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agirl -> RE: Nakedness..The Good, The Bad, The ugly (9/29/2007 5:27:56 AM)
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I think my last partner taught me that being attractive is about me, not about my body. He is twenty years younger than I am , has been a model, body builds and turns heads of both men and women when we're out. My ugly stretch-marked tummy was "silky smooth and so soft" when he ran his hand over it. He was always pointing out things he liked "I love this part, here, where your back meets your bottom" etc.
His love of my body was stronger than my dislike of it, and although I will never be in love with my tummy, I was/am confident that when HE looked at me he saw *Mmmmm*.
In his words " It's about YOU, the way you move, the way you touch, the way you are, it's the whole package". ........and that has always stayed with me.
Although my Master is a very different person, he makes it feel ok to be naked. He has no worries about being naked himself and is so comfortable with himself that it spills over. It's a *so what?* thing. He also took me to a nudist beach on a lovely sunny day and I found that I adored running around naked so freely. I recently took my children and granddaughter there too, and although my three children kept their kit on, my grandaughter and I trolled around, happily starkers.
Basically, the more I'm naked, the less I notice that I'm naked, a case of getting used to it and affirmation from whoever I'm with.
agirl
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