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Correct me if I'm wrong.Women no matter what the kink l... - 9/29/2007 11:12:13 PM

ededwards

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I think its the chase that gets us off. I never want it to end. Who, what, when, where, why, is she doing...............? "Good Boy!"...."Bad Boy!".... "Thank you, Ma'am." Delicious.

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RE: Correct me if I'm wrong.Women no matter what the ki... - 9/29/2007 11:25:18 PM

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I much prefer to do the pursuing, personally. It's more fun and way more of a rush.

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RE: Correct me if I'm wrong.Women no matter what the ki... - 9/30/2007 1:33:01 AM

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I prefer to be pursued. makes me feel wanted.

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RE: Correct me if I'm wrong.Women no matter what the ki... - 9/30/2007 6:11:29 AM

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since you spend so much time perving both me and those I reference in threads... I have to believe you really do enjoy the chase. However, some women prefer to be simply left alone. Amazing, eh?

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RE: Correct me if I'm wrong.Women no matter what the ki... - 9/30/2007 6:14:21 AM

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I agree with earthycouple....

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RE: Correct me if I'm wrong.Women no matter what the ki... - 9/30/2007 6:51:30 AM

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This is a public forum and for you to intimate that there is some sort of impropriety going on is ridiculous in the extreme. Just so we are clear and I am not delusional. This is a social network for people to share a common interest who wish to find support in a judgmental world that ridicules and belittles their moral choices. Am I right?

And what the hell is this nonsense?

"since you spend so much time perving both me and those I reference in threads"

We had a few yahoo text conversations and I congratulated you on your new boy and you cop an attitude. Please keep your delusions of grandeur to yourself. At least do not smear me with a less than subtle and pernicious stalking intimation.
Enough said. No hard feelings. I forgive you.

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RE: Correct me if I'm wrong.Women no matter what the ki... - 9/30/2007 7:59:16 AM

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I think both people need to express a sincere interest. When Ds is added to the mix I think the dom needs to set the boundaries and have clear ideas about how they want things to flow as they get to know each other but with flexibility.

I love someone who comes up to me at a munch or online but I have to take the next steps, that's just how I am. If I say "I'm not interested" or "I'm not actively looking at this time" any further pursuit pisses me off.

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RE: Correct me if I'm wrong.Women no matter what the ki... - 9/30/2007 9:58:07 AM

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I think women like to be pursued.
But more important, smart men realize that most Dominant women,
want to be obeyed.
Obeying a woman, reaps many rewards.
:)

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RE: Correct me if I'm wrong.Women no matter what the ki... - 9/30/2007 10:16:46 AM

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I'm a hunter by nature I prefer to pursue.

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RE: Correct me if I'm wrong.Women no matter what the ki... - 9/30/2007 10:37:44 AM

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quote:

This is a public forum and for you to intimate that there is some sort of impropriety going on is ridiculous in the extreme. Just so we are clear and I am not delusional. This is a social network for people to share a common interest who wish to find support in a judgmental world that ridicules and belittles their moral choices. Am I right?

Touche'

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RE: Correct me if I'm wrong.Women no matter what the ki... - 9/30/2007 11:23:53 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ededwards
I think its the chase that gets us off. I never want it to end. Who, what, when, where, why, is she doing...............? "Good Boy!"...."Bad Boy!".... "Thank you, Ma'am." Delicious.

It is true that many women, including myself, love to be pursued and courted by gentlemanly types; but most important to me in the context of a D/s relationship, is that is he pays attention to what I tell him/show him, and that he follows that lead, by obeying or doing with consideration for what he's learned from wathing or listening to me.
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I think its the chase that gets us off. I never want it to end.

I do wonder a little if in fact the chase is all that gets you off, than what happens when everyday mundane life becomes the rule rather than the exception? M

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RE: Correct me if I'm wrong.Women no matter what the ki... - 9/30/2007 11:25:53 AM

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NOPE! Not me. I prefer to do the pursuing rather than be pursued.

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RE: Correct me if I'm wrong.Women no matter what the ki... - 9/30/2007 2:07:46 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: FullfigRIMaam

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ORIGINAL: ededwards
I think its the chase that gets us off. I never want it to end. Who, what, when, where, why, is she doing...............? "Good Boy!"...."Bad Boy!".... "Thank you, Ma'am." Delicious.
It is true that many women, including myself, love to be pursued and courted by gentlemanly types; but most important to me in the context of a D/s relationship, is that is he pays attention to what I tell him/show him, and that he follows that lead, by obeying or doing with consideration for what he's learned from wathing or listening to me.
As to the statement of
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I think its the chase that gets us off. I never want it to end.
I do wonder a little if in fact the chase is all that gets you off, than what happens when everyday mundane life becomes the rule rather than the exception? M

*waves to M* Nicely said, Diva...

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RE: Correct me if I'm wrong.Women no matter what the ki... - 9/30/2007 2:41:23 PM

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Of course women love to be pursued, who doesnt :)

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RE: Correct me if I'm wrong.Women no matter what the ki... - 9/30/2007 2:46:20 PM

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I like a sub to show he is interested and to be courted tho a mood can strike where I like to persue at times.

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RE: Correct me if I'm wrong.Women no matter what the ki... - 9/30/2007 2:51:36 PM

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i love being pursued...i like to think they have me and "run away" with them pursing with more determination...so hee hee yeah. plus hide and seek was always my favorite game as a child, the adreneline rush

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RE: Correct me if I'm wrong.Women no matter what the ki... - 9/30/2007 3:51:40 PM

ededwards

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I do wonder a little if in fact the chase is all that gets you off, than what happens when everyday mundane life becomes the rule rather than the exception? M

Ah Yes. Thats it. That is what I mean by never wanting it to end. How do you keep it fresh. I believe it is possible. Yet every rwlatioship has its cycles. How bout, "hope for the best prepare for the worst."

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RE: Correct me if I'm wrong.Women no matter what the ki... - 9/30/2007 3:58:29 PM

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I love to be pursued.
But, only by certain people.
IF I am interested in you, and you know that ---> then
I want you to pursue ME.
I also want to be pursued ONLY by someone that respects
ME, and is willing to go forward at my pace, following my rules.

If you attempt to rush me, or control the pace or the relationship.
Things will not go well for you.

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RE: Correct me if I'm wrong.Women no matter what the ki... - 9/30/2007 4:15:25 PM

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I think women, like people generally, often enjoy good, flattering-yet-not-creepy attention. Women, like people generally, also enjoy providing good, flattering-yet-not-creepy attention.

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RE: Correct me if I'm wrong.Women no matter what the ki... - 9/30/2007 9:39:43 PM

FullfigRIMaam

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Thank you. *smiles and waves back*

M

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