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RE: post-anal play - 9/27/2007 9:32:42 AM   
DonJ9069


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Status: offline 		A product called anal aid will also help it knumbs the area for a bit & lubes as well
have fun & enjoy ......

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RE: post-anal play - 9/27/2007 10:26:23 AM   
MsBearlee


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I don't recommend ever using a numbing-aid for anal sex!  It's really not a good idea; if it hurts, you shouldn't be doing it that way!  That area is both sensitive and delicate...I believe you should FEEL exactly what is going on there.  While LOTS OF LUBE is imperative, just like using smooth objects is imperative, you should be able to feel what's happening.  Besides; it's a good thing! 

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Edited to add:  Yes, masher…perhaps fruit.  Or a finger…or a toy…   How does somebody get to be an adult and not have played with their butt at least enough to discover if they like the feeling or not?


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RE: post-anal play - 9/27/2007 10:35:15 AM   
Samaria


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Status: offline 		I agree - why in hell would you want to numb the area?????
That just takes all the fun out of it!



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RE: post-anal play - 9/27/2007 12:03:46 PM   
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Status: offline 		You might want to get some toys and maybe a butt plug just to get used to the feeling, get various sizes and different shapes to see which feels best for you, oh and have a wank whilst you have something up there, it feels great

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RE: post-anal play - 9/27/2007 4:13:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		Anal play is a rarity for me, but when I do I tend to be sore for a day or two afterwards and I don't poop for a few days.  It's not unusual for me to bleed some as well, no matter how much lube is used.  But after a few days, I'm all back to normal.

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RE: post-anal play - 9/27/2007 4:14:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		Heh heh heh.  She said poop.

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RE: post-anal play - 9/27/2007 4:28:58 PM   
BBWnNC72


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Status: offline 		The first time i was treated to anal, my mate used one finger for a while then added another and so on, till i stretched out a bit. Then when he did use me anally it wasn't so bad.  You have got to stretch, can't express that enough. I have never torn from such good preperation of my anus before hand.  As like almost every one else said, cleanlyness, it's important. And pleanty of lube.  Afterwards, my bowls could be a little lose one time and i would be a little sore. But the pleasure one gains from the session is so tremendous that it doesn't even compair to anything else and one forgets the soreness after a day or two but remembers the joy. Have fun and be safe.
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RE: post-anal play - 9/30/2007 2:59:22 PM   
Lordandmaster


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The elephants watch every once in a while, you know.

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Don't believe them...it feels like giving birth. 


Well quit fucking elephants then.


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RE: post-anal play - 9/30/2007 3:13:22 PM   
Prinsexx


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so i'll be having my first session in a few weeks and i'm interested in being played with anally. i understand things will have to go very slow. my (serious) question: what will going to the bathroom be like shortly afterwards? (will i be able to poop ok?) any problems/concerns?

i ask because i am a total beginner. please take this seriously  

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RE: post-anal play - 9/30/2007 3:15:42 PM   
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Hey!

The elephants watch every once in a while, you know.

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Don't believe them...it feels like giving birth. 


Well quit fucking elephants then.




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RE: post-anal play - 9/30/2007 5:09:05 PM   
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ORIGINAL: game007boy

You might want to get some toys and maybe a butt plug just to get used to the feeling, get various sizes and different shapes to see which feels best for you, oh and have a wank whilst you have something up there, it feels great


And, I'd say work up to the biggest comfortable bugg plug (lots of lube,yes!) and have it in for a bit before doing anal, can make entry much easier without taking away from the enjoyment.

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RE: post-anal play - 9/30/2007 6:35:52 PM   
littlebitxxx


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Status: offline 		I found the aftermath of anal sex to be worse than the act the first time...I could barely leave the bathroom without running back to go more.  Giving myself an enema before anal play or anal sex makes it soooo much more enjoyable, cleaner and then I don't have to poop for hours.

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RE: post-anal play - 9/30/2007 8:55:59 PM   
Koala


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Status: offline 		As far as being a guy goes, there are really only positive benefits... but I'm sure you'll discover those in due time!

Most of the people have touched on the keys - slow and slippery wins the race.

You might feel like you have to poop for a while afterwards... even though nothing will come out. That feeling will pass. You may also be a little tender for a few days, but it will just be a lingering reminder of the experience.

You should write back and tell us how it went!

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RE: post-anal play - 10/1/2007 2:29:40 AM   
eyesopened


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Status: offline 		Go to the drugstore and buy an anal syringe.  It's an anal douche.  A full enema isn't really necessary to get things clean since most insertables aren't long enough to reach the colon. 

i agree with others...you should be inserting your own fingers, getting yourself used to the sensation and explore your body a bit.  Butt plugs are a good idea.  After anal play there can be a feeling of fullness or a even a little nausea.  It passes.  i would never use a numbing cream as first, it doesn't just numb you it numbs everything it comes in contact with and second, pain will let you know if something is wrong.  Just relax. 

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