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MsMathrynn -> Any advice for a lady considering a much younger sub? (9/28/2007 7:32:28 PM)
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Greetings lovely people,
I'm kinda new, to CM and to BDSM. I'm 39, in an open, commited relationship, looking for a submissive to play with on a regular basis, but not looking for an addition to our household. I might possibly be considering a much younger man. This particular person has had a lot more experience than I with kink, but not with poly. I think these two things can be tough to handle together, and 25 seems very young. There's a big difference between dominating and patronizing, and I don't want to mix those two up. For him it seems like there is a big danger of getting attached and feel neglected. As the older person, I would feel especially anxious not to exploit or take advantage, or be callous. Of course, I also have my primary relationship to consider.
Still, it might be fun, all that youthful energy, and he's certainly very smart and communicative, which is good. The kids these days sure seem a lot more sophisticated about these things than we were, FSM bless the internet. I'm deffinitely going to take it slow, but I'd LOVE to hear any words of advice, red flags to look out for, or positive experiences from those of you who have hoed this row.
And thanks to everyone who commented on the previous thread that was very close to this topic. That was helpful to read.
-Mathrynn
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