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xoxi -> Gun Fetish (9/27/2007 9:34:22 PM)
My first 'kinky'experience was actually getting head and having sex with a gun held to my head and other parts of my anatomy. It wasn't loaded...my boyfriend had just cleaned his handgun. And I said we should play with it. I also got spanked. It was my 19th birthday and way hot. I've never had a chance to do gun play again but I really want to. Anyone else think guns are sex?

RRafe -> RE: Gun Fetish (9/27/2007 9:37:12 PM)
Sure. I use all sorts of props to make scenes hotter. Some people seem to think that fear is sex-go figure.

Alumbrado -> RE: Gun Fetish (9/27/2007 9:38:22 PM)
quote: Anyone else think guns are sex? Good question... and one that's never come up here before...[;)]

xoxi -> RE: Gun Fetish (9/27/2007 9:38:34 PM)
Fear is extremely hot to me. Probably because it gets blood pumping and endorphins are released. I also love wrestling and takedowns but a knife to the throat or a gun to the head is just oh my god sex.

RRafe -> RE: Gun Fetish (9/27/2007 9:39:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: xoxi Fear is extremely hot to me. Probably because it gets blood pumping and endorphins are released. I also love wrestling and takedowns but a knife to the throat or a gun to the head is just oh my god sex. [;)] Ya. Or take downs with bondage-the struggle to get free-but you cannot. And he is going to take what he wants.

xoxi -> RE: Gun Fetish (9/27/2007 9:42:23 PM)
purrrrrrr But back to the topic. When I 'played' with a gun it was held against various parts of my skin for a total of like an hour. Including a very warm and moist part of my anatomy. And yet the entire time the gun was still cold as...well metal. It was such a mind trip, just feeling that cold metal touch me. And the guy I was with was 'vanilla' go figure [;)]

RRafe -> RE: Gun Fetish (9/27/2007 9:45:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: xoxi purrrrrrr But back to the topic. When I 'played' with a gun it was held against various parts of my skin for a total of like an hour. Including a very warm and moist part of my anatomy. And yet the entire time the gun was still cold as...well metal. It was such a mind trip, just feeling that cold metal touch me. And the guy I was with was 'vanilla' go figure [;)] The legend of the gun is what makes it so edgy. It represents power-destruction. It's a cold,dead thing that can come to violent life-and we all feel this in our bones. I understand why it's so erotic-it's flirting with the reaper.

xoxi -> RE: Gun Fetish (9/27/2007 9:48:33 PM)
omg yes. That explains it perfectly. I am going to have delightfully violent dreams tonight [:)]

Lashra -> RE: Gun Fetish (9/28/2007 6:39:34 AM)
I own guns and I really like them but I've never used one for play. I have used a knife before when playing with my malesub and even "raped" him once at knifepoint it was very hot for him, but I kept worrying about safety issues so it wasn't as hot for me. I'm something of a safety worry wort. ~Lashra

LATEXBABY64 -> RE: Gun Fetish (9/28/2007 6:51:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: xoxi purrrrrrr But back to the topic. When I 'played' with a gun it was held against various parts of my skin for a total of like an hour. Including a very warm and moist part of my anatomy. And yet the entire time the gun was still cold as...well metal. It was such a mind trip, just feeling that cold metal touch me. And the guy I was with was 'vanilla' go figure [;)] ok this is edge play lol guns are bad make big noise go BOOM

chellekitty -> RE: Gun Fetish (9/28/2007 7:20:09 AM)
oh darn...i was thinking guns in the sense of "this is my rifle, this is my gun, this is for fighting, this is for fun"

DocRudy -> RE: Gun Fetish (9/28/2007 7:24:35 AM)
I've learned a valuable lesson on this matter from personal experience. No matter how many safety precautions you yourself take in the scene, it's likely not worth doing unless your partner has enough experience with firearms to be 110% comfortable around them. The controlled fear from edgeplay is one thing, but uncontrolled hysteria caused by the recipient's total fear of the unknown usually results in a lot more aftercare needed than normal. I'm former military, farm-raised and a firm supporter of the 2nd Amendment, but my vote on this matter is no. -DR

junecleaver -> RE: Gun Fetish (9/28/2007 7:30:04 AM)
I think the idea is super hot. I don't know if I'll ever have an opportunity to experiment with it. I think I'd probably have to attend a lot of classes with my partner and get really comfortable and confident in handling them. It's not one of my biggest fantasies so I doubt I'll ever put enough time into developing the skills I would need to play it out. Still hot though. ;)

kshearsecouple -> RE: Gun Fetish (9/28/2007 8:46:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DocRudy I've learned a valuable lesson on this matter from personal experience. No matter how many safety precautions you yourself take in the scene, it's likely not worth doing unless your partner has enough experience with firearms to be 110% comfortable around them. The controlled fear from edgeplay is one thing, but uncontrolled hysteria caused by the recipient's total fear of the unknown usually results in a lot more aftercare needed than normal. I'm former military, farm-raised and a firm supporter of the 2nd Amendment, but my vote on this matter is no. -DR I tend to agree. My husband is former military the whole nine yards and we have the same view on those things. We have guns for specific reasons and scening really isn't one of them. But to each there own to the orginal OP [:)]

lanie38 -> RE: Gun Fetish (9/28/2007 9:59:25 AM)
I get off on fear...it doesn't really matter whether there's a prop utilized or not. The idea of having a gun to my head while performing sounds hot, although knowing it's not loaded makes it no more scary than him holding a hairbrush to my head. Now, being fucked by the gun, loaded or not, has it's own appeal [:)] ~lanie

xoxi -> RE: Gun Fetish (9/28/2007 11:15:58 AM)
True, that definitely makes sense. I guess to make it truly intense I would need a partner who was able to convince me it was loaded (even with one bullet russian roulette style if it was one of those kinds of guns) but who was also responsible enough not to load the damn thing. And that takes a LOT of trust. But even though it wasn't loaded it was still incredibly hot and intense. Besides he could have just pistol whipped me with it. That hurts quite a bit but is less deadly than a bullet ;) Knives are hot too but its easier to slip and cut someone. I would never ever ever play with a loaded gun. That is just stupid - and Darwinism at its finest. So even if you slip and pull the trigger...nothing happens. But a slip in knife play can kill someone...thats why I've always lay verrrrrry still when I had a knife against my skin. In a way thats even more intense because the capacity for being hurt is far more present.

camille65 -> RE: Gun Fetish (9/28/2007 11:20:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: xoxi purrrrrrr But back to the topic. When I 'played' with a gun it was held against various parts of my skin for a total of like an hour. Including a very warm and moist part of my anatomy. And yet the entire time the gun was still cold as...well metal. It was such a mind trip, just feeling that cold metal touch me. And the guy I was with was 'vanilla' go figure [;)] I've got a real question here about this kind of play/scene. Okies so you do it once and it's great. Don't you learn by the once.. that the gun isn't loaded the second time? Argh it's hard to formulate my question. \xoxi you said right above me that it has to be someone you trust to not load the gun but to be able to convince you it was loaded. Would this work more than just the one time? This seems very one time play for me. How can it be done more than once without losing that which made it so good the first time? That primal fear.

Elegant -> RE: Gun Fetish (9/28/2007 11:25:52 AM)
A gun is always loaded unless I personally inspect it to see that it is empty. So, there is no fear...and no game. Guns are not toys, IMO.

xoxi -> RE: Gun Fetish (9/28/2007 11:27:27 AM)
You know here's the thing. I knew the gun wasn't loaded. I also knew that the gun had been used for various things in the past - it was quite literally a deadly weapon. And feeling the tip of that deadly weapon on various parts of my body was just indescribable. I guess though to answer your question - something about endorphins lead to a suspension of belief. You know how like...when you're in the middle of a hot passionate scene and your man has a hand around your throat and tells you to stay still or he will choke you to death...and your body just instantly freezes? You know he's not going to kill you but something in your brain just says "don't move or you will be hurt" and you listen. When I had a gun to my head and a man breathing threats in my ear I literally forgot that it wasn't loaded. I was too caught up in the moment. Besides even if I said 'yeah right that isn't loaded' he still could have smacked me across the face with it and choked me to death. Or beat me to death. But for some reason I didn't even think that...I guess I'm one of those people who gets totally lost in whatever I'm doing though. And if it hadn't been so passionate and intense I might not have even been ablet o do so. So yeah I'm sorry I can't really answer your question except to say that sometimes sex is more powerful than logic [;)]

camille65 -> RE: Gun Fetish (9/28/2007 11:29:45 AM)
Okay. I do understand that you need to be able to shift it in your head. Thanks.

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