RE: Sadists: Do you have a NEED to "love" your bottom? (Full Version)

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RRafe -> RE: Sadists: Do you have a NEED to "love" your bottom? (11/4/2007 7:39:52 PM)

Love is commonly subjugated to need, rarely the other way round.




Honsoku -> RE: Sadists: Do you have a NEED to "love" your bottom? (11/4/2007 7:57:31 PM)

Not at all. Though the feelings I experience will differ depending on the feelings I have for the bottom and whether or not the bottom is a masochist or not.


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ORIGINAL: chellekitty

is it bad that i have mental images of a contortionist sadist "loving" their "bottom"?


I am reminded of a scene from Wishmaster(?) where a convict's wish was for his lawyer "to go f--- himself". It involved some strange contortions and a rather surprised look on lawyer's face.

Honsoku




MistressPurpleFL -> RE: Sadists: Do you have a NEED to "love" your bottom? (11/4/2007 8:05:08 PM)

I love to PLAY with pain sluts, love being sadistic but I do not have to be emotionally inlove with anyone I am playing with. However when I did have an emotional connection with someone I played with the intensity was at times greater.




Lordandmaster -> RE: Sadists: Do you have a NEED to "love" your bottom? (11/4/2007 9:43:02 PM)

Maybe someplace in between those two extremes?  No, I don't need to love my bottom (unless you're referring to my ass, I love my ass), but that doesn't mean I don't permit myself to have any concern whatsoever.

Thou shalt not have any concern for thy whip wench!  Bad, bad sadist, for shewing concern for thy whip wench.

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ORIGINAL: gcarlos

Do you have a need (a true need) to love your botton?  Or perhaps care, have empathy for etc. them?  Or do you believe that there should be no emotion towards them?  I anticipate there will be many opinions on both sides and I am really interested to understand both.




juliaoceania -> RE: Sadists: Do you have a NEED to "love" your bottom? (11/4/2007 10:10:31 PM)

From the masochist side of things, I need to feel connected to the person that inflicts pain on me. I get bonded to someone that does so also.

I do not know if I am a normal masochist, but I like to be beaten and loved at the same time. Being hit is like a caress to me.. I can feel like we are completely one when he sends me flying, and I could not fly the way I do unless I felt the love that I do for him.




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