ocilla -> RE: ball busting (9/22/2007 7:40:40 AM)
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LOL - okay the person who introduced me to the world of BDSM was really into CBT. He had sort of gotten me all hot about the idea of femdom...its all about you....worship everyday....you make the decisions....mostly seducing me with the power exchange dynamic which worked like a charm since I was predisposed but then he suddenly sprung the "and while you are sitting on my face will you slap my cock a whole bunch and punish my balls? be really rough with me? I would really like that?" And my repsonse was .....whaaaaaa?!?!?!?!? I kind of was stunned into silence. Googled CBT - first thing that came up was a site on castration. Yikes! So then I went down to Aphrodite's Toybox, the local sex boutique owned and operated by some very generous and knowledgable ladies, for advice - cause I was kind of hooked on the guy already and damn - not so sure about this CBT thing...I mean, why?, does he want to me crush his balls in a vice? castrate him??? ewwww no wayyy. The ladies said the key word is PLAY - CBT PLAY. And then they gave me the book called The Family Jewels. And an awesome little book it is... So, now I've played with a man's parts on a number of ocassions, and I have to say, I get it. I know it can be taken to painful extremes but the other end of the spectrum is just lots of cock and ball sensations - not necessarily painful but right on the edge....Its been a lot of fun on that level I must say.
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