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ORIGINAL: plantlady64

Hello There,
I have just the opposite thing happening with me. In my profile I say my Master is Gunship and they can reach him here if they'd like to talk to him directly.
No only does no one send him messages about me, but when they ask to meet me in places other than the two options I'm permitted I refer them to my Master. They don't write him then either.

Funny huh? They ask to speak with your Master and prefer not to talk to mine even if it's requested.

Sincerely,
sub suzanne

LOL, toy has had the same thing happen. Kind of makes you wonder why they contacted you in the first place, doesn't it? I chalk it up to horny clueless wannabes who have no understanding of what a committed relationship means.
Timothy

Just out of curiosity why did you give me that answer? LOL

If you re-read, you'll see it was in response to plantlady.

Right which is why i asked why you didn't give me the same answer as her

I didn't give her any answer of any kind because she wasn't asking any questions. She made a comment about her experience and I responded to that by relating toy's similar experience. You asked about why people would want to contact your master, so I gave you many different possible reasons.
Timothy

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LOL! Same thing happens to jsut about every sub/slave on here...

My oppinion? They want what they cant have. I've recieved my fair share of them, as well. I simply ask them what part of my profile confused them most, and that they have no need to speak with my Master. Most times it works. If it doesnt....Well... I have a tendancy to get a bit snide with them. That always works.

I'd say just ignore them. Eventually they'll go away. Dont let them bring you down, either. Theres a lot of great people on ehre. Just have to weed out the assholes first

I looked at your profile and you mention that ~you~ seek advice on how to help your master understand your needs and desires. Yet, if someone contacts you and requests to speak with him directly, you tell them no. Is this per his instructions, or something you've taken upon yourself? I only ask because this is not something I've run across before. I can understand if he doesn't care to have contact with folks from here (although if that were the case I can't imagine why he would allow ~you~ on her either), but I can't imagine a situation where toy would presume to judge for herself who is or is not allowed to have contact with me.
Thanks,
Timothy

Ok, I didnt quite explain myself well enough. The ones that I dont pass along to my Master, are the ones who tell me how much bigger their penis is, or how talented their tongues are, and that I will be so much happier and fulfilled with them rather than him, should I jsut let them speak to him and have him release me. Those are the ones I was referring to.

If someone messaged me, asking to speak to my Master and had a valid reason to, I would first see if he wished me to give his email out. If he wanted me to, then I, of course, would. He doesnt have a profile or account on here, as that is his choice. He doesnt spend a lot of time online period, really. He allows me to have my account because he trusts me, quite simply. Im not out looking for anything on the side, or someone to leave him for.

Hope this calrrified my oppinion a bit better

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LOL! Same thing happens to jsut about every sub/slave on here...

My oppinion? They want what they cant have. I've recieved my fair share of them, as well. I simply ask them what part of my profile confused them most, and that they have no need to speak with my Master. Most times it works. If it doesnt....Well... I have a tendancy to get a bit snide with them. That always works.

I'd say just ignore them. Eventually they'll go away. Dont let them bring you down, either. Theres a lot of great people on ehre. Just have to weed out the assholes first

I looked at your profile and you mention that ~you~ seek advice on how to help your master understand your needs and desires. Yet, if someone contacts you and requests to speak with him directly, you tell them no. Is this per his instructions, or something you've taken upon yourself? I only ask because this is not something I've run across before. I can understand if he doesn't care to have contact with folks from here (although if that were the case I can't imagine why he would allow ~you~ on her either), but I can't imagine a situation where toy would presume to judge for herself who is or is not allowed to have contact with me.
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Timothy

Ok, I didnt quite explain myself well enough. The ones that I dont pass along to my Master, are the ones who tell me how much bigger their penis is, or how talented their tongues are, and that I will be so much happier and fulfilled with them rather than him, should I jsut let them speak to him and have him release me. Those are the ones I was referring to.

If someone messaged me, asking to speak to my Master and had a valid reason to, I would first see if he wished me to give his email out. If he wanted me to, then I, of course, would. He doesnt have a profile or account on here, as that is his choice. He doesnt spend a lot of time online period, really. He allows me to have my account because he trusts me, quite simply. Im not out looking for anything on the side, or someone to leave him for.

Hope this calrrified my oppinion a bit better

Yeah, that added info does paint the picture differently. This has been an interesting topic for me, as I've not encounteres much in the way of controversy before on what I've always thought of as an accepted practice. Of course, as in all thing related to online activities, there are ~no accepted practices, per se, as there are multitudes who do whatever pleases them without consideration of accepted convention. Still this kind of caught me off guard, lol.
I do have another question, however, if you don't mind. In regards to "and had a valid reason", if someone contacts you with a request to be put in contact with your master, do you, or are you instructed to, ask for the reason behind the request? I've approached the situation as being similar to telephone ettiquette. If I answer the phone, and it's someone unknown asking for toy or one of the children, I'll ask, "And what is this in regard to?" As all are under my authority, I have no issue screening their calls. Neither toy or the children, OTOH, would presume to screen mine. Online, if someone asked to be put in contact with me, toy wouldn't presume to ask why unless I specifically told her to. I'm just curious, if you're willing to share, how you and your master have approached the issue.
Be well,
Timothy

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Not to laugh but I posted a thread on why people feel they have the right to address you in such an intimate manner. The general consensus was that's people,from all walks of life,not just in the lifestyle. That also aplies here. Some people are just asses others are ignorant. There you have it.