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Twice -> Clothing selection (9/25/2007 2:46:25 AM)

I know there was the thread about being made to wear skirts all the time and such, but does anyone have their Dom/me pick out their exact outfits?  I asked my Dom if He wanted to pick what shirt I wore this evening when we went out to dinner, and He said He did, and all night I was happy.  I mean, it's not a big thing, but it was just like a warm happy that I was wearing what He picked for me to wear.  I can see how this thing would get addicting, heh.  Anyone else do this?




southeasternsub -> RE: Clothing selection (9/25/2007 3:09:16 AM)

There has been times when my Dom has asked me to wear a certain thing for him. But we have been together long enough that I know what he likes and what he doesn't like so there is no need for him to go into my closet and choose my outfit.




michelleryder -> RE: Clothing selection (9/25/2007 6:54:42 AM)

Master buys most of my clothes so most stuff I have he likes anyway.




littleone35 -> RE: Clothing selection (9/25/2007 7:08:22 AM)

He does not pick my outfits, but i do try to wear colors and stlyes that i know he will like.  If he does ask me to wear something in particular like a skirt he lets my pick out the skirt to wear, he trusts my clothes sense.

Matt's littleone




favesclava -> RE: Clothing selection (9/25/2007 7:12:18 AM)

we happen to have the same taste in clothes. The third encounter He had me model every outfit i owned and commented on them. He will tell me a particular outfit from time to time.i  must wear thongs when not working. when working , pretty panties.




SlaveSuru -> RE: Clothing selection (9/25/2007 7:22:15 AM)


Master does not generally pick my clothes,  but He does let me know when He dislikes a certain article of clothing .  Most of that former clothing has been weeded out of my wardrobe and I no longer wear it when He might see it.  I also have certain outfits He likes for regular wear or when we are having a scene.

Suru




onmykneesb4Him -> RE: Clothing selection (9/25/2007 7:35:02 AM)

Sir is the one who bought all the clothes I own, so i can choose whatever i want most of the time. Sometimes He tells me to wear something in particular if we are going somewhere we don't usually go, but that doesn't happen all that often.

To be honest, i wish He did choose my clothes for me on a daily basis, but it's not something that's all that important to Him, so that's how it is.




fairerthanshe -> RE: Clothing selection (9/25/2007 7:40:02 AM)

Greetings all,

A good indicator of his displeasure with an outfit is when he asks, "Is that what you were going to wear?".  The only appropriate response I have found is, "What would you like for me to wear?".

Most of the time, he seems pleased with my clothing choices.  He hasn't indicated particular pieces as "never wear", but has commented on the frequency with which I wear burnt orange t-shirts...Go Horns!

well wishes ~ fairer than she




daddysprop247 -> RE: Clothing selection (9/25/2007 7:42:46 AM)

with the exception of a few favorite pieces that he let me hang onto, all of the clothes i own were bought and chosen by him. He doesn't have the time or interest to pick out my clothes every day of the week, 365 days a year. as long as it meets his approval, he's fine. usually he'll only lay out a complete outfit for a special occasion...like if we're going out, or expecting guest, etc.




toservez -> RE: Clothing selection (9/25/2007 8:55:45 AM)

My experience with all my owners has been pretty much the same.

They generally give me some guidelines, tell me what they like and do not and let me buy and choose my clothes based on that level of input. If my Master wants me to wear something specific he will tell me or if we go out might first approve what I choose or make me change.




junecleaver -> RE: Clothing selection (9/25/2007 10:00:52 AM)

Sometimes, he'll pick an outfit if we are going out somewhere special.  When we discussed the daily life kind of things he wanted to control we spoke about appearance.  He told me he didn't need to control how I dressed because I always dressed well and he never had to worry that he might be embarrassed by my appearance.  Actually, he often comes to me to help him decide what to wear and if something matches or not and I love that. :)






LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Clothing selection (9/25/2007 11:32:03 AM)

Generally it's more a service I provide to them in helping pick out their wardrobe, more than a control they have over me.  I have far more clothes and much better sense of style and fashion than most so it's just a lot more practical for me to do it myself and help others.  Unless they want to get into humiliation or objectification.

I do give choices or ask if they have preferences of style of dress for an occasion, but with so many limited to the "fuck me heels, black skirt, thigh highs, white sheer blouse and lacy bra" boring cut out, it's much more fun for me to play within those themes and come up with something modern, tasteful and sexy.

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Pyrrsefanie -> RE: Clothing selection (9/25/2007 2:38:00 PM)

I absolutely adore having my clothes picked out by my Master.  It makes me feel all warm and fuzzy and safe inside for some odd reason.

I at least have him choose what panties I should wear based on his mood every day.  Eventually I'd like to get to the point where he picks out the rest of my clothes on a more regular basis, but his fashion sense is... um... shall we say, a bit lacking.  I figure after a few What Not to Wear marathons he should be ready.




plspickme -> RE: Clothing selection (9/25/2007 7:47:12 PM)

i look forward to the day when  my Sir pick out my clothes and dresses me. i am learning what he likes and i will try to dress accordingly.




masochistboytoy -> RE: Clothing selection (9/25/2007 7:48:57 PM)

my Mistress always chose what i wore on a daily basis and i loved knowing that she controlled this aspect of my life.




iammachine -> RE: Clothing selection (9/26/2007 1:46:11 AM)

I dig it. I like dress up in pretty much all of it's forms, though. Whether it be choosing an outfit or having one chosen for me, or the act of being dressed (like a doll), it's fun times. :)




kyraofMists -> RE: Clothing selection (9/26/2007 3:54:37 AM)

Every now and then he will choose exatcly what we will wear.  It usually happens when we are going to a play party or an event. 

On the other hand, Alandra or I are required to pick his clothes out every single day.  When he gets in the shower she (or me if I am there) will set out his clothes for the day.  We will ask him what type of clothes he wants to wear, i.e. casual, work, etc. and then pick his clothes for him.

Knight's Kyra




sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Clothing selection (9/26/2007 5:15:01 AM)

Daddy and i have similar taste when it comes to my clothing choice - so He doesn't have to pick out my clothes however He does enjoy picking out my lingerie, hose, and shoes.  He has excellent taste too.




hi2525 -> RE: Clothing selection (9/30/2007 12:46:59 PM)

I would enjoy this with my lady allowing the lady the same pleasure if she so desires.




lanie38 -> RE: Clothing selection (9/30/2007 2:27:50 PM)

We have some rules regarding wearing and not wearing certain clothing. He happens to like my taste so usually a little fashion might be in order and he picks from that selection.

But sometimes he's in the mood for something specific. Ultimately it's his choice and he happens to have great taste as well..

~lanie




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