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Spanking the DOM? - 7/19/2005 10:36:05 PM   
FangsNfeet


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Status: offline 		Just to give every sub here a chance to speak there mind, how many of you think it's your Dom that's the naughty one who should be spanked/punished now and then instead of you?

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RE: Spanking the DOM? - 7/19/2005 11:25:14 PM   
EmeraldSlave2


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Status: offline 		Absolutely.

But that's the whole point of Ds- it's a double standard.

And I wouldn't have it any other way.

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RE: Spanking the DOM? - 7/20/2005 4:40:23 AM   
sanita


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Fangsie, i think You are in cahoots.

seriously, my Master has not read any of my posts on these boards, but we have talked about them. this? this would be the first, i am sure. well, with my luck.

*soft grin* but really, i cannot imagine punishing Him... well, in the ways He punishes me.

Emerald is right, there is a double standard, but it goes further for me, i guess. in my nature, i can't imagine spanking Him in discipline. so the double standard goes to the "Teflon Dom" for Him. nothing sticks that would call for punishment. me? i can roll my eyes and i'm in trouble.

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RE: Spanking the DOM? - 7/20/2005 4:46:33 AM   
CitizenWolf


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Status: offline 		Before I really understood this lifestyle and was pretty much just vanilla I had a girl who loved to be tied up and spanked with various objects (I should have had a clue back then I guess LOL). Well she used to BEG ME to let her do it to me even though I told her that I would get nothing out of it at all and it was generally stupid to even want to. Well just to shut her up I let her do it one night and after a couple minutes I asked her "Okay, you satisfied that this is pointless?" and she never asked again. I think she thought that since she enjoyed it so much that I should as well LOL She never got to tie me up though, I'd rather be shot than tied up LOL

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RE: Spanking the DOM? - 7/20/2005 4:46:46 AM   
tinkJH


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Status: offline 		I think.. that would be a very painful night for me.

Slave: "Why didn't you cut the yard today!?"

Master: "It was too hot, there was a heat advisory. It can wait for a cool day"

Slave: "Unacceptable! You lazy, ungreateful Master!"

Slave does, gets crop and starts thwaping away.




I just can't picture it. Well, I can, but... then it ends up with Master grabbing the crop and showing slave how it is REALLY used, then proceeding to drag her by the hair with no reguard to if she can keep up, and punishing her sensless. Then, if she is lucky, in the morning, she can beg him not to release her from his collar and how sorry she is.

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RE: Spanking the DOM? - 7/20/2005 5:37:49 AM   
Hissweetshiv


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Status: offline 		Hmm.... well... i DID use the flogger on Master recently.... lol... but that was in one of O/our rare "switch" scenes. Under ordinary circumstances? Absolutely not .... never... nuh uh... HestheBossHestheBossHestheBIGHAIRYBOSS.

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RE: Spanking the DOM? - 7/20/2005 6:07:11 AM   
kisshou


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Status: offline 		I think it is impossible for my Owner to be naughty. To be naughty means he broke a rule but since he makes the rules that is not possible. (hope that makes sense)

The thought of anyone trying to spank him is hilarious though :)

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RE: Spanking the DOM? - 7/20/2005 6:13:30 AM   
plantlady64


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Status: offline 		Hello There,
I think it depends on the Dom. I've had very close friends who actually liked to be swatted or have their nipples pinched hard. For them I'd agree spanking them might be a good thing to do occasionally.
On the other hand you have my Master. Even if he for some strange reason would permit me to spank him, unless it was a specific order there's no way in the world I'd take advantage ofthat option. He has no desire to be a bottom ever. I know at some point later (probably when tied up) I'd be paying back the spanking in spades.
One time I did get to smack the bottom of his feet though. We were at a presentation on foot massage. One of the things we were instructed to do was to smack the bottom of the other persons feet. My Master was a very good sport. I felt like a kid in a candy store with a whole wad of cash to spend. I thoroughly enjoyed it knowing it's as close to doing any top thing to him as I dare to get. It was so exciting for me. I still smile every time I think about it.
So to answer your question again, it depends on the Master.
Sincerely,
sub suzanne

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RE: Spanking the DOM? - 7/20/2005 2:04:57 PM   
Vancouver_cinful


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Status: offline 		LOL My ex is in a very complicated, unhappy relationship right now with someone who just doesn't seem to be a good fit for him...and even he agrees he should end it, but he just lets it go on...for all the wrong reasons we often cling to people.

Hard to stand by and just watch, but he's my friend and I love him, so...

But, yup, I've been thinking a good hard spanking with the beautiful cane he bought me, would do him a world of good, right now.

(If only it were that simple!)

Cin

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RE: Spanking the DOM? - 7/20/2005 6:46:10 PM   
Mylee


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Status: offline 		Master : Spank me

Me: Huh? *drops jaw*

Master: I said spank me

Me: *Bursts into tears and sobs*

Yep that's about how it would go, I don't have a Doninate bone in my body, just the thought of being the one to spank would cause me stress, let alone seeing Him in that position...besides..what if I was having one of those EVIL PMS moments I mentioned in another post, and DID enjoy it?!....it would go something like this

Master: Spank me.

Me: Huh?

Master: I said spank me.

EVIL PMS Me: *Gets glint into eyes* Yes Sir!...*smack smack smack then burst into giggles*

Master: Oooh your in for it now

Me: What no SIr, it wasnt me it was EVIL PMS me...honest...*kneels down for punishmet*


Yep...both senarios dont look good to me!

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RE: Spanking the DOM? - 7/20/2005 8:23:27 PM   
sanita


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Status: offline 		Master does not mind if i pinch His butt, or even swat it, if the circumstances are good-natured... i know very well, though, that whatever i do in friskiness and fun can come back tenfold.

but punishing? heck, when Master makes a mistake, and refers to it as a "Dumbass thing to do," i am usually trying to find another way to look at it.

goodness! i just am not able to wrap my head around the thought of Master over my knee. *l* unless He had a helluva tooth hold on my calf!

now, His mom would probably cheer to see Him get a whuppin'. i have heard stories about His hellion days. heck, now when i meet His grandmom, i'll have to try not to imagine her spanking His butt! apparently, grandma always gets her way.

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RE: Spanking the DOM? - 7/20/2005 9:29:17 PM   
fourpeas


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Mylee


Master: Oooh your in for it now

Me: What no SIr, it wasnt me it was EVIL PMS me...honest...*kneels down for punishmet*


Yep...both senarios dont look good to me!



HA HA HA HA HA!

/me rolls on the floor sobbing and almost dying of laughter...

WOW love that EVIL PMS me! Love it. I can't imagine spanking my Dom because it wouldn't turn me on. However, I am into scratching. I am a scratcher, or I was in my vanilla relationships. I enjoy scratching and being punished for it. Like, I enjoy scratching hard enough to be fucked harder, or to have my hands tied up, etc., etc.... You see my point I am sure...

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RE: Spanking the DOM? - 7/20/2005 10:15:27 PM   
FangsNfeet


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Status: offline 		Hmph, that's the one thing that don't under stand about having gf's, They always scracth and pick at pimples and bumps on my body. Some have even tried and pop them. Urgh that's so annoying. Perhaps that's one main reason why I don't poly. One set of nails is bad enough. God I'm so happy that I have rope.

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RE: Spanking the DOM? - 7/21/2005 5:12:08 AM   
tinkJH


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quote:

ORIGINAL: FangsNfeet

Hmph, that's the one thing that don't under stand about having gf's, They always scracth and pick at pimples and bumps on my body. Some have even tried and pop them. Urgh that's so annoying. Perhaps that's one main reason why I don't poly. One set of nails is bad enough. God I'm so happy that I have rope.



It is the opposite here. Master can be running his hand around my arm, back or neck and then stop, poke at something and go "Get the tweezers". Instant whimper.

hrm... While I wouldnt punish him.. tying him up so he can't pick at another ingrown hair on the back of my neck sounds like a good idea.

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RE: Spanking the DOM? - 7/21/2005 6:16:10 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		spanking the Master with my late master that would have never happened. He was not supre strict but he also did not take any disobedience. and would never be a bottom.

litlteone

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RE: Spanking the DOM? - 7/21/2005 8:47:00 AM   
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how many of you think it's your Dom that's the naughty one who should be spanked/punished now and then instead of you?


this one never does

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RE: Spanking the DOM? - 7/21/2005 9:33:28 PM   
suberic101


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Status: offline 		That'd make you a switch?

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RE: Spanking the DOM? - 7/22/2005 6:49:13 AM   
Mercnbeth


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That'd make you a switch?


no switching here, perhaps you meant to respond to the OP?.....this slave never thinks that Master is the "naughty" one and "deserves" to be spanked or punished. for us, punishment is not play and spankings are not punishment!

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RE: Spanking the DOM? - 7/22/2005 11:46:34 AM   
Vancouver_cinful


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Status: offline 		I'm not sure the OP meant people to take this post literally as a discussion in switching or masochistic dominants...I'm pretty sure it was meant as a good-humoured conversation, about times we felt that our dominants could have used a signal to 'smarten up'.

But, of course...Dominants are never wrong...and even if they are...they're right. ::flutters eyelashes::

Cin

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RE: Spanking the DOM? - 7/22/2005 12:57:31 PM   
ElektraUkM


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Status: offline 		Hmmm...

Well I'm sure he can be mistaken, not sure he can be 'wrong' as far as the dynamic goes. So that's difficult to say.

But in any case... spanking him..?? That would depend on what you, as the sub, wanted to achieve. I suppose that 'revenge' might just about be achieved (if that was your mindset ~ but would it be, as a sub? I doubt that). Changing behaviour ~ nope LMAO.

I think my answer here is 'no'...

~ Elektra

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