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RE: Gag reflex - 9/30/2007 8:45:36 PM   
grlneedstolearn


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ORIGINAL: SlvrFox

Greetings to all. I have checked the archives for this question and did not find it altho I am sure it has been asked before.
 
I have a problem with gagging when deep throating my Master. I know I need to learn to relax these muscles but have not found a way to do so. Are there any suggestions from the other sub/slaves to accomplish this task?
 
R & R,
 
Slvr


i also would like to know for the near future

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RE: Gag reflex - 10/1/2007 5:27:37 AM   
Drifa


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ORIGINAL: SlvrFox
I have a problem with gagging when deep throating my Master. I know I need to learn to relax these muscles but have not found a way to do so. Are there any suggestions from the other sub/slaves to accomplish this task?


At the depth of the stroke swallow hard, over and over. If you are highly focused on swallowing, it allows deeper penetration. It's not really about relaxing anything, just timing on the swallowing motion.

I personally am a HUGE fan of laying on my back with my head tipped over the end of the bed, and performing oral sex from there.  It's so totally out of your control in that position, and yes, you may not be able to breathe and you have to focus... something to do only with a trusted partner.

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RE: Gag reflex - 10/1/2007 7:10:49 AM   
HotFaerieMama


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Status: offline 		i don't have a gag reflex i got rid of it . i just well tickled it i guess you could say seval times a day for about a year and it was gone.. i hope it stays gone...

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RE: Gag reflex - 10/1/2007 4:00:01 PM   
Lythe


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Status: offline 		One thing a former Dominant of mine did was just sit there and have me 'practice'  he didn't touch me he let me figure out how to take him as deep as I could with out gagging.  It was nice because I was able to practice angles that worked better and it let me practice some of my 'oral skills' on him. 

I still gag quite a bit still when someone else is guiding my head but my theory is every little bit helps.

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RE: Gag reflex - 10/1/2007 7:01:38 PM   
ThinkingKitten


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Status: offline 		A guy I know told me that he actually doesn't mind a little light teeth scraping . He knows he's not going to get bitten but finds it heightens the sensations (I guess).

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RE: Gag reflex - 10/1/2007 7:48:10 PM   
trappedinamuseum


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Status: offline 		The mint cream was probably called "Great Head".  Its not a miracle worker, but can help a person take at least a inch more than they could.  it numbs the back of the mouth, settling the gag reflex...works like a charm.  It also comes in yummy flavors, and even a travel size variety pack...ummm..not that I have it or anything.

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RE: Gag reflex - 10/1/2007 7:52:54 PM   
AppleDanish


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Status: offline 		I used to own a home party lingerie company where I sold fun adult products as well.  We carried Kama Sutra's Pleasure Balm.  I'd introduce this green minty fun stuff as the perfect product for those that suffered from Weeniegagaphobia.  Mix a little of it with some water and gargle.  It would numb the gag reflex and give you good breath, too. 

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RE: Gag reflex - 10/2/2007 5:25:47 AM   
Drifa


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Weeniegagaphobia
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ORIGINAL: AppleDanish

I used to own a home party lingerie company where I sold fun adult products as well.  We carried Kama Sutra's Pleasure Balm.  I'd introduce this green minty fun stuff as the perfect product for those that suffered from Weeniegagaphobia.  Mix a little of it with some water and gargle.  It would numb the gag reflex and give you good breath, too. 


OMG, "Weeniegagaphobia" made me spit coffee on my monitor. Hee hee!

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RE: Gag reflex - 10/3/2007 7:35:57 PM   
ddthrill


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Status: offline 		wouldn't something that numbed the throat numb his thing too? Is it absorbed fast?

I choke and gag some. I think they like it... hard to take..but worth it

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RE: Gag reflex - 10/3/2007 8:12:25 PM   
valkyriesdaughte


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Status: offline 		Just me personally, but....I absolutly detest oral, I feel like i can't breathe, which causes anxiety, which makes me hyperventilate, and it doesn't take much to gag me at all. (Long story of how I got that way). Forcing would so not work at all for me, period.

I simply inform anyone I'm seriously considering that this a a huge issue for me, I'll do it, but can only handle it when I control the depth and timing. If they cannot accept that, and insist I just "need to get over it with practice", and get really really hung up on that paticular detail, I figure we are never going to be a good match.

Respect is a 2 way street, and I feel my squicks should be respected.

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RE: Gag reflex - 10/4/2007 7:50:00 PM   
newtoCOsub


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ORIGINAL: ThinkingKitten

A guy I know told me that he actually doesn't mind a little light teeth scraping . He knows he's not going to get bitten but finds it heightens the sensations (I guess).


i know i always 'use a lil teeth action'.   i haven't gotten a complain.  Hee hee

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RE: Gag reflex - 10/5/2007 8:05:22 PM   
Domin8uNY


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Status: offline 		I've found that the subs I do this to (which is all of them) have an easier time taking it if they're on their backs. I still prefer the visual of a kneeling girl, though, and I like seeing them gag a little!

I think the important thing is to learn to time your breathing so that you can take a breath when he pulls out, and to trust him enough not to panic when he's all the way in.

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RE: Gag reflex - 10/6/2007 7:08:41 AM   
Sexynmentalinkc


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ORIGINAL: AppleDanish

I'd introduce this green minty fun stuff as the perfect product for those that suffered from Weeniegagaphobia. 




If this is the stuff I'd mentioned earlier (pretty sure it is)...then I can personally vouch for it.


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RE: Gag reflex - 10/6/2007 7:31:51 PM   
tasha_tart


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Status: offline 		All I can throw in is, in my experience, the gag reflex gets to be less and less of an issue with practice.
 
As for breathing...if I can't breathe through my nose or mouth...I just back off every so often to get a couple of deep breaths, and then dive back in.
 
Tasha

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RE: Gag reflex - 10/6/2007 8:56:04 PM   
sweetcreeangel


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Status: offline 		never done it i have a problem wtih gagging as well so any ideas would appericate it as well

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RE: Gag reflex - 10/7/2007 2:24:26 PM   
kittyinpink


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Status: offline 		Hmmm... I think I'll definitely try the mint numbing stuff next time.

Even though I have a bit of a gagging problem it really hasn't proved a problem since my last partner enjoyed grabbing my hair and making me choke.  *shivers* I love it!


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RE: Gag reflex - 10/8/2007 3:08:06 PM   
woodsbunny


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Status: offline 		Position is extremely important. For us some work and some don't. Practice is how we got there, lots and lots of practice. All of a sudden there was no problem (more or less, still gagging I understand, but nothing I can hear or notice).

Breathing is an issue, of course, and she has the freedom to back off whenever she needs to. I try to keep my tempo regular so she can take breaths between strokes.

Lightly scraping teeth is great!

Hope this helps.

Woodsbunny

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RE: Gag reflex - 10/8/2007 6:29:59 PM   
proudsub


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Status: offline 		These might help.

Deep throating issues?

Deep throating

Problems with deep throating?

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RE: Gag reflex - 10/9/2007 9:29:36 AM   
worththeeffort


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Status: offline 		An ex-Dom of mine used to LOVE teeth during oral, to the point where i was scared i was gonna hurt him! He actually has two scars town the top side of his cock from my teeth! Then again, he enjoyed being bitten all over lol.

As for the gagging, i think practice makes perfect just about covers it. i know i for one, need more practice lol.

~kitty

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RE: Gag reflex - 10/9/2007 9:39:08 AM   
chellekitty


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Status: offline 		i have an ex that loved to hear me gag....was an ego thing....made him "feel big"...not that there was anything wrong with his size....

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