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What Next? - 9/22/2007 8:41:00 AM   
JerseyKrissi72


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O.K....this is my "i need to bitch" thread so bare with me...I got a third degree burn to my right middle finger from grabbing something out of the oven i "thought" was turned off..and it's the finger I use the most...I got several second degree burns on my other hand from careless oven incidents ....I fell down this morning when I blacked out (stress induced) thanks to my ex and hurt my ankle pretty damn good so if I don't already walk bo-legged and funny-- i walk funny now I came home from my morning walk (before i fell down lol) and my house looked like a hurricane hit it-- my ex sitting there watching tv of course..So, I had to clean the entire house without any help, do all the laundry- cook, etc and I have surgery 7:30 am on Monday morning...can't I get a break?? If I don't do it, it'll never get done...This is inspiration for me to go back to school or get a good job when I heal from surgery and GET MY OWN DAMN PLACE!!!!  It get better...I fall in love with a married man in an open relationship (which is only open for HER)-- so i back off from that and meet someone that I hope will become my Master but he also is married, has a submissive he loves and I realize he doesn't love me or isn't capable of it...I'm not sure which...I'm so confused   Positive note: I lost another 4 pounds....mainly from a sick ass stomach lately-- food intolerance of some kind I am guessing w/ a combination of my gall bladder.........I lost a good friend of mine cause his girlfriend doesn't want us being friends--- we've been friends over 7 years......what next?? Should I get out the gun now? geesh- say a prayer for me....Oh yeah..I saw my surgeon at the liquor store this morning..just what you wanna see..your surgeon boozing it up when your surgery is Monday God help me

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RE: What Next? - 9/22/2007 9:38:27 AM   
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"You think your day's bad?  Try losing a testicle in a knife-fight with your mother!"

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RE: What Next? - 9/22/2007 9:44:43 AM   
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Things can’t get any worse Krissi I’d leave the purchase of that gun for a lot later though. Also surgeons drink all the time I’m told it helps with their hand eye co-ordination.

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RE: What Next? - 9/22/2007 12:18:55 PM   
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I am just having a horrible day I guess- i have screamed at my kids so much I am having chest pains- meanwhile, my ex sits here like some fucking king of the castle.

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RE: What Next? - 9/22/2007 1:46:24 PM   
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Ouch!   comfort your burn with ice- or cold.

im so sorry hun

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RE: What Next? - 9/22/2007 1:48:17 PM   
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Intergalactic space monkeys will be wanting to eat your brains soon. Hide Krissi quick quick!!!

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RE: What Next? - 9/22/2007 1:50:27 PM   
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well now.....I have to admit that i was having a rather bad day. but now Im feeling much better thanks. No gun buying for you. Hope it gets better dear.

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RE: What Next? - 9/22/2007 1:58:28 PM   
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i say, buy the gun and shoot your ex, you will feel a lot better

disclaimer: this poster in no way advocates harming another living being

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RE: What Next? - 9/22/2007 2:01:12 PM   
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JerseyKrissi,
 
You asked what next. I can offer comapassion first.
 
Then I have to ask...
Why don't you demand your 'ex' to get his lazy arse off the damn couch and get busy helping to do his part?
Apologize to the kids for all of your yelling, hug them and then direct them to be helpful?
Why do YOU have to be the 'one who has to do it all'?
 
YOU have the power, just use it?
 
Irish
 
Be assertive, you'll feel ever so much better.

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RE: What Next? - 9/22/2007 2:02:58 PM   
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My post looks so unhelpful now, damn.

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RE: What Next? - 9/22/2007 2:34:31 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: YesMistressIrish

YOU have the power, just use it?

Well, no.  She doesn't.  It's HIS place.  He took her in after she was evicted from her apartment and lost her job.  Right now the only power she has is to decide whether or not to suck it up or move out.

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RE: What Next? - 9/22/2007 5:48:13 PM   
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ummm..i'm still legally married so it's MY place too..not to mention if i wanted to, i could get my own place (in time) and stick him with child support on four kids....that would hurt a bit i guess...but i'm not looking to be that cruel..........not yet

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RE: What Next? - 9/23/2007 11:53:21 AM   
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You could be homeless and your kids in foster homes.  You could have a deadly disease and few days to live.
Your life is not all bad.  You have a place to live, stay warm.  Food for your stomach.  You even have medical care that will more than likely cure you instead of kill you.

Life is not all that bad.  There are plenty of people worse off than you.  It's just they don't have the luxury you have, place to live, computer, food, etc.

I'm in a huge church project for the needy right now...so I don't mean to sound like I'm lecturing but...you really are well off.

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RE: What Next? - 9/23/2007 1:01:06 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: sub4hire

You could be homeless and your kids in foster homes.  You could have a deadly disease and few days to live.
Your life is not all bad.  You have a place to live, stay warm.  Food for your stomach.  You even have medical care that will more than likely cure you instead of kill you.

Life is not all that bad.  There are plenty of people worse off than you.  It's just they don't have the luxury you have, place to live, computer, food, etc.

I'm in a huge church project for the needy right now...so I don't mean to sound like I'm lecturing but...you really are well off.



This is the post of the day!

I look at life this way too.
Congrats and keep them coming.

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RE: What Next? - 9/23/2007 1:07:18 PM   
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PS- ill say a prayer for you- per your surgery.

regards- Roger

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RE: What Next? - 9/23/2007 3:18:29 PM   
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*gentle hugs for krissi* never ever ask what next.....

you will find out.  in spades.

kitten, who knows.

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RE: What Next? - 9/25/2007 6:21:06 AM   
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I hope your surgery went well, Krissi. And the surgeon was probably just buying some booze so he could get his wife drunk and get a piece of tail this weekend, and be nice and relaxed before doing your surgery.

And your ex is just being such an ass is just to strengthen your resolve to get out of a relationship you find distasteful.

I don't want to do one of those "my worst day was............" because it is just too depressing if I found out that my day really was the worst day ever. and it was in the past, so no need to stir up old memories. Just take a deep and remember, sooner or later, every day is over.

On kind of an amusing note, my bad day last week was getting two fillings at the dentist, then letting my son skip school and taking him to the bookstore to cheer him up because he was crushed that his girlfriend dumped him; coming out of the bookstore to find I had a flat tire; going back into bookstore and buying us both iced coffees to cheer us BOTH up now, and wait for the AAA truck to come change the tire (I can't change it, recently had neck surgery, and I would not let my son change it, because he has coordination problems due to Asperger's Syndrome). Finally the truck arrives from the garage to change the tire; just as I open the trunk for him to get the spare, I get hit with massive diarrhea and have to run back into the bookstore for the bathroom, which is at the back of the store (Boods A Million, HUGE store!). Nothing like trying to look calm as you hurry through the store and know you will have to change your panties when you get to the bathroom. Then, go back out to the parking lot, find the driver has changed the tire and left, your son is waiting for you, and diarrhea strikes AGAIN......give your son the keys to wait in the car, try to look nonchalant as you hurry to the bathroom at the back of the store AGAIN. Then drive home in the rain as the novacaine wears off and your teeth start hurting. And right after you get home, your husband arrives home from work, and says "Boy, you would not BELIEVE what a rough day I had!"

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RE: What Next? - 9/25/2007 7:01:11 AM   
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everything is relative.
no matter how bad you are there's someone in the world worse off.
my problems although pretty serious will not kill me.
so i do like the fish in finding nemo and sing just keep swimming just keep swimming when there seems to be no way out.
it could always be worse is my mantra.
krissi hugs kisses babygirl.
ps : an elderly lady once told me "any day above ground is a good one"

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