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RE: Conflicting emotions - 7/26/2005 6:38:26 AM

Fawne

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The only real problem with fantasies like this, as someone has said, is they seem to overlook the reality of life. [/unquote] TY

OP. I am trying not to be nasty, so many are being so, too kind.

Yeah, what if you got hit by a bus one day and she was left alone. Totally without skills, unable to make decisions, penniless?

Can you provide a safe environment for a girl that could submit to that level?

Doubts, doubts, sounds like a troll fantasy, ...silly, silly.

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RE: Conflicting emotions - 7/26/2005 6:40:22 AM

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Surely you don't think she would only ask for the things she did get from her mother/grandmother etc ..... Personal important things, Why not ask for something she got from a flea market for $2 just to see if she can get something past me? Thats why she has to ask and those items that are special and important and full of memories they will come with her.

Your idea of being a slave may be more common or simply different to my own. I choose to reinforce her position to her by starting her life with me in a very bare and unencumbered state. I accept and realise it may not be for everyone and maybe there are other ways of doing this but I haven't done this before.

The unit I mentioned was not a storage unit where I come from they call a small 2 bedroom house in a block of 20, 5 to a floor over 4 floors, that kind of thing, a unit. I hope you understand what I am trying to explain. I live in a unit myself.

I'm not in my mind at any rate talking about bribery. I am refering to a reward based system. Just the same as being rewarded with an orgasm or several after being on orgasm denial for a period of time.

The family issue is something that would have to be talked about once it became an issue and I am meaning before entering into the relationship, I can't give you more of an explanation than this as obviously each situation varies.

Again work is another issue that would have to be discussed but I am not against the idea of her working. Also I have supported a previous g/f on my wage so I'm sure I could do it again.

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RE: Conflicting emotions - 7/26/2005 9:58:33 AM

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I wonder if you are going about this backwards Master Becker.

Meeting somone new that is willing to give that level of control just seems like a train wreck waiting to happen.

Meeting someone, getting to know them in a relationship with a bit less "totality", then introducing more control as trust increases, seems more reasonable.

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RE: Conflicting emotions - 7/26/2005 10:02:07 AM

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And the 18-year-old is more reasonable than the 32-year-old.

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RE: Conflicting emotions - 7/26/2005 10:36:31 AM

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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

And the 18-year-old is more reasonable than the 32-year-old.

That, or has just had more train wrecks.

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RE: Conflicting emotions - 7/26/2005 12:30:28 PM

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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

And the 18-year-old is more reasonable than the 32-year-old. ROTFL

That, or has just had more train wrecks. Awwww... hugs,

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RE: Conflicting emotions - 7/26/2005 6:54:26 PM

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ORIGINAL: MasterBecker

I choose to reinforce her position to her by starting her life with me in a very bare and unencumbered state.

This is a fantasy. Every human being is made up of their past and present and you wish to make a future with a woman who has no past nor no present?
Every human being including yourself, Sir, has baggage...and I am not referring to the kind she brings to your abode.

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The problem with this, is what happens when the relationship fails? When she decides she has had enough, or you no longer continue with her and she is now left with nothing at all? If she decides she wants to leave, How does she leave? Will you pay to move her? buy her new stuff?

I am interested in an answer to this question. A released, unwanted, unneeded, rejected, homeless, penniless, naked woman, with no future because you took at all away?

A fantasy which I am sure you wish and just might make a reality Master Becker.
Good luck and all that.

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RE: Conflicting emotions - 7/26/2005 7:06:22 PM

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ORIGINAL: Fawne

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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

And the 18-year-old is more reasonable than the 32-year-old. ROTFL

That, or has just had more train wrecks. Awwww... hugs,

I would think fawne, the perspective and the perceptions of the young, like Caitlyn ( i tried your profile but zip) can be very enlightening, even if cynical, only becasue they are based on actual reality and not fantasy.

Trains wrecks, Caitlyn, are caused by 2 factors where I see it at this time of night and on this incredibly difficult day, as you know....
1. train wrecks caused by derailment, intrinsic or extrinsic factors, thus only one train involved...or
2. 2 trains... in other words, it takes 2 to make a wreck many times, not just one.
To bear the burden of both is not yours to carry.

many {{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}
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