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RE: Prostate stimulation for the Dominant Male - 9/24/2007 9:32:15 PM   
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RE: Prostate stimulation for the Dominant Male - 9/24/2007 10:42:12 PM   
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RE: Prostate stimulation for the Dominant Male - 9/25/2007 1:42:37 AM   
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RE: Prostate stimulation for the Dominant Male - 9/25/2007 3:56:20 AM   
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Any other ideas of ways to do prostate massage in a domly fashion?


As your sub is plunging her fake cock in and out of your ass, scream as loudly is as pertinent, "I'm the man! I'M the man!!!"
 
Kidding aside, you bring up a good point. Enjoying that part of your body does not make one less dominant, or gay, or any thing other than appreciative of the human anatomy.

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RE: Prostate stimulation for the Dominant Male - 9/25/2007 8:19:02 AM   
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PS... with regard to that rimming part; are we to believe only submissive, gay men are into such practice?  Bah!!!     Heck, I even know a Toppy broad who enjoys both giving and receiving; I wonder what that says about her?
 
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RE: Prostate stimulation for the Dominant Male - 9/25/2007 8:50:39 AM   
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Status: offline 		To answer Bearlee's question what it says about her, I love to give and receive and it still makes me Dominate.............you still have a power to be stimulated and the power to control someone else's stimulation on how much they recieve, how little they recieve and if they have been a good little subbie and get full pleasure

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RE: Prostate stimulation for the Dominant Male - 9/25/2007 12:34:23 PM   
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Status: offline 		hmm maybe while giving you head she could also be using a aneros or prostate message toy on you.  you could be holding her head.

Also - she could wear a strap on sit in a kind of lowish chair with no arms and you can then lower yourself onto the strap on and play with her breasts...

I don't know...I'm Domme - but I do agree that Dom's are missing out if they do not explore their backdoor thoroughly.  Btw - the strap on thing - really I find that to be more about me dominating a by than about giving him pleasurable anal play.  To send a fella over the top in terms of sensation hand held toys and such are much more effective.  Lots and lots of the male subs crave the strapon mindfuck - but it is not the best buttfuck imo. 

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RE: Prostate stimulation for the Dominant Male - 9/30/2007 5:58:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't mean to disagree with everyone, but I really would like to give the other POV. It seems like everyone I talk to these days DO think that it's very common for Dom guys to have their anus region stimulated, actually, so I don't really think that would be that hard to find. Actually, if I'm not too shy, one of the first things I'd really like to know about a Dom before getting into a relationship is how he feels about that. And if he liked it, I'd completely judge him and decide I didn't want to pursue any relationship with him. Maybe it sounds awful, but anal play is my favorite thing, and the reason I like it is because it hurts, it feels very submissive, and feminine to me. I would literally feel nauseous and my view on him would change forever if I knew he enjoyed something I see in that way, and I feel like it would be really damaging to our relationship. It's something I really need to feel like he enjoys only giving and me receiving. If I felt like we were competing for the same thing, and he wanted what he was giving to me, instead of giving it, it would totally screw me up. 

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RE: Prostate stimulation for the Dominant Male - 9/30/2007 7:17:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		Hermione, I am sure many would also agree with you, but the thing is that anatomically the male anus and prostate have all these wonderful nerve endings, that if stimulated give him an incredible, often times mind blowing orgasm..why ignore or deprive him of this sensation (if he wishes it)because you look upon it as only for you?..Do you think it makes him less a "man"?..Less a Dominant man?.Why would you feel in competition with him?..To me that is like saying that if a Dominant goes down on you, it is not very manly, nor Dominant.Do you think a Dominant going down on you is less than?..and if you do not think it is less than?..then why do you think a Dominant enjoying anal is less than?...Tempting

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RE: Prostate stimulation for the Dominant Male - 9/30/2007 7:51:41 PM   
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Hermione, I am sure many would also agree with you, but the thing is that anatomically the male anus and prostate have all these wonderful nerve endings, that if stimulated give him an incredible, often times mind blowing orgasm..why ignore or deprive him of this sensation (if he wishes it)because you look upon it as only for you?..Do you think it makes him less a "man"?..Less a Dominant man?.Why would you feel in competition with him?..To me that is like saying that if a Dominant goes down on you, it is not very manly, nor Dominant.Do you think a Dominant going down on you is less than?..and if you do not think it is less than?..then why do you think a Dominant enjoying anal is less than?...Tempting


I agree with you Tempting. My master loves for me to rim him and put my tongue in his ass. It is very pleasurable for me to be able to give him this type of pleasure. I dont see anything submissive about it at all.

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RE: Prostate stimulation for the Dominant Male - 9/30/2007 9:06:14 PM   
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RE: Prostate stimulation for the Dominant Male - 9/30/2007 9:49:16 PM   
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Great...now can we talk about abusing cats?





or is that abusing "pussies" ....................

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RE: Prostate stimulation for the Dominant Male - 10/1/2007 12:21:29 AM   
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but anal play is my favorite thing, and the reason I like it is because it hurts, it feels very submissive, and feminine to me. I would literally feel nauseous and my view on him would change forever if I knew he enjoyed something I see in that way


Anal play, to you, causes pain and makes you feel submissive.

To males who enjoy it, pain is not a factor.  The prostate and the entire area is full of nerve endings, that when stimulated correctly results in great pleasure.  An orgasm is one thing, an orgasm that includes prostate stimulation is exponentially better and more pleasureable.

Recieving anal stimulation is certainly not a submissive act, nor does it make the Domly one any less Domly.


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RE: Prostate stimulation for the Dominant Male - 10/1/2007 12:26:30 AM   
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I don't mean to disagree with everyone, but I really would like to give the other POV. It seems like everyone I talk to these days DO think that it's very common for Dom guys to have their anus region stimulated, actually, so I don't really think that would be that hard to find. Actually, if I'm not too shy, one of the first things I'd really like to know about a Dom before getting into a relationship is how he feels about that. And if he liked it, I'd completely judge him and decide I didn't want to pursue any relationship with him. Maybe it sounds awful, but anal play is my favorite thing, and the reason I like it is because it hurts, it feels very submissive, and feminine to me. I would literally feel nauseous and my view on him would change forever if I knew he enjoyed something I see in that way, and I feel like it would be really damaging to our relationship. It's something I really need to feel like he enjoys only giving and me receiving. If I felt like we were competing for the same thing, and he wanted what he was giving to me, instead of giving it, it would totally screw me up. 


Ok but I'm assuming you are referring to prolonged anal intercourse.  It is very possible to stimulate the male prostate quite successfully with very little intrusion which would not be painful.  Also, I think you are discounting that men and women differ physiologically in this regard.  Look at it this way, your gspot equivalent is in his ass.  He's not feminine or submissive because he wants you to touch his penis is he?

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RE: Prostate stimulation for the Dominant Male - 10/1/2007 4:58:31 AM   
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Status: offline 		Two ex's told me they tried to penetrate the area with a finger or object while playing, and that it hurt really badly and they didn't like it. I'd prefer for Dom's to think that way. I don't know what it's like to be a Domme, but I *do* see being penetrated as submissive. Girls have holes, to be penetrated.. I don't know how else to think of it. We don't have penises, guys do.... me sticking something in them makes me queasy. I guess I don't understand how some men think its so painful and others find it very pleasurable. To me, it feels like aliens probing my body and weird, lol. And, to the oral sex on a girl, actually I find it very dominant - he's controlling her while she convulses and has no control of herself, and he's seeing her reactions... If anything oral on a guy is less dominant to me, since she's the one making him lose control for a while, and the active one, instead of the passive. But I do expect a guy would like that.... I guess this one is harder for me to understand. I don't mean to be narrow minded... I would feel really uncomfy with it though... =\. Are the orgasms from this really better than all other sorts?  I have always been sort of afraid of "doing" things to the guy, and it always involves a lot of fear, performing, etc, and maybe I've confused that with submissive, since I'm submissive and they are all characteristics of me.

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RE: Prostate stimulation for the Dominant Male - 10/1/2007 6:52:17 AM   
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Status: offline 		hermione's just expressing a view that I think a lot of female submissives have towards this, I think that there are femsubs who don't want to say that they would deny their doms anything, but I think quietly they don't feel comfortable doing this. It's a lot like the "sub acting as a service top" situation.

I'd like to see things like this broken down. If a sub says she'll do "anything" they need to understand what that may entail. It seems quite a few subs , when they say "anything" they really mean "anything that might make me feel less submissive or make you appear less dominant" whether that would actually happen or not. Everyone is entitled to their own view.

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RE: Prostate stimulation for the Dominant Male - 10/1/2007 7:00:04 AM   
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Status: offline 		Aubre - do you think it's wrong to be a sub/slave and have that condition on "anything", or not? I would rather find someone who just plain didn't want me to do anything that would make me feel like a "service top," from the get go... but that isn't always possible!

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RE: Prostate stimulation for the Dominant Male - 10/1/2007 8:04:31 AM   
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Any other ideas of ways to do prostate massage in a domly fashion?


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RE: Prostate stimulation for the Dominant Male - 10/1/2007 9:12:26 AM   
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Status: offline 		hermione83, I wouldn't say it would be "wrong". I just think that if you say "anything", be prepared for what that might entail. Be honest with the doms you talk to, and be up front about the fact that you do not wish to be involved in activity that in your opinion seems toppish, and outline what activities you feel meet that criteria. I'm sorry if that sounds too clinical, but I think the words "anything" and "no limits" get thrown around way too often and need to be reigned in a bit.


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RE: Prostate stimulation for the Dominant Male - 10/1/2007 9:27:40 AM   
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Great...now can we talk about abusing cats? 

or is that abusing "pussies" .................... 



Yes, I was being tongue-in-cheek there.  (and looking at Aubre's avitar). 

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