

pamela

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