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Why - 9/24/2007 3:48:00 PM   
plspickme


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Status: offline 		do some Master's want to share their sub/slaves with other men? i don't understand that. Is there any good that comes out of it?
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RE: Why - 9/24/2007 3:50:55 PM   
bandit25


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Status: offline 		Not quite sure what you mean by good.  I'm not into that myself, but from what I understand, some doms like seeing what's theirs being used by others.  It's pretty much the ultimate in domination (or can be) and some subs like it. 

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RE: Why - 9/24/2007 3:52:48 PM   
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RE: Why - 9/24/2007 3:54:22 PM   
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cause it's it and that's that,
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RE: Why - 9/24/2007 3:55:32 PM   
hisannabelle


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Status: offline 		greetings plspickme,

depends on the couple. for us, partly because there is a huge age gap and he wants me to experience relationships with other people as a "normal college student"; partly, because as bandit mentioned, he enjoys seeing me used by others or knowing about me being used by others; partly because he knows i enjoy it. i'm sure he has other reasons...those are just the main ones. i do it because it pleases him mainly, because i enjoy it on an emotional and sexual level, and because i enjoy being objectified and used. your mileage may vary. there are plenty of couples out there who do NOT enjoy it and would never do it, or who would only do it for the emotional/sexually fulfilling aspect, or only do it for the objectification aspect, or only do it if the dominant is watching, or what have you. there's no hard and fast rule.

respectfully,
annabelle.


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RE: Why - 9/24/2007 5:09:35 PM   
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do some Master's want to share their sub/slaves with other men? i don't understand that. Is there any good that comes out of it?


Because they just do?

Why do some people insist on liking pony or pig play? I don't get it but they sure seem to get something out of it. If you don't want to be shared, hold out for a master who won't share you.

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RE: Why - 9/24/2007 5:58:57 PM   
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 Is there any good that comes out of it?

Is there any good that comes out of not sharing one's sub?


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RE: Why - 9/24/2007 6:06:20 PM   
mercurielle


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Status: offline 		Besides the power trip of having so much control over a person you can direct that person to sleep with a person of your choosing, the pragmatic side is that some older doms suffer from erectile dysfunction.

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RE: Why - 9/24/2007 6:44:03 PM   
earthycouple


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Status: offline 		It's not for me...but for those who like it, they really seem to like it..which is fine by me...

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RE: Why - 9/24/2007 7:33:59 PM   
Estring


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Status: offline 		Maybe they want other guys to be as miserable as they are. 

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RE: Why - 9/24/2007 7:38:00 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		Sure, the good that comes out of it is that it makes the Dom happy.
Some people are voyeurs, they enjoy watching their pets with others.. sexually and playing.
Some enjoy the power trip of being able to control their pet to that point, where the sub would not even question serving another as an extention of their Doms wishes.
Some choose lovers for their pets that are substandard to themselves so they look better...
There are a whole host of reasons someone might get into it.

I dont, I dont like to share, but I can definately see the appeal it could have for someone into those things.

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RE: Why - 9/24/2007 9:37:50 PM   
plspickme


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Status: offline 		So what happens if he sends you out and you like this guy better? The Master loses. What if he is a better lover? How does that make the Master feel? It doesn't sound like the Master would have any control then.

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RE: Why - 9/24/2007 9:45:22 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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ORIGINAL: plspickme
So what happens if he sends you out and you like this guy better? The Master loses.

I don't lose- I gain the knowledge that he is better off with someone else and that we weren't right for eachother.  I don't want someone to SETTLE for me.
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What if he is a better lover? How does that make the Master feel?

Thrilled for me.

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 It doesn't sound like the Master would have any control then.

That's because you're seeing this as a competition.

What about when two people love eachother so much that they only want the other person to experience as much happiness as possible?  Even if that means with others?  And that this experience only proves to bring them ever closer together?

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RE: Why - 9/24/2007 9:51:15 PM   
AustinJerry


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Status: offline 		When did you experince that ?

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RE: Why - 9/24/2007 9:53:46 PM   
AustinJerry


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Status: offline 		I need a serious relationship with a Girl who will take care of me and ready to spent the rest of her life with me hopw I "ll get one here? Can somebody  reply me please

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RE: Why - 9/24/2007 9:54:15 PM   
georgejames68


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Status: offline 		I don't and wouldn't, but if I did it would be purely for my gratification/proof that the dynamic was strong enough that my slave would do so for me, just because "I said to"
George

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RE: Why - 9/24/2007 10:13:10 PM   
arayofsunshine55


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ORIGINAL: plspickme

So what happens if he sends you out and you like this guy better? The Master loses. What if he is a better lover? How does that make the Master feel? It doesn't sound like the Master would have any control then.

He is no more concerned about that than I am about him finding a gal who floats his boat better.  If he does, that is life.   But I'm pretty arrogant.  And pretty sure of us.  If this ends it won't be cause he found someone better.  And visa versa.


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RE: Why - 9/24/2007 10:19:01 PM   
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ORIGINAL: AustinJerry

I need a serious relationship with a Girl who will take care of me and ready to spent the rest of her life with me hopw I "ll get one here? Can somebody  reply me please



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RE: Why - 9/25/2007 1:39:53 AM   
hisannabelle


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Status: offline 		greetings plspickme,

he never loses ;) it's not a competition...there IS no competition, even if it were a competition. to be honest, i cannot imagine anyone coming close to understanding me the way he does - and even though he sometimes believes that other men i am with are better lovers (very much in the sexual sense - are more my physical type, have bigger cocks, etc.), no one else can "get" me the way he does and know me inside out the way he does (or command the same level of submission and trust that he does). i don't even know if that matters to him (as in, if he ever worries that i might leave him, and if that gives him security - i don't think he thinks about it that way, to be honest), but it is the truth. control is (mostly) between the ears - i can go have aMAZing sex with a hot younger guy with a huge cock, and still come home to him and be under his control. fitting some objective standard of what it means to be a "great lover" or to be objectively "hot" (because i think he is hot and a great lover regardless of whether he might be considered playgirl material) means nothing to me, personally. on top of that, our relationship and our sexual interaction encompasses a lot more than intercourse - usually when i am with other men it is more intercourse-focused. so there are all kinds of ways in which it's different, the same, and not really a matter of "oh, the guy i slept with last night is a "better lover" than my master." it just doesn't work that way. i can't imagine it working that way.

respectfully,
annabelle.

< Message edited by hisannabelle -- 9/25/2007 1:40:52 AM >

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RE: Why - 9/25/2007 2:38:34 AM   
eyesopened


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Status: offline 		Why do some guys buy a new boat and then invite their friends out on the boat and get a huge amount of pleasure in letting select friends drive the boat?  The boat owner can see the want and desire of his friends for the possession he has.  That, for some, makes the boat all the more meaningful to him because others covet that boat.  Others might want to show off the boat but would never let another drive it.  And others might not want to show off the boat at all but just keep it for their own enjoyment without a bunch of people begging to come along.

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