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Daily Rituals - 9/22/2007 2:14:30 PM

AngelBeck

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Mistress has asked me to come here and ask what sort of daily rituals do you do with your submissives. We are a lifestyle couple and easily manage to get caught up in real life (work, family...).

Any advive of suggestions would be apprecieted that you find useul to keep your relationships on track.

thanks

angelsboy

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RE: Daily Rituals - 9/22/2007 5:37:36 PM

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MsK and I have a morning ritual...I make Her coffee and breakfast and we breathe together...no matter what's happening in our daily lives these things are done every morning.

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RE: Daily Rituals - 9/23/2007 4:39:29 AM

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Our ritual include him wearing a cock and ball ring thing daily and every morning he kneels and plays with 'my' cock till he feels like he is going to cum then he has to stop. At night he repeats this but i usually add nipple clamps and other fun things :)

Keep your rituals simple and attainable otherwise you will both be disapointed when you find you can't actually keep up with them.

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RE: Daily Rituals - 9/23/2007 8:06:41 AM

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Fox and I have a night time ritual.

He puts me to bed each night.

I sit on the side of the bed and kneels down to remove my shoes and socks. Then he kisses each foot. Then he lays his head between my thighs onto the bed and I stroke his hair as we just breath and relax and are a unit.

This can be varied by my evening exercises every other night (weights, sit-ups, simple things) or if I'm feeling horny to be blunt.

We also take time before this to just talk honestly about our day and about anything that is happening between us.

Another daily ritual or rule you might say is that he is not allowed to call me by my name unless it is to signal a problem. I am "mistress" at all times.

Not so much a ritual or rule but we also schedule one television show each weekday night to watch together. Just relax and be there with each other, away from other stresses but also not in a formal space. I schedule similar time with my husband as well though that's usually playing video games with him.

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RE: Daily Rituals - 9/23/2007 11:16:39 AM

Roksana

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there is a lot like:

1. every morning my stepbrother need to lick the sole of my feet, thats the wakeup call.
2. evening need to msg my leg and ass, kiss and lick too
3. collect my pee
4. dress and undress me
5. bathe me
6. takeoff and put my shoes in my feet,
7. lit my cig, serve me drink and so many many

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RE: Daily Rituals - 9/27/2007 8:24:03 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: AngelBeck

Mistress has asked me to come here and ask what sort of daily rituals do you do with your submissives. We are a lifestyle couple and easily manage to get caught up in real life (work, family...).

Any advive of suggestions would be apprecieted that you find useul to keep your relationships on track.

thanks

angelsboy

Consider making your speech dependant upon Her authorization. Since we place a high value on self-expression and self-assertion, speech restriction could be a good way to keep you mindful of your proper place - at Her feet :)

If that's too much, consider smaller rituals, eg. kissing Her feet each time you come home, body massages on certain nights, prepare Her for bedtime, etc.

Have fun ;)

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RE: Daily Rituals - 9/27/2007 9:12:07 PM

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Dear AngelBeck, Ladies and Gentlemen;

Daily rituals need to have meaning for you both--something to reaffirm why you exist as a Dominant-submissive/Mistress-Master/slave couple. Being simple yet special, much like a diamond--it is a way to ground or re-establish the foundation for the relationship.

For my slaves and I, it would be the placing of the collar on and off, as my slaves could not wear anything beyond their uniforms. So, the collar on/off was that moment the real outside world was acknowledged and or our world was acknowledged. The slaves knelt as I sat in a chair or at the couch. No matter where--we had this to acknowledge our relationship and it's meaning to us.

Respectfully submitted,
Lady Hugs

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RE: Daily Rituals - 9/27/2007 9:57:31 PM

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i wake Her with a lovely bugle reveille,
load Her into the wheel barrow for easy
transporting to the hosing station, where
i lovingly cleanse Her pastel skin and
count and connect the goosebumps
from the icy cold water, forming the
varied constellations of the sky. Yes, She
is a sight to behold.

Then it's on to the wiglet pavilion where i
choose a smart but functional cascade
of synthetic fibers to adorn Her glorious
smooth scalp, held in place by the tape
of colorful bows from Christmas past.

Then it's a fun filled game of "go fish" as
we try to be the first to retrieve Her teeth
from the effervescent rising pool of polident.
Shouts of "I hooked a big molar, but it got
away" fill the crisp morning air.

From there, the excitment builds as we play
pin the overalls on the Mistress, wonderful
giggles fill the air amid Her cries of "ouch
that smarts". Cherished moments indeed!

She sits as royality on the throne, just inches
from the tub, reading mesmerizing excerpts
from Cinderella as i fit the recycled tire
rubber sandals into place with a polished
garden spade. i know i can, i know i can.

Ready for the day, She spins happily about
the room as i scamper to rescue falling
mementos and quickly sweep away the
sparkling shards of broken glass. Yes, it is
once again a most beautiful day with Her grace.

On to the kitchen, where we partake in the
daily ritual of catch a chicken, get an egg,
eat an omelette. She beams as i create little
smiley faces out of ketchup atop Her eggo
homemade waffles. Oh the magic of the morning!

After the usual competition of breakfast plate
frisbee against the dining room wall, it's off to
hitch the little neighbor boys to the carriage for
a jaunt into town. A close-out sale at BigLots
the destination of our frenzied and quivering
shouts of "Open, open, open". Toilet tissue,
twelve double rolls for one dollar, it's as if
God himself has visited us with fortune!

Yes, AngelBeck, be filled with envy at the
wonder which i have brought to your dreams.
Heaven does exist, and exists only for Her.
Angelic music fills the swirls of eternity as
we dance among the whispering clouds.
Soft steps interrupted only by the occasional
thump of Her prosthetic leg falling in playful
spins to the floor. It is a gift of unimaginable
pleasure i share, for it is opportunity to fall
to my knees before Her as i re-attach the
balance of worlds. She is my everything, She
is...thump....excuse me for a brief moment...
my shining star amidst a dark and deary world.

And we dance, captured in our ritual, the
moments which make each day just a cut
above the Price Is Right. She plays the
theme song over and over, echoing in my
devoted ears as She cracks the whip and
shouts in laughter, "Come on down".

So little AngelBeck, work hard, persevere
in your love and devotion to Her, and these and
many more rituals can be yours to behold. Each
and every one become as the sweet breath of
life.....thump.....excuse me just a moment....yes
as the beat of the heart itself, anything for Her.

chia* (the pet)

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RE: Daily Rituals - 9/27/2007 10:37:30 PM

SeeksOnlyOne

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that was fucking priceless!!!!!

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RE: Daily Rituals - 9/27/2007 10:55:54 PM

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chiThePet,
You always come up with the BEST postings! ROFLMAO They're not only extremely well written, but quite often hilariously funny. I've perved your profile (more than once I confess) because I'm so impressed with your postings. This one was a real gem!

Mistress Scarlet

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RE: Daily Rituals - 9/27/2007 11:19:28 PM

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The ritual that has become most important to Me is the evening ritual that I keep. My boy goes to bed at a specific time and before going to sleep, he receives a kiss on the forehead. Due to the nature of living arrangements, sometimes it is done via text or other messaging. The return that I receive is, "Smiles up at M'Lady," which is to remind him of looking up at Me, from the position of him being at My feet before going to sleep.

As Lady Hugs mentioned, I also have the putting on and taking off of his formal collar, because of similar circumstances. In the other times, he has a symbol that he carries.

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RE: Daily Rituals - 9/27/2007 11:25:28 PM

SusanofO

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I am imagining chiathePet's eloquent post, now set to music...hehe.

(I liked it as well. Something to look forward to, many years from now. I plan to have a motorized wheel chair to add to my inventory of creative toys, by that time, too.

I like the theme from "Jeopardy", too, plus "The Price Is Right". I can only hope to have someone willing to fish my false teeth out of the glass that way in my eighties. chiathePet, you give me hope that the end of life can be as weirdly fun as the middle is proving to be (don't ask).

- Susan

< Message edited by SusanofO -- 9/27/2007 11:35:51 PM >

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RE: Daily Rituals - 9/27/2007 11:50:49 PM

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One ritual I find that is good for newer submissives especially is to have them meditate for a length of time each day. I've done this in the past and it's generally been beneficial. I have them undress either to their underwear or naked and kneel on the floor with their forehead on the back of their hands, typically for ten minutes each day. I feel this gives them a chance to center and consider their position and objectives in submission. Once this becomes subjective to me then I become part of their centering. Similarly, I've used mantras during times when I am out-of-contact with someone I'm involved with, typically when one is away on business or otherwise unable to get ahold of me for a length of time.

I have a variety of rituals with my boy even though we're long-distance. Were he here he would kneel at the side of the bed each morning and either edge himself or otherwise stimulate himself in order to be my morning alarm. He does this on his own as a symbolic ritual unless he's in chastity or otherwise directed.

Recently I've been having him lightly tether himself to his bed each night. Were he with me this would definitely be employed.

Other rituals that I have him utilize that aren't daily are that he's always to kiss any toy or implement that is used in his mouth before and after it is used, and that if he is doing something to himself he's always to tease himself prior to doing it (an example being if I tell him to plug himself he always teases himself with it and then asks if he can put it in.)

I find that in many ways the day-to-day rituals I have with people in my life are my caretaking of them. For years I've often tucked my husband in. I like doing it because I love him and it's an intimate process. I imagine I would do the same with the boy because again, I am his owner and enjoy that closeness. People do for me all the time, but the putting to bed is something that just feels nice for me, seems to be nice for the other person, and generally draws us closer.

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RE: Daily Rituals - 9/28/2007 2:21:15 AM

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All clothes go into a basket next to the door and ankle, wrist cuff are placed on along with the collar. He i naked until he leaves me. When I bathe he is to lay in the shower so I may pee into his mouth. he washes my body, shaves my legs, washed my hair, brushes my teeth, removes me from the shower, dries me off, rubs lotion on me and scents my skin. Brushes and dries my hair. lays with me until I fall asleep. In the past I had a sub who actuall learned how to do my makeup and would apply it for me daily. I didnt know how devoted he really was until I became very ill and was in the hospital, he brought my favorite Pj;s, bathed me and applied my makeup I was totaly floored.

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RE: Daily Rituals - 9/28/2007 6:10:33 AM

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that is devotion ... what a find he was !!

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RE: Daily Rituals - 9/28/2007 6:52:33 AM

DiannaVesta

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I enjoy ongoing control. My slaves follow these daily rituals; this includes part time long distant slaves. Maybe you’ll get some ideas here; 1) They prepare an altar where they keep fresh flowers, a candle, if they live alone my picture. This can be discreet or elaborate. They must tend to it daily, dust, change the water for the flowers or replace the flowers when needed. 2) They have a morning and evening chant in front of this altar. 3) Slaves in my home wake up an hour before I do (6am), shower, shave, prepare coffee and serve it to me in bed. During this time they give me a massage and we chit chat. 4) When returning home for the evening another chant before placing the collar & cock ring on that stays on for the entire evening. 5) Slaves that live long distance report daily or weekly in email or send me text messages: what they ate, what they did that day, exercise (required and I assign) and how many days it has been since their last orgasm. (yep I control this for sure) I have some that send me their schedule weekly… I mean very comprehensive details. I might send one a text message to do something, take a photo with their cell phone and send it back to my phone. I know some of it might sound silly but the people I engage with also enjoy this strict control. Your ritual could be something as simple as a collar & cock put on while you are home. Learning how to enter a room, how to serve a drink, etc. these are little rituals/protocols that create a nice dynamic. I really love it.

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RE: Daily Rituals - 9/28/2007 7:02:12 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Imajican

One ritual I find that is good for newer submissives especially is to have them meditate for a length of time each day. I've done this in the past and it's generally been beneficial. I have them undress either to their underwear or naked and kneel on the floor with their forehead on the back of their hands, typically for ten minutes each day. I feel this gives them a chance to center and consider their position and objectives in submission. Once this becomes subjective to me then I become part of their centering. Similarly, I've used mantras during times when I am out-of-contact with someone I'm involved with, typically when one is away on business or otherwise unable to get ahold of me for a length of time.

I find this to be extremely beneficial & always require this. Any slave that trains with me must follow a diet and spiritual plan. I have seen amazing transformations in them just doing this. For instance I have one male I only see a few times a year and he is married. After 3 months he lost 30lbs, start exercising, stop taking blood pressure medicine, began doing rituals for his wife (learn tantra massage, bringing her coffee, learning to dance and taking her dancing, cooking etc.) meditation was an essential key in all of this and brought great balance into his life. She would completely reject an idea of female domination even though she is, in a sense experiencing it and it has made wonderful changes in their relationship.

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RE: Daily Rituals - 9/28/2007 7:07:51 AM

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SeeksOnlyOne, MstrssScarlet, SusanofO,

Thank You, Thank You very much!

chia* (the pet)

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RE: Daily Rituals - 9/29/2007 3:37:31 AM

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Mistress Dolly has recently directed Her property to practice a brief period of daily contemplation and quiet observation of his enviorment.
i have been instructed to get into a relaxed position , let my mind go blank and simply listen and allow my senses to expierience my enviorment without reaction.
To be honest, it has been a bit more difficult than i first thought it would .
My mind tends to wander and i often revert back into my normal mindset which is thinking at 100MPH.
However, this ritual has already begun to have the positive effect on me that Mistress Dolly intended. i am gradually learning to slow down a little.
Mistress Dolly has graciously taken a personal interest in my well being and has devised a daily ritual for me which is more than just a routine but is designed make me a better person and a better servant to Her.
She is brilliant.

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