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Celeste43 -> RE: help (10/1/2007 10:57:42 AM)
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Protocol and rituals are different for everyone. What one dominant wants, another does not. Whether you've ever been in a d/s relationship before is moot, you don't know what your new dom would like until he teaches it to you or you explore it together and he sees whether or not he likes it.
I'm not clear about positions, unless you mean Gorean slave positions. If so, there are sites on the web that will explain them. Even so, if your knees are bad, then you aren't ever going to kneel no matter what.
My standard advice to newbies is to figure out what appeals to you. Does the idea of being tied up get you all hot and squirmy? Then you're likely to enjoy it when you try it. Does the idea of an over the knee spanking make you nauseous and anxious? Then you probably won't announce it's on your top ten list after trying it.
In the meantime, become the best person you can be. Learn things you've always wanted to, whether it's hiking, baking, auto repair, or giving massages. Because the more you know your own likes and dislikes, the easier it is to screen out the people you are incompatible with. If you hate golf, you'll know you're incompatible with someone who wants to do 36 holes every Saturday and Sunday.
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