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Is it just me ? - 10/1/2007 3:25:35 PM   
spankedsteve


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Hello everybody,

I was wondering if any Dominant women actually enjoy meeting people from this site, not just for financial gain., i dont know if i'm doing something wrong but the only ladies who have been in touch with me need me to send them some cash,

I've only recently been contacted than none other than the daugther of Republic of Sudan's deputy minister for finance (lucky me !), as whose father has been tragically killed by the Sudan President Omar al Bashir in a helicopter crash.

Its not all bad news for though for the Republic of Sudan's deputy minister for finances daughter though, as he left her 8.5 million us dollars (every cloud has a silver lining  !!), which she would like me to help her recover.

I dont yet know how she wants me to help her, but i've got an inkling that it may involve me handing over all of my banking details !

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RE: Is it just me ? - 10/1/2007 3:30:28 PM   
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I can personally assure you that not every female Dominant on these boards is interested in your money.  I have the greatest fun meeting people from the site, just for the sake of meeting people.  Of course, I don't play with all of them, but some of them I do, and I believe that there is a lot of fun to be had out there.
 
Of course, My thoughts on casual play are not the same as everyone's.  I don't expect everyone to think the way I do on the subject.

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RE: Is it just me ? - 10/1/2007 3:32:21 PM   
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lol lucky you Steve !!! but seriously .. I have me people from here and always with the idea that at worst I make a new lifestyle friend and at best there is a potential submissive for me.......You have to weed thru a lot of fakes and idiots on any site or in real life .. jsut be patient and keep going ...

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RE: Is it just me ? - 10/1/2007 3:34:41 PM   
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It seems like you are intelligent enough to know a scam when you see one. there are those that are not here to take your money, use your intelligence and weed out the scams.


edited because I am not intelligent enough to spell intelligent right...

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RE: Is it just me ? - 10/1/2007 4:01:24 PM   
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Thanks for the replies everyone, i'll just keep on looking,

I've replied to the ministers daughter so i'll have to wait and see what comes back !!

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RE: Is it just me ? - 10/1/2007 4:20:34 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: spankedsteve

Hello everybody,

I was wondering if any Dominant women actually enjoy meeting people from this site, not just for financial gain., i dont know if i'm doing something wrong but the only ladies who have been in touch with me need me to send them some cash,

I've only recently been contacted than none other than the daugther of Republic of Sudan's deputy minister for finance (lucky me !), as whose father has been tragically killed by the Sudan President Omar al Bashir in a helicopter crash.

Its not all bad news for though for the Republic of Sudan's deputy minister for finances daughter though, as he left her 8.5 million us dollars (every cloud has a silver lining  !!), which she would like me to help her recover.

I dont yet know how she wants me to help her, but i've got an inkling that it may involve me handing over all of my banking details !


haha I get those every day too and I also seem to win the lottery alot in underdeveloped countries...which I find amusing.  Yes there are Dominant women who are not seeking financial gain on this and other sites.  The numbers of Dominant women alone regardless of their issue on money seem to be rather low, so I would recommend patience.  It seems you already have a good sense of humor, that will come in handy as well.  Good luck in your search.
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RE: Is it just me ? - 10/1/2007 5:31:08 PM   
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Oh, the scammers can be a lot of fun if you string them on and mess with their little minds.  http://www.ebolamonkeyman.com

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RE: Is it just me ? - 10/1/2007 7:56:17 PM   
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i was scammed once not for too much money, but now whenever someone on line even brings up the topic of money for what ever they get deleted no questions asked.  Including those financial Mistresses.. i have very strong feelings on those topics.. but it is to late to dive into them.. :)  Run while you can before they start making sense to you.

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RE: Is it just me ? - 10/1/2007 8:14:02 PM   
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I got an email a couple weeks ago from a rather handsome gent who thought he would be a perfect slave for me - of course he was educated, wonderful career, world traveler...who just *happened* to be working in Ghana for a couple weeks.  Ahem.  I couldn't be bothered to string him on until the inevitable "I need money to get back into the country so I can be your slave".

So:
     1.   We all get emails from scammers - some more obvious, some less so.

     2.   There are plenty of lifestyle dommes around, but it will take some effort and time to find one  - more than just signing up to an online personals site and sending out a few emails.

     3.  Remember that for every contact from a Domme (or other) who just wants your money, the Dommes are getting 5 - 10 emails from male "subs" who basically just want wanker material and have no regard for the Domme as more than a fetish delivery service. 

     4.  It's a personals site - most of the people you come in contact with will not, for whatever reason, be anything remotely close to what you're looking for.  It's just a fact.
   
and last, but not least....

    5.  b., your place is quite safe from being usurped from a scammer from Ghana ;-)...love you.  

< Message edited by MsSonnetMarwood -- 10/1/2007 8:16:09 PM >


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RE: Is it just me ? - 10/1/2007 8:17:25 PM   
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well i've sent her the below reply so time will tell...

It really is great to hear from you Lola

I'm saddened to hear about your fathers tragic helicoptor crash, i think i may have read about it on the news, i only hope the 8.5 million dollars he left you may bring you some happiness in your darkest hour

If theres anything at all that i could do to help, i would be glad too, i dont know if it would be of assistance but i would be glad to hand over any personal banking details if that would help you get through this sad time

you asked to know a little more about me so i've enclosed a photo ( i attached a photo of indiana jones !), my main passion is archeology, but i also enjoy  travel and adventure greatly , i dont however like snakes .

Is there anything else you would like to know about me ?

please tell me more about yourself and if possible include a photo

regards

steve

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RE: Is it just me ? - 10/1/2007 8:19:39 PM   
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LOL nice going!
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RE: Is it just me ? - 10/1/2007 9:17:26 PM   
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Steve, my handsome American adventurer, I so love the rugged look
and the hat especially. It is exciting to hear that you love to dig up
old things, perhaps you could dig up my fathers bones from the
hillside where his helicopter so tragically landed...er....crashed.

I also have a dislike of snakes, having met so many here on the
internet, so uncaring and dishonest. Not to change the subject,
but yes, your bank account number and any credit card numbers
would be of great solice to me during my great sadness. Perhaps
i could borrow just a small amount until my father's will is finalized.
At which time i will send for you and reward you handsomely in
person.

At your request, i have included a photo of myself to the left of my
grateful letter. It was not the best of hair days, but i am willing to
undergo an extreme makeover, just for you goodlooking. I will simply
need to borrow just a bit more until i receive my majestic bounty.

It is custom here, that the surviving daughter of all helicopter crash
victims must first purchase the golden key to unlock the prize of the
dead. Once again, it will be your most generous help which makes
this a reality for me, and shall in return reap the glorious dance of
the one hundred and twenty seven veils. After the last veil falls,
the great key shall open the box which contains my fortune, and
thus your repayment. Together we shall be carried high on shoulders
to the great Mall Of The Sudan, where i shall experience a spree of
shopping unknown to mankind. I will be outfitted in the royal adorments
befitting a grieving daughter. Only the finest furs, silks, and jewels will
be allowed to touch my olive skin. All for you my dear Steve, all for you.

I shall await with baited breath the numbers which shall free me from my
horrific pain wonderful Steve. I am most fortunate indeed to meet such
a suck..er...sweet and marvelous American savior. By midnight please,
otherwise the key shall be lost forever, and I will be forced to wait tables
at the local Harem of Hooters Bar and Grille. Please hurry dear Steve.

Midnight at the Oasis, look my camel is dead
Let's slip off to a sand dune, real soon, kick up a little lust.

Lola* (the pet)

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RE: Is it just me ? - 10/1/2007 9:29:30 PM   
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I'm certainly not interested in money. I'd much rather make my -own- money then take someone elses. I'm personally interested in people that are looking for more than just a quick play or anything.

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RE: Is it just me ? - 10/1/2007 9:48:16 PM   
laurell3


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lol @ chia, hurry give chia money for the makeover so we can see the real chia steve!
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RE: Is it just me ? - 10/2/2007 5:20:22 AM   
Switchsubcouple


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Ms Sonnet i agree with the money slaves and money Mistresses they are a match made in heaven.  i use to run into the Money Mistress alot and i feel if my profiles are clear about what i seek and giving away money isn't listed then why approach me?  then after approaching me without telling me all they seek is money but under the cover of looking for a good slave.  i write back and they instantly say "Pay me" for my time.  excuse me You wrote to me maybe You should pay me.  :)  Other than that i have no issues with them.  But the scammers well i do have strong feelings about after being scammed by one.

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RE: Is it just me ? - 10/2/2007 2:06:49 PM   
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quote:

spankedsteve wrote: I dont yet know how she wants me to help her, but i've got an inkling that it may involve me handing over all of my banking details!

Actually, it more likely involves you paying money up front to cover the poor lady's expenses in getting your money to you, typically starting off fairly small and then ramping up to whatever you're prepared to part with.  A less common tactic is to arrange a meeting and kidnap you.

The overall effect is the same, though.

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RE: Is it just me ? - 10/2/2007 4:36:21 PM   
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Not it's not just you.  I wonder that at times myself.  Just trudge along through all the heaps of crap like I do(Female half).  No not everone is after financial gain it's a matter of finding the one that fits what you need.  Good luck...and I'll continue my search as well

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RE: Is it just me ? - 10/3/2007 12:25:18 AM   
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Again thanks to everyone for there support and replies, its nice to know there are genuine people out there

steve.

ps my friend from Darkar said she really liked my photo 

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RE: Is it just me ? - 10/3/2007 7:39:32 PM   
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I freely admit that I dream of that human atm who will just GIVE me money!  Or stuff, stuff is nice, too.  We all have fantasies, eh!

I have met folks from this site, and spoken to/set up meets with folks who never show up to wherever they said they would be.  It's  world of wankers and timewasters, what can you do but keep sifting the sand?  I doubt that het/vanilla dating is any easier.

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RE: Is it just me ? - 10/3/2007 9:59:57 PM   
foolishguy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: spankedsteve

Hello everybody,

I was wondering if any Dominant women actually enjoy meeting people from this site, not just for financial gain., i dont know if i'm doing something wrong but the only ladies who have been in touch with me need me to send them some cash,

I've only recently been contacted than none other than the daugther of Republic of Sudan's deputy minister for finance (lucky me !), as whose father has been tragically killed by the Sudan President Omar al Bashir in a helicopter crash.

Its not all bad news for though for the Republic of Sudan's deputy minister for finances daughter though, as he left her 8.5 million us dollars (every cloud has a silver lining  !!), which she would like me to help her recover.

I dont yet know how she wants me to help her, but i've got an inkling that it may involve me handing over all of my banking details !



I hate to be the bearer of bad news, Spankedsteve, but you are a just one step behind. The same lady has already made me the same proposition and, now that I have given her all my bank account and credit card numbers, she will be depositing that 8.5 million in my bank account! HA!   See you in Malibu, slow poke!  

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