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Bobkgin -> RE: Outdoor Play (10/1/2007 5:15:14 PM)
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You might find this useful:
Living on 2+ acres of forested property in the middle of a forest that stretches from just south of here all the way to James Bay has given me some opportunities to learn more about Outdoor Bondage.
Allow me to share what I've learned.
Assuming most of you do not own part of a forest, outdoor bondage in a forest would be both a treat and a hazard. Here are some tips to make it safer.
"Lions and Tigers and Bears, oh my ..."
It is easy for urbanites to assume that all the wolves have run off and the bears wiped out. Think again.
In rural forests of any size in North America you are likely to find all kinds of critters "with teeth that bite, claws that scratch".
Bears, wolves, coyotes, feral/abandoned dogs, coydogs (vicious cross-breeds between dogs and coyotes) are amongst the predators in my area. Other areas include Grizzlies and Cougars. Before entering the woods be sure you know what you might be facing in your area. Even animals that would not normally prey on humans can carry rabies and be subject to unpredictable, even irrational behaviour.
Before pulling out the rope it is a good idea to walk about in the forest, looking for signs of predation. Whether it is animal scat, a carcass, or tracks, there are many signs an animal leaves behind it for the wary traveller.
If you find such signs, consider another forest.
"Lassie to the rescue ..."
Not hard to see from the problems above why humans domesticated dogs. I have nine lab/border collies (a family) plus a fence, and combined they've done a great job of keeping my property clear of predators (despite the fact there have been more than one coyote pack in the area from time to time).
But keep a few things in mind.
That Jack Russell Terrier is a snack for a pack of wild dogs. But he'll fight to the death to protect you, if he loves you enough. Be fair to your pet: don't ask more of it than it can give. Even a larger dog can be taken down by a pack, so consider your risk and choose appropriately.
Other bug-a-boos:
Summertime in a forest: sounds fun, right? Don't forget the DEET. Amongst the nasty multi-legged critters are black flies, mosquitos (West Nile, anyone?), deer flies, horse flies, and ticks.
Check your area for the times when these bugs are prevalent. Here, blackflies are popular in spring, mosquitos follow them and last throughout the summer, deer flies and horse flies become a nuisance when the summer gets hot. Ticks are a pest from the thaw to the first hard frost.
Note that horse flies and deer flies are particularly vicious, carving out a circle of skin so as to drink the blood. Horse flies especially don't give a damn about DEET.
And if biting insects are not enough, consider what happens when any bug decides your bound sub/slave's nose or ears would make an excellent little nesting area (o.O)
Fortunately they make hats with netting (like a bee-keeper's hat). It is advisable you bring one along, just in case.
Not a sterile environment:
If you like things clean, a forest is not the best venue to play. Consider -everything- in the forest unsanitary.
The upshot of this is do not poke -anything- you've found in the forest into a body orifice. If you are bringing toys for that purpose be sure they are clean before you leave home and place them in something that will keep them that way until used. If you drop a toy in the forest, especially a wet toy, do not re-use it till you've returned home and cleaned it, and do not store it with the clean toys while you are out.
Chemical defenses:
Many plants produce toxic chemicals to make them unpalatable to the herbivores. Things like Poison Ivy, for example. Be sure you know what is in your area that should not be touched, and how to recognize these plants. Having your sub/slave roll in the ivy may sound like a cool trick, but the rash that will result will be horrendous, and personally I'd consider it sufficient grounds for a divorce, so use your head.
"They shot Bambi ...":
The last critter you need to worry about is the two-legged variety. Anywhere forested enough and large enough is likely to have all kinds of people walking through it, especially if it is close to an urban area. Nature-lovers and nature-hunters abound in the woods (depending upon season), so be sure whichever site you choose for fun and games is secluded and truly private. Litter and footprints will be your best warning signs to watch for. Or simply look in the parking lot for those guys in orange jackets and a string of yapping dogs on a leash
One more thing, I do not advise you to trespass on private property. Granted it is the property with the fewest people on it, but the owner may have a gun and not take kindly to bondage scenes being enacted on his/her property. If he or she has dogs (and you can be pretty sure they do) you can certainly expect their unwanted attention once you start making noises (like the crack of a whip).
A quick note about supplies:
Water, food (sugar for a quick energy boost), astringent (rubbing alcohol, peroxide), first aid kit, and After Bite or some other insect bite treatment are essential. Clothing suitable for the weather. I advise that the sub/slave wear whatever can be thrown back on the quickest. I do not advise shorts (tho' cooler, they offer more skin to the insects and poison ivy). A track suit is usually good.
"Hot enough for ya ...":
Before setting out, be sure you have chosen a good day for play. High winds, storms, tornados, hurricanes, etc are probably a better day to play indoors. Listen to radio reports, stick your head out the window, get a sense of what is happening and what is likely to happen while you are playing. Lots of things snap in a high wind in the forest, including tree trunks, so choose a day when things are pretty calm.
With this in mind, I do recommend playing in a fog. This kind of play is time-sensitive, as the cool air and fog will fatigue a nude and bound sub/slave quickly. If you engage in this play, a thermos of hot tea, coffee, hot chocolate, etc, is highly advisable, as is a warm and dry blanket. Play can be extended with frequent breaks to warm up.
Do -not- expect your sub/slave to revive while bound just because you've thrown a blanket around him/her and rubbed a few times. This is a good time to unbind them completely, wrap that blanket around, open up the thermos, and allow your sub/slave to nestle into you, absorbing your heat as well.
Nothing quite so romantic as sitting thus on a beautifully foggy day.
Selecting a site:
Bearing everything I've said so far in mind, the site should be relatively dry (no puddles), someplace where you can catch a breeze (especially on hot days), and have a suitable tree (or trees) for the bondage. The trees should be healthy and sturdy, with at least one good strong branch that is either within reach or not much higher than that.
To test a branch, grip it and lift your feet off the ground (and be ready to jump clear if the branch gives). If your sub/slave is heavier than you, get him/her to do it while you spot them to ensure their safety.
The branch may dip, but should neither break nor make a sound.
If you are planning something like four-way suspension (each limb tied to a different branch/tree) be sure you check all the branches involved.
Bear in mind that trees flex and sway in the wind. Even if you don't feel a wind, look at the tops of the trees to see how the wind up there is moving the tree about. A mild sway can add to the fun, but a series of violent swaying can cause problems (thus the warning about high winds), so be alert and choose appropriately.
A few final considerations:
Keep in mind the noises you make travel in a forest. The sound of whips or screaming is going to attract whatever is out there. Keep this in mind at all times, if you want to avoid attention.
Be sure the knot stays within reach if you want your rope back. Tying a slip knot and tightening it till it is snug against a branch three feet beyond reach is not retrievable (at least, not easily).
Do not expect a rope around a tree trunk to hold anything -up-, even if the rope is tied tight against the trunk. The bark of a tree can be crushed and can fall away from the trunk, leaving a tight rope loose. If you are looking to hold anything up with rope, look for anything that sticks out from the truck, such as a sturdy branch or the knot that remains after a branch falls away (in the case of a knot it will only work if the sub/slave being held is on or close to the opposite side of the trunk).
Obviously all other rules regarding rope safety apply, above and beyond the tips I've provided here for outdoor play.
"Tie that yellow ribbon 'round the old oak tree...":
I've found that outdoor bondage/play can be exciting, refreshing and highly erotic, when done with safety in mind.
I hope the above helps those of you who wish to engage in this activity.
Safe Journeys.
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