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mstrnaughty -> What I Think (7/22/2005 12:15:22 PM)
Hi I'm new here so it's been suggested to me to try the message boards or chat. I don't care much for the chat venue. It moves too fast for me is all. No reflection on the people. I'm trying the forums because I've had only two people so far that have tried to talk with me. Thank you, to you two. I'm sure that as a new member people may wonder if I know what this is all about. Let me try to understand if I don't describe my ideas properly please feel free to correct my thinking. First of all I do like to control things. I'm not mean about it or heartless, just naughty, nasty, and I like the animal aspect of good sex. As well as the ability to control the situation of course. I love to play and watch as she squirms and begs in ecstasy. In my humble opinion that is 50% of my excitement. I can tell by my physical reaction what I like. The body doesn’t lie. I prefer a father/daughter or teacher/student type scenario. I believe that two or more should compliment each other. Can we both be strong when our partner needs that? Not just as far a sex is concerned, but also as emotional needs and life itself and all it's ups and downs are concerned. I'll be tired. You'll be tired. Can you go that exttra mile? I already know I can. I'm not looking for a mindless drone to do my bidding as I see fit. 'My Bidding' yes that would be part of things (except for the ‘mindless drone’ part) but only as the mood arises. As for MY bidding. I think is would be more like a mutual consent thing. I'll can play my role in the heat of the moment. Provided my partner can adequately play her part. But I'm not here to take anyone's individuality away. I'm simply looking for a partner than can do as she is told. But only on the premise that it is mutually beneficial. The actual sex would be discussed between my significant other, when I find her, and not here. I think that bringing out the best in each other is mutually beneficial. That to me would be the philosophy I would choose to undertake in this regard. I have posted on 'Introduce Yourself' but was informed that not too many people read them. I also posted a story. But I've had no response to it. No matter. Im a good man and I have a good heart. I've just so far in life had a hard time finding a mate that does compliment me. I can be strict. But my justification for that is that I've had a hard life. I was a street kid at the age of 9. I was in foster care and have had many dynamics in my life. I drive a bus in Vancouver area and make a half decent wage. I guess in a way I still live on the streets. But now I get paid $50,000+ a year for doing that. So I think I've done well for myself considering where I came from. I have baggage, part of that is needing to be loved. Like I said I've been denied that as a child. So that is imperitive. If you feel you have the strength... I'm a good man but I'm also a very bad boy. I have an open mind and am willing to explore and enjoy all that life can offer. I don't mind living simple. It's more than I had growing up. I'm open to suggestion and I'll be as honest as anyone can about myself. Thanks for taking the time to read this.

ProScatman -> RE: What I Think (7/22/2005 12:43:11 PM)
Welcome to the boards. I've read your profile on the other side, and might suggest you broaden your interests some. Other than that, I don't see any problems with your biography. I've been here for a while now, and know that a lot of the women here will examine a person's posts on the boards to get a general overall picture of the person. You will find that patience is a virtue here. It's a good idea to get in on threads that interest you here, and I know there will be many. One thing I can se right off going for you is your life experiences. I'm sure there is someone who is looking for a man who has been to the School of Hard Knocks! Have a good day, and welcome again, Mike

Vancouver_cinful -> RE: What I Think (7/22/2005 1:05:45 PM)
Welcome again to the boards! Knowing what you want and need, and being able to clearly articulate that is a huge step towards finding what you are looking for, I think. Kudos for a clear, and informative first post. Cin

happypervert -> RE: What I Think (7/22/2005 3:56:31 PM)
This looks like a personal ad to me and that doesn't belong here. There are a variety of topics in these forums where folks are looking to see what others think. It's better to put your on-topic ideas there, or start a thread that solicits opinions from others.

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: What I Think (7/22/2005 9:43:10 PM)
Your profile starts out saying "I prefer petite, pretty sexy girls"... That isn't bad, but it probably makes the girls that look more average (like you) run away since you don't prefer them; maybe you could reword it to say I tend to be attracted to the petite types, so please have photos on your profile or with your reply? Just my $.02 which you don't have to take because you and I probably have a better chance of seeing Jesus than meeting. [;)] M

IronBear -> RE: What I Think (7/22/2005 10:15:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig Your profile starts out saying "I prefer petite, pretty sexy girls"... That isn't bad, but it probably makes the girls that look more average (like you) run away since you don't prefer them; maybe you could reword it to say I tend to be attracted to the petite types, so please have photos on your profile or with your reply? Just my $.02 which you don't have to take because you and I probably have a better chance of seeing Jesus than meeting. [;)] M I used to have preferences too or I should say that certain types of females I was more attracted to. I never changed my being attracted to them, I just widened my scope and found far more ladies to whom I was really attracted to. Now if your hoping to find the lithe petite little sub/slave and if you are like me, an “Old Fart”, your list of potential choices are trimmed back quite a bit. Some ladies of they type you are attracted to certainly are also attracted to the “Older Gentleman” who may or may not have experience in the lifestyle. It just takes longer to locate them. At one time I actually gave up on finding a partner (socially at that time). Stone the crows, I couldn't believe my luck when in a few weeks I met a lass 30 years younger than me and within the type to which I’m attracted. End of the story is that we have been together 8 years and married the last 4…..

perfection20005 -> RE: What I Think (7/23/2005 4:57:45 AM)
It seems like you know what you want, but I would wait and see if a sub contacts you from the other side. This does seem like a personals ad, and thats not what the forums are about. Good luck though. perfection

Fawne -> RE: What I Think (7/23/2005 6:29:53 PM)
Since you asked.... Your letter is very expressive and actually insightful. Appealing. Your profile...well.... uh.... not. Maybe rework more of the personality you have shown here in the profile? JMHO... but you did ask us!

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