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Quickies - 10/1/2007 1:16:16 AM

alexfromsacto

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I assume that the majority of sexual encounters in the kink world are similar to the vanilla world, as far as foreplay beforehand and trying to get both partners to orgasm (unless that's specifically denied for some reason). I'm curious, are there more quickies in the kink world? Seems like a master might just want to amuse himself with a sub for a few minutes or something, right? Considering of course that it's consentual slavery and if the person is not satisfied they won't stick around.

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RE: Quickies - 10/1/2007 1:18:55 AM

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They're more called "Play Partners". for some people anyhow. It's when it's not a dedicated relationship but when you want to do something involving a type of scene, such as floggings, canings, etc.

You see a lot of people who don't know each other meet each other at clubs just for this short period of time, to do something that they can't do by themselves at home.

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RE: Quickies - 10/1/2007 1:21:20 AM

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I'm assuming he means length of time of sexual encounter and not relationship, I might be wrong though. And yes, it's still a relationship, will I stop by my Dom's office if he's working late for a quick blowjob, hell ya.
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RE: Quickies - 10/1/2007 1:27:38 AM

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I don't think you have quickie sexual encounters any more often in BDSM than you have in the vanilla world. Possibly even less because so many like to separate BDSM play from sex. If two people are in a relationship, they probably do quickies, longies and all times in between. I know I do.

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RE: Quickies - 10/1/2007 2:01:39 AM

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My Master and i have lots and lots of quickies! However because of time contraints (as is the norm for these encounters surely for those into BDSM and those vanilla types alike) we just stick to fairly bog standard stuff eg blowjobs etc He talks to me all the while (unless He can't of course!) so that W/we are both in BDSM headspace so to speak, but that is it...

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RE: Quickies - 10/1/2007 4:19:30 AM

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Lol, well occasionally around here we indulge in biker quickies that are proceeded by biker foreplay.

Foreplay - "Wanna fuck?"

"Now?"

Bang and woo wee that was good.

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RE: Quickies - 10/1/2007 6:14:02 AM

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Since we live together, there are plenty of times where all he does is a quick spanking, or nipple pinching etc. Not anything that requires getting undressed and redressed but just through the clothes or reaching under them.

I don't think of them as quickies, more like the equivalent of a passionate kiss that promises more to come that night.

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RE: Quickies - 10/1/2007 6:17:05 AM

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RE: Quickies - 10/1/2007 8:02:12 AM

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my Master isn't really into quickies, we've maybe had a handful in our nearly 7 years of being together. He likes to take his time, really lose himself in the experience. but that's not a D/s or M/s thing so much as a Him thing.

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RE: Quickies - 10/1/2007 8:05:43 AM

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~fast reply~

I don't think BDSM has anything to do with tendency towards quickies or not.

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RE: Quickies - 10/1/2007 8:41:02 AM

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There were a few times where Sir and I had a quickie.
Good stuff.

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RE: Quickies - 10/1/2007 8:42:57 AM

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Depends on the couple and the agreed upon relationship. I know in my relationships that are one of the freedoms that I want my Master to consider an absolute right and to indulge in at will. He owns my body to do with what he pleases and for him not to have to worry about my satisfaction. It turns in to an overall win win situation.

Blow job on demand is pretty standard with being a submissive in a power exchange relationship.

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RE: Quickies - 10/1/2007 9:24:10 AM

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Not every one does it in that fashion. Some doms don'tm don't care if their sub orgsms, some doms, are into the sex for their gratification, and if you liked it, that was incidental.

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ORIGINAL: alexfromsacto

I assume that the majority of sexual encounters in the kink world are similar to the vanilla world, as far as foreplay beforehand and trying to get both partners to orgasm (unless that's specifically denied for some reason).

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RE: Quickies - 10/1/2007 12:18:33 PM

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I never had nearly so many quickies in a vanilla relationship as I did with my ex, who was my first D/s experience. I don't think there was a single time he didn't greet me with his cock within the first 30 seconds of us being in a room alone together. Then we'd move on to the "hello, how was your day?" after a little of that. And then more elaborate fun later. Okay, that sounds formulaic, but really it was anything but lol. We also enjoyed a lot more semi-public quickies (bathrooms, stairwells, secluded park benches...) that vanillas tend to take a lot more convincing for. But it probably just depends on the people and the relationship. I would think that BDSM folks are less inhibited and thus probably have more quickies though, just my hypothesis.

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RE: Quickies - 10/1/2007 12:28:17 PM

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I assume that the majority of sexual encounters in the kink world are similar to the vanilla world, as far as foreplay beforehand and trying to get both partners to orgasm.
Not for me, Sir does not care if i orgasm or not most of the time.. sex is for His pleasure.
Seems like a master might just want to amuse himself with a sub for a few minutes or something, right?
Few minutes, few hours, His perogative.
Considering of course that it's consentual slavery and if the person is not satisfied they won't stick around.
I'm not always satisfied in the sense of i don't always orgasm but i am satisfied sexually yes. The most important thing for me though is that Sir is satisfied.

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RE: Quickies - 10/1/2007 12:38:30 PM

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Quickies work for me. She has little to no libido, so why would I want to waste both our time on delaying my gratification unless I'm looking for more at the time and/or have worked her up for it? For that matter, a quickie of that sort sometimes serves to work her up.

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RE: Quickies - 10/1/2007 12:40:03 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: alexfromsacto
I'm curious, are there more quickies in the kink world? Seems like a master might just want to amuse himself with a sub for a few minutes or something, right?

Okay, this is how much my mind separates sex from BDSM. Even though you used the word orgasm, I didn't equate a BDSM quickie to a sexual encounter. Himself will pull me over his lap several times a day (or I'll throw my naked butt over his lap - usually during tv commercials - and hope!) and he'll give me a couple of dozen swats till I'm nice and rosy or he might come up behind me while I'm making dinner and clamp several clothespins on my ass while I'm cooking, then slap them off with a spatula or something. That was where my mind went when I thought of BDSM quickies. ::laughs::

Anyway, within that context, yes, we have many quickies of a BDSM nature.. very few quickies that are actual sexual encounters though.

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RE: Quickies - 10/1/2007 1:01:49 PM

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I used to have tons of quickies. I mean, blah, a guy our age, waking up in the morning, you can be quite horny, right? Gotta get dressed, showered up, and run off to school. What do you do? The sub. She's right next to you, and she's better than masturbation. (Arguably, at times.)

Heh. My poor sub. She probably deserved it, though.

If you mean scene-based sex, though.. no experience there. Scenes aren't for me.

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RE: Quickies - 10/1/2007 2:56:19 PM

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quote:

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I used to have tons of quickies. I mean, blah, a guy our age,..

LMAO oh dear, the innocence(?) of youth, or perhaps the naivete`. I looked at your profile to check exactly what "age" you meant.

Argent is in his 50's, and sweet boy, you got nothin' on him. wake up in the morning huh? There are nights I am awakened by a hand in my pussy - a few quick thrusts to get some "lube" goign and wham bam, and he's back asleep, damn yes! it's great. Or again, middle of the night, he rolls over to face me on his side, sort of shakes me awake and pushes my head down so I can lay on my side facing him and just "say ah" so he can f--- my mouth as hard as he wants to. Again, wham bam and back to sleep. Think cooking dinner is safe? Not necessarily. At least he does say something like ... can you turn that off a minute? I usually do not even reply. just turn it off and I will be over the couch or the table. usually those are just whip it out, get it in and back to cooking, and usually one like that means it's going to be avery late night! weg!!!

There is also the "play or pain" quickie where I get a few hard well aimed swats, pinches, scratches or something else like that. It's just the way we live, love, and enjoy each other.

Remember - youth is something you will outgrow and think how sad it'd be if that meant all this sort of fun stuff was over!

MsOpal

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RE: Quickies - 10/1/2007 3:13:59 PM

littlebitxxx

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Quickie sex is awesome. Much easier in the 'kink' world, as you put it, because I find we have less inhibitions. Or maybe we just think of sex differently than most. Whatever. Now quickie SM I don't think quite so agreeable.

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