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Questions for Masters, from Sub forum - 9/25/2007 4:24:28 PM

SultrySub4M

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Hey boys (said in the most respectful way),

One of the men here left a post on the gen forum asking "do single submissives hate men?"

Here is my answer, thought it may help you figure this out coming from a hot and horny newbie to this site and someone who will tell you how you can help. Thanks and good luck!:

QUESTION IS: why are so many men here not willing to be patient, accepting and respectful when approaching a sub to create what they say they want, which is a real D/s relationship. My inbox is full since day one and of all the men requesting my attention, two have gotten beyond niceties and a firm 'nope,i'm not your girl ya dig?.' i clearly stated in my profile what i am doing here, have a journal that is reflective of the real me, say what age range and marital status i seek...but STILL... i am "invited" to become a slave in some walmart-bling-filled gawdy house in the suburbs of hotlanta from some Master in a rented tux that first acts as if he's his own slave, then forgets to change pronouns and becomes him, then speaks again for the slave. Are you farken out of your mind???? The dudes here need to put their dicks back in their britches, stop with all the all the assuptions that YOU MUST BE THE RIGHT MASTER FOR THIS NAUGHTY GIRL BECAUSE YOUR EGO TELLS YOU THAT... and let us do our thing. It is not easy finding the right person for you and thankfully, I AM NOT LOOKING HERE!!! This is fun and supposed to be a thrill and make us horny. What is see is a bunch who take themselves waayyyy too seriously, the "lifestyle" as something they alone defined and well, some real fucktards. That fortunately is the minority and only a few, but when they keep hitting SEND when you've politely said no, then say mean things about you and your pictures, your ideas, you desires...it will make a girl run for cover and grab the first REAL man she sees heading her way. LUCKY BASTARDS!!!!! ask them if you want to know how to get in my pants. there are a couple who figured it out and so far, no complaints;-)

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RE: Questions for Masters, from Sub forum - 9/25/2007 5:21:39 PM

Lumus

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SultrySub4M

Hey boys (said in the most respectful way),

One of the men here left a post on the gen forum asking "do single submissives hate men?"

Here is my answer, thought it may help you figure this out coming from a hot and horny newbie to this site and someone who will tell you how you can help. Thanks and good luck!:

QUESTION IS: why are so many men here not willing to be patient, accepting and respectful when approaching a sub to create what they say they want, which is a real D/s relationship. My inbox is full since day one and of all the men requesting my attention, two have gotten beyond niceties and a firm 'nope,i'm not your girl ya dig?.' i clearly stated in my profile what i am doing here, have a journal that is reflective of the real me, say what age range and marital status i seek...but STILL... i am "invited" to become a slave in some walmart-bling-filled gawdy house in the suburbs of hotlanta from some Master in a rented tux that first acts as if he's his own slave, then forgets to change pronouns and becomes him, then speaks again for the slave. Are you farken out of your mind???? The dudes here need to put their dicks back in their britches, stop with all the all the assuptions that YOU MUST BE THE RIGHT MASTER FOR THIS NAUGHTY GIRL BECAUSE YOUR EGO TELLS YOU THAT... and let us do our thing. It is not easy finding the right person for you and thankfully, I AM NOT LOOKING HERE!!! This is fun and supposed to be a thrill and make us horny. What is see is a bunch who take themselves waayyyy too seriously, the "lifestyle" as something they alone defined and well, some real fucktards. That fortunately is the minority and only a few, but when they keep hitting SEND when you've politely said no, then say mean things about you and your pictures, your ideas, you desires...it will make a girl run for cover and grab the first REAL man she sees heading her way. LUCKY BASTARDS!!!!! ask them if you want to know how to get in my pants. there are a couple who figured it out and so far, no complaints;-)

If I understand the question right [it did wander a bit...], I'd say the Law of Averages is about as appropriate an explanation as any.

Some people are smart; some are dumb. Some are respectful; some are rude. If the men approaching you come off as impatient, unaccepting and disrespectful, I might posit that it's because of their very nature. Would an impatient person read your profile; if they then failed to read it and were unaccepting of the terms laid out, would it make sense that they would then message you in a disrespectful fashion?

*shrugs*

I don't think you need to posit the question to a Master specifically, everyone's dealt with jerks before.

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RE: Questions for Masters, from Sub forum - 9/25/2007 6:01:45 PM

SultrySub4M

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thanks lumus,
yes, it does need to be posed and that is why i did it. i've been really lucky here and very pleased to have numerous ppl who are bright and fun send me mail and chat it up. as stated, most are open and very cool. however, i have read many posts on this thread and others and i see a pattern. "Masters" seeking sub/slave writes me or another woman, verbally whips his cock out for comment and praise, then when he doesn't get a ''yes" acts like it is her fault bc she is too stupid (or better yet, not a "true sub/slave") simply bc they didn't jive. penis/Master and vagina/sub doesn't equate automatically with getting laid in a naughty, nasty and fun way. i am making an observation and you are right, the law of averages assures us that there will be a few fucktards wherever we go, including here. there are also 2.1% of people with personality disorders--narcissistic, dependent, paranoid, antisocial--in the general pop so there you go...

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RE: Questions for Masters, from Sub forum - 9/26/2007 1:32:55 AM

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Welcome to the interweb.

Now that you have ranted, do you feel better?

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RE: Questions for Masters, from Sub forum - 9/26/2007 4:44:45 AM

sirguym

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My hypothesis is that any reasonably sane, well-balanced, courteous dominant can find a girl fairly easily and then keeps her and stops looking.

So maybe 80% of Doms are OK, but they are mostly suited already - and if not they can find someone fairly soon.

But the other 20% get more and more desperate, spamming more and more ladies, because they always get the brush-off.

So where I perceive most Doms are OK sorts of guys, having known most of my circle of them for years, often with the same partner for decades.

I can understand how most sigle submissive ladies will get the impression mosts are a waste of space.

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RE: Questions for Masters, from Sub forum - 9/26/2007 6:33:50 AM

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and just because you give it a new subject line doesn't make it a new subject, and if i wanted to read a rant in response to the "do single subs hate men" i would have read the 8 (or how many ever) pages that its at right now...its rather manipulative of you to make a whole new post in a whole different forum under the guise of "i have a question" because, well perhaps it was gullible of me, i read your whole danged rant looking for a valid question in an effort to perhaps share my experience, strength, and hope...being that there was no question....this my experience...just because this is a "good" kinky website doesn't mean this is a "better" or "exclusive" kinky website...suck it up, ignore the people you don't want to talk to....the delete, block and report functions are there for a reason...my strength, i did it, you can do it too....my hope...there is someone out there for you....
and don't do this shit again...
chelle

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RE: Questions for Masters, from Sub forum - 9/26/2007 6:39:56 AM

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IT may surprise you but most of us men here on collar me aren't that hard up that we can't take it sorta slow,What makes it difficult is the subs that continue to play games with long drawn out Ol affairs and wasting time when they know damm good and well that they aren't seeking in RL but only exploring fantasy's in cyber land...Just this ol' Masters opinion and I am sticking' to it....bounty

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RE: Questions for Masters, from Sub forum - 9/26/2007 7:11:56 AM

ErusDespicienta

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SultrySub4M

the law of averages assures us that there will be a few fucktards wherever we go, including here. there are also 2.1% of people with personality disorders--narcissistic, dependent, paranoid, antisocial--in the general pop so there you go...

you forgot histrionic and borderline. . and 2.1% is way to low ! (Not looking for a highjack)

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RE: Questions for Masters, from Sub forum - 9/26/2007 7:24:55 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SultrySub4M

My inbox is full since day one and of all the men requesting my attention, two have gotten beyond niceties and a firm 'nope,i'm not your girl ya dig?.' i clearly stated in my profile what i am doing here, ...............................................

I AM NOT LOOKING HERE!!! This is fun and supposed to be a thrill and make us horny........................................

What is see is a bunch who take themselves waayyyy too seriously, the "lifestyle" as something they alone defined and well, some real fucktards.

Is this ploy to tell us all how full your inbox is and how sought after you are ?

You're not looking here so why don't you shut down your e-mail? You could just delete it all unread but then you might miss the attention.

It's "supposed to be a thrill and make us horney" but it's full of people being way too serious. .

~~ Are you one of the submissives who hates men by chance ?

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RE: Questions for Masters, from Sub forum - 9/26/2007 7:32:40 AM

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my inbox is not full....i rarely get emails anymore

~~this is a ploy brought to you by your local manipulators inc.~~

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RE: Questions for Masters, from Sub forum - 9/26/2007 7:37:33 AM

crouchingtigress

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your thoughts create your reality.....so you might want to rethink all that scarcity thinking.

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RE: Questions for Masters, from Sub forum - 9/26/2007 7:39:57 AM

chellekitty

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i was thinking about making them go away...hey! it worked....i was just being a smart ass with that last response...

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RE: Questions for Masters, from Sub forum - 9/26/2007 8:58:03 AM

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Let's see... How many 'real' slaves are there?

Select all slaves.
Subtract foreign;
Subtract won't move;
Subtract outside-of-age-range;
Subtract wants Mr. Perfect; [I'd like to meet Him, too!]
Subtract no-text-but-every-want=yes;
Subtract selling on sex;
Subtract 'Meet me on Yahoo! messenger.'; [Just a scam...]
Subtract six-foot-one and weighs thirty-five pounds; [Yes, I HAVE seen this!]
Subtract mush-for-brains;
Send a polite, grammatically correct message asking some question(s), and inviting her to check My profile.

Responses: zero.

That's the report from here at the scene; we return you to the studio for more on the story...

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RE: Questions for Masters, from Sub forum - 9/26/2007 3:58:04 PM

jmslilbytch

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LUCKY BASTARDS!!!!! ask them if you want to know how to get in my pants. there are a couple who figured it out and so far, no complaints;-)

You aren't looking, but you write this and post the pics you did on your profile, then talk about how horny you are. Then complain about the responses you get and the attitude.
My mother always had a saying too, "you reap what you sow". Since you say you are "bright", you know exactly what you are doing.

< Message edited by jmslilbytch -- 9/26/2007 4:03:42 PM >

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RE: Questions for Masters, from Sub forum - 9/26/2007 5:08:14 PM

SultrySub4M

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Ok, here is the deal. The truth hurts. My activities on here include fun, spontaneous chatting about sex and sexuality. I clearly indicated in my profile that I am looking for an online D for fun and games. That's what I meant by "get in my pants." My inbox is full, so I don't need to stir up a controversy, nor was my intention to get attention. I believe that this site and these forums are about expressing oneself and that is what I did.
Erus, indeed you are right, the number of PD are much higher than 2.1%, that is the statistic for individual disorders. BPD=2%, Antisocial=2.1%. Most are close to that number, some higher, some lower, capisci? No, I love men, I just don't like fucktards, male or female. I addressed my (?) on this forum bc it is the place to ask masters. Since over 200 have emailed me and I presume that they may visit the thread that is about them, it was/is a perfectly appropriate place to make a point.

I forgot: I also said that they are likely the minority, that I have been thrilled with the cool people I've met here and it should be clear if you read my profile and journal what I am up to here. I am having fun and you should be too.

Chelle: you sound bitter. Sorry for that. You seem cool, but not really caring where you think I should or should not post and what I have to say.

There is no "ploy" made by me. I don't need a ploy to make a valid point. Men who are unable to see their ill-behaved ways often blame the woman who calls them out as a "man hater." Just another way to make excuses for your fucktardism and poor manners.

< Message edited by SultrySub4M -- 9/26/2007 5:10:44 PM >

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RE: Questions for Masters, from Sub forum - 9/26/2007 5:50:24 PM

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Who's to say that your likes in men are not slanted towards the fucktards? I found your op, your profile and your journal to be rambling and self serving. I have met many people in my walk through this life that go over the top to point out their virtues because if they don't continually announce them they might and probably would go unnoticed...It's seems to be the way of compensating for much deeper insecurities. You are on the net...Do you think you are the first person to run into people that you found unattractive or undesirable?

Trust me, there are many more beautiful, intelligent and sexy women out here, when compared to you, who have received many messages without having to promote their pussy, tits and piercings and don't have to refer to their deformed labia to get the attention that you have garnished....It's no wonder guys have responded...A lot of guys enjoy fucking what appears to be a "sure thing."

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RE: Questions for Masters, from Sub forum - 9/26/2007 5:56:32 PM

mmb1

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Where is chiaThePet when you need him? lol

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RE: Questions for Masters, from Sub forum - 9/26/2007 7:05:18 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SultrySub4M

Chelle: you sound bitter. Sorry for that. You seem cool, but not really caring where you think I should or should not post and what I have to say.

There is no "ploy" made by me. I don't need a ploy to make a valid point. Men who are unable to see their ill-behaved ways often blame the woman who calls them out as a "man hater." Just another way to make excuses for your fucktardism and poor manners.

honey, sweety, i was joking, not bitter...i know its hard to read sarcasm, but...get over yourself

edited to add: oh yea...i get a steady stream of 1 to 2 new emails a day after being here for well over 2 years....you haven't been here 2 weeks....

< Message edited by chellekitty -- 9/26/2007 7:07:38 PM >

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RE: Questions for Masters, from Sub forum - 9/26/2007 9:02:21 PM

iammachine

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quote:

I have met many people in my walk through this life that go over the top to point out their virtues because if they don't continually announce them they might and probably would go unnoticed...

I so want to have like ten thousand of your babies now, domiguy. Well said.

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RE: Questions for Masters, from Sub forum - 9/27/2007 5:45:26 AM

SirCache

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ORIGINAL: SultrySub4M
It is not easy finding the right person for you and thankfully, I AM NOT LOOKING HERE!!! This is fun and supposed to be a thrill and make us horny.

That is your take. I come here for the opportunity to see if any connections can be made, to meet interesting people who share some of my relationship values, and for advice/information from a pool of people with diverse backgrounds and experiences. Truthfully I've never walked away from this site horny, there are far better websites with greater range of stories, pictures, movies, etc. that cater to the whims of people when they want to feel horny.

Don't tell me what this is supposed to be, you are not qualified nor permitted to speak on my behalf in determining how I use this website.

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