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TNstepsout -> Kicking (9/23/2007 7:37:15 PM)
I watched a scene at the local dungeon. At one point the Top was kicking the slave while she was on the ground. It made a loud slapping sound and appeared very violent. It was a very exciting scene to watch. Since then I've been interested in kicking, but I've not seen much discussion of it. I guess the Top was probably aiming more with the top of her foot than the toe, which probably wouldn't make such a loud sound and would be more dangerous. But what parts of the body are safe to kick? Are there other techniques to make sure you don't injure?

flowspen -> RE: Kicking (9/24/2007 8:15:03 AM)
Well i can only speak from male subs perspective who lives for kicking and kneeing. i think though the techniques that were used on me would be a little different because they kicked between my legs alot and soon i learned how to tell if a Mistress had experience at it or not. Most when they kicked there foot actually wasnt the part doing the damage it was more around the ankle and shin section as the foot went up behind my butt, those types of kicks usually never missed the mark and they didn't have to kick as hard to have the desired outcome. The ones who tried to have the foot do the damage usually missed or it only seperated the nuts and there was no real impact except on the muscule between the balls and anus. Now when i was on the ground it was more of the end of the shoe unless they stomped and that really gets your attention and it hurts. Some also bent there leg up at the knee and only used the extention of there leg for power vs those that would wind up for a super kick and usually i moved out of there way unless i trusted they knew what they were doing. Also it matters what they were aiming at some aimed at hitting the target vs those who aimed to kick through the target, it makes a big difference in the pain level. i dont know if that helps you....

LaMistressa -> RE: Kicking (9/24/2007 8:22:56 AM)
I enjoy kicking and using my feet to push around submissives; it's a great physical manifestation of who is in charge, and can be really hot. I usually use the top of my foot to kick (as you mentioned, it make a good noise), or the sole of my boot to shove the person down on the ground. What I do not do is use the toe or point of my boot (I find it harder to control and too easy to do unintended damage), and I don't aim for anything that doesn't have a lot of padding (like ribs or shoulders), or any internal organs (no kidney shots, stomach, etc.)

MistressSassy66 -> RE: Kicking (9/24/2007 12:24:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: flowspen Well i can only speak from male subs perspective who lives for kicking and kneeing. i think though the techniques that were used on me would be a little different because they kicked between my legs alot and soon i learned how to tell if a Mistress had experience at it or not. Most when they kicked there foot actually wasnt the part doing the damage it was more around the ankle and shin section as the foot went up behind my butt, those types of kicks usually never missed the mark and they didn't have to kick as hard to have the desired outcome. The ones who tried to have the foot do the damage usually missed or it only seperated the nuts and there was no real impact except on the muscule between the balls and anus. Now when i was on the ground it was more of the end of the shoe unless they stomped and that really gets your attention and it hurts. Some also bent there leg up at the knee and only used the extention of there leg for power vs those that would wind up for a super kick and usually i moved out of there way unless i trusted they knew what they were doing. Also it matters what they were aiming at some aimed at hitting the target vs those who aimed to kick through the target, it makes a big difference in the pain level. i dont know if that helps you.... I have great succuss using any of the methods you describe. I like using the toe of My boot,most are square and not pointed so they tend to get the whole ball area...Practice makes perfect like with anything else. To answer the OP... I avoid kicking places where the bones are close to the skin,like avoiding the ribs,the spine, also stay away from kidneys and stomach. Dont forget you dont have to kick hard to always get an effect. I'm pretty sure that www.frugaldomme.com has a link to kicking. I think thats where I found the diagram for using a cane and what parts of the body to avoid. I use that diagram to go by when it comes to kicking also.

flowspen -> RE: Kicking (9/24/2007 12:28:34 PM)
Mistress Sassy.. never been kicked with a square tip boot.. taking notes :)

canupleaseme -> RE: Kicking (9/24/2007 1:07:28 PM)
Ohh we love kicking[:D] It was something my boy had on his like list and something I hadnt thought much about. We started out quite lightly and for a while it was pretty much a bit of is that hard enough? not yet mistress lol. Its something I still dont think I do with much force and its usually in a playful manner. I am looking forward to building up my confidence and becoming a bit more aggresive with how I'm doing it. I particually love the sound it makes and you don't have to kick hard to get a good sound. I need some practise kicking in my thigh high boots and managing the heels lol but that will be fun too. I'm not quite sure what motivates me when doing it I think its a mixture of seeing him at my feet kicking him around showing him who is boss and a bit of like kicking around my trash [:D] We defiantly avoid boney areas and kidneys etc I think its best on the arse cheeks and top of his arms.

MistressSassy66 -> RE: Kicking (9/24/2007 1:35:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: flowspen Mistress Sassy.. never been kicked with a square tip boot.. taking notes :) I am most comfy in boots that dont pinch My toes into a point....lol All My boots have a square shape toe,which covers a bigger area,when stepping on them more of the balls gets squished. Gotta love any form of CBT [:D]

flowspen -> RE: Kicking (9/24/2007 1:39:30 PM)
For me it started in the 8th grade we didn't know what we were doing but she busted my balls daily for 2 years. i use to get swollen and soar from it, but no damage and she was kicking me very hard one kick and i was down and in alot of pain. When i got older though no one wanted to kick hard because of the fear of hurting me. i agree with them but working up to it finding the pain threshold is a great way to really enjoy it too. i think You are instore for a lot of fun with this activity in the future with Your submissive.

HelenaTroy -> RE: Kicking (9/24/2007 2:15:00 PM)
I think it's interesting how children find themselves gdoing deviant things without realizing that they are being deviant. I wonder what sort of a psychological or emotional effect this ball-busting activity has on her now that she's an adult. I've been asked to kick men in the balls before and evidently I don't do it hard enough! I am afraid that I will do some sort of damage that is non-temporary.

flowspen -> RE: Kicking (9/24/2007 2:31:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressSassy66 quote: ORIGINAL: flowspen Mistress Sassy.. never been kicked with a square tip boot.. taking notes :) I am most comfy in boots that dont pinch My toes into a point....lol All My boots have a square shape toe,which covers a bigger area,when stepping on them more of the balls gets squished. Gotta love any form of CBT [:D] As some who loves to be busted and rather enjoy being busted/squished hard.. i can see the apeal of You. Wow You stated Your points (or lack of points considering the square toe) rather nicely!

flowspen -> RE: Kicking (9/24/2007 2:42:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HelenaTroy I think it's interesting how children find themselves gdoing deviant things without realizing that they are being deviant. I wonder what sort of a psychological or emotional effect this ball-busting activity has on her now that she's an adult. I've been asked to kick men in the balls before and evidently I don't do it hard enough! I am afraid that I will do some sort of damage that is non-temporary. i often wonder if She is a Mistress today. once i tried to find her but failed. She was the one that "kicked" the door open in my mind that later was the doorway to submission for me when i got older. i think most are afraid to do damage. Who wants to hurt there devoted slave? However it is the sweetest most endering pain i have ever felt. it is so personal there is no toy or object between You and his pain, it is up close and personal. i have never had any pain that topped it and the more i got the more i wanted, the harder it became the better it felt. Mentally and physically i love it. if Your sub is like me maybe his enjoyment of it will enable You to kick harder.

interestingtimes -> RE: Kicking (9/25/2007 3:03:41 AM)
scratches head, surely a kick to the balls with any force would incapacitate you...and surely have nerve damage to the kidneys.. I have been involved in martial arts ...so have some experience in unintended kicks lol

goddessAVA -> RE: Kicking (9/25/2007 6:11:42 AM)
mmmmmmm you are inspiring me, I am a squisher/stomper more than a kicker but I feel its time to expand the repetoire and I have just the ass and balls to try it on...........hope he lives hehehe I tend to like bare feet-the feeling of a cock under my toes is delicious

flowspen -> RE: Kicking (9/25/2007 7:21:17 AM)
i know men can be permently damaged but through my experience that hasn't happened and i have been kicked, kneed and punched in the balls during my lifetime from childhood and beyond. i found a local Switch yesterday that will be kicking me in the nuts very soon! so i am a very happy boy right now.

flowspen -> RE: Kicking (9/25/2007 7:26:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: goddessAVA mmmmmmm you are inspiring me, I am a squisher/stomper more than a kicker but I feel its time to expand the repetoire and I have just the ass and balls to try it on...........hope he lives hehehe I tend to like bare feet-the feeling of a cock under my toes is delicious i am happy to inspire! oh yes i do enjoy the stomping and squishing too i would have spoken about that but this was about kicking. Both are a passion. Squishing and stomping is good because i am on the ground looking up at the Mistress and seeing her enjoyment from the perfect submissive spot-being stomped into the floor. i can see You are a foot slaves dream... i am sure he will enjoy all of it and he will survive to experience it again and again!

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