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AquaticSub -> RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? (10/2/2007 12:10:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mistoferin quote: ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant ~wicked grin~ just so long as you remember what I said in my earlier post about how I love women of all shapes and sizes, put me into that fantasy...perhaps sitting in a chair watching and directing chellekitty's camera work?...with the oysters all fried up and hot and breaded as sustenance for after your scene.... You're SUCH a sadist![;)] Sadism and food... it could make for some interesting scenes...

CreativeDominant -> RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? (10/2/2007 12:10:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mistoferin quote: ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant ~wicked grin~ just so long as you remember what I said in my earlier post about how I love women of all shapes and sizes, put me into that fantasy...perhaps sitting in a chair watching and directing chellekitty's camera work?...with the oysters all fried up and hot and breaded as sustenance for after your scene.... You're SUCH a sadist![;)] Why....thank you!!!![sm=trident.gif]

LaTigresse -> RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? (10/2/2007 12:10:44 PM)
Some people prefer to hop onto a pulpit with blinders on.....makes them feel better about themselves.

xoxi -> RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? (10/2/2007 12:14:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: came4U whew..I thought somehow i had bumped ya..THAT freaked me out xo lol LOL yeah my internet timed out when I was posting it, and so I hit refresh...and when I did I found out it had actually gone through the first time even though it didn't seem like it. Hehehe thats what I get for leeching internet off of my poor unsuspecting neighborhood [;)]

came4U -> RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? (10/2/2007 12:18:11 PM)
I answered the OP's question. I didn't name names, what is this? 3rd grade? You two can pull on the skipping rope all day for all I care. Tug of war of who has more self esteem LOL. How ridiculous. It was a simple question initially, if you bring into it previous ideals of her psyche that is YOUR issue..not mine. But thanks for notifying me (via flaming outright) that she is baaaaad news. Although I am quite capable of telling her that IF I ever see it occur without the aid of a pussy-possey. lame.

defiantbadgirl -> RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? (10/2/2007 12:21:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mistoferin Suit yourself, but then don't sit in judgement of my judgement and say that you don't understand how if you have no interest in knowing how. And who appointed you as my judge? I've got a news flash for you. I could care less what you think of me. I'm sorry you care so little for yourself that you have to put others down to make yourself feel good and try to rally everyone around you to justify it. We are all adults here, not a bunch of high school teenagers divided into groups warring with one another. Grow up.

Bobkgin -> RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? (10/2/2007 12:22:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mistoferin defiantbadgirl, for someone who claims such superior intelligence you sure do seem to have an issue with comprehension. Just take into consideration how many people on THIS THREAD ALONE have attempted to tell you what the problem is, not to mention all of the people who have tried REPEATEDLY on all of your other 1111 posts. But you still just don't get it. So I will tell you, it's not your body, it's not bad doms, it's not bad "personal trainers", it's YOU. YOU are unattractive because you are whiny, stubborn, can't see your own faults, blame everyone else for you situation and won't listen to a damn thing anyone (or EVERYONE!!!) is trying to say to you. All of your threads are the SAME....poor me, poor me...it's "their" fault, not mine....and everyone is sick to death of hearing it and trying to get you to understand because you simply DO NOT, CAN NOT OR WILL NOT LISTEN. It would not matter how much you weighed or what you looked like because it is NOT the OUTSIDE of you that is the PROBLEM. Get it? Keep your head up, DBG. Insults from some are compliments to others [;)]

AquaticSub -> RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? (10/2/2007 12:25:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl quote: ORIGINAL: mistoferin Suit yourself, but then don't sit in judgement of my judgement and say that you don't understand how if you have no interest in knowing how. And who appointed you as my judge? I've got a news flash for you. I could care less what you think of me. I'm sorry you care so little for yourself that you have to put others down to make yourself feel good and try to rally everyone around you to justify it. We are all adults here, not a bunch of high school teenagers divided into groups warring with one another. Grow up. Right. But you keep making passive insults at all the dominants who don't want you for whatever reason. How good do you think that makes you look? Really, if you don't want to be judged on your past posts and what you have said previously, collarme probably isn't the place for you. Perhaps you would be better off posting in a carefully moderated safe space community.

mistoferin -> RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? (10/2/2007 12:32:25 PM)
Oh stop it Aqua, you know as well as I do that we shouldn't form or post our own opinions (judgements) when someone posts their situation for the whole world to see and asks for our opinions (judgements)....especially if our opinion (judgement) is not what that person wants to hear. If we all did such things we'd have to call this place a forum or some shit like that.[;)]

AquaticSub -> RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? (10/2/2007 12:34:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mistoferin If we all did such things we'd have to call this place a forum or some shit like that.[;)] The horror! [:o]

Bobkgin -> RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? (10/2/2007 12:37:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl quote: ORIGINAL: mistoferin Suit yourself, but then don't sit in judgement of my judgement and say that you don't understand how if you have no interest in knowing how. And who appointed you as my judge? I've got a news flash for you. I could care less what you think of me. I'm sorry you care so little for yourself that you have to put others down to make yourself feel good and try to rally everyone around you to justify it. We are all adults here, not a bunch of high school teenagers divided into groups warring with one another. Grow up. You might expect that, but unless I miss my guess, they are executing the 'fluff and smother' tactic, driving the discussion so off topic only they read the thread, and burying you whenever you post so no one knows you've posted. DBG, for some people that is "grown up", or the best they can manage. Somewhere between alarming and amusing when you consider the responsibilities of bdsm. But this is and I suspect has always been, the foundation of any bdsm 'community' (thus my disrespect for said 'communities'). They are but a reflection of the ego-driven majority in society. In any crowd you'll never find many intellect-driven or compassion-driven people. Would that it were otherwise, but our society doesn't value intellect or compassion like it values ego. All anyone can do is limit their exposure to it (according to their needs) and keep them out of our lives as much as possible. But at least now you know who is responsible for the low self-esteem of some people.

defiantbadgirl -> RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? (10/2/2007 12:39:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub Right. But you keep making passive insults at all the dominants who don't want you for whatever reason. How good do you think that makes you look? This thread was based on bbw subs in general, not Doms that do or don't want me specifically. For some reason, a bunch of people couldn't wait to turn it into a thread about me. Really, if you don't want to be judged on your past posts and what you have said previously, collarme probably isn't the place for you. Perhaps you would be better off posting in a carefully moderated safe space community. Perhaps those who engage in childish antics should go back to high school.

came4U -> RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? (10/2/2007 12:41:13 PM)
I miss highschool [:(] I was soo...hawwt LOL. wait, I'm still hawwt.

AquaticSub -> RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? (10/2/2007 12:43:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl Perhaps those who engage in childish antics should go back to high school. Calling things as you see them isn't high school behavior. If you think Erin and the others are way off base, do the mature thing and ignore them. Coming back with insults about how pathetic they are just makes you look small and like you need to go back to high school.

mistoferin -> RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? (10/2/2007 12:43:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Bobkgin Public heckling makes determination of maturity quite easy: those who join in have none. Oh Bobbyboy, you wouldn't be.....heckling me....now would you?[:D]

AquaticSub -> RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? (10/2/2007 12:45:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mistoferin quote: ORIGINAL: Bobkgin Public heckling makes determination of maturity quite easy: those who join in have none. Oh Bobbyboy, you wouldn't be.....heckling me....now would you?[:D] Nah. People would never make vague comments about unnamed others lacking maturity when they were actually talking about a specific person!

Bobkgin -> RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? (10/2/2007 12:52:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl Perhaps those who engage in childish antics should go back to high school. High school doesn't teach ethics and maturity. DBG, some people just don't have the mental equipment, or the environment, or the support needed to grow up. I have found, from those I've helped, that those with low self-esteem do much better when they realize this simple truth: Most of the world is never going to "grow up". They realize that their problems are the result of listening to and believing the ego-driven. When they stop doing that, they blossom. [:)]

stef -> RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? (10/2/2007 12:52:46 PM)
Maybe you and Bobby boy should consider hooking up. His saviour complex and your trainload of baggage might actually make a good match. He could spend his golden years "fixing" you and you could replace his dead wife and squat out a replacement for his dead kid. Sounds like a match made in heaven! ~stef

defiantbadgirl -> RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? (10/2/2007 12:54:07 PM)
Why are they calling things things they see fit about me? This thread wasn't even about me. It was about unattached bbw subs in general. What's going to happen when I do select someone? How will they twist every thread I post into "poor me" then?

Bobkgin -> RE: Difficulty finding a Dom? (10/2/2007 12:56:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: stef Maybe you and Bobby boy should consider hooking up. His saviour complex and your trainload of baggage might actually make a good match. He could spend his golden years "fixing" you and you could replace his dead wife and squat out a replacement for his dead kid. Sounds like a match made in heaven! ~stef Some people are like Slinkies. They have no practical use whatsoever, but they still bring a smile to your face when you push them down a flight of stairs. DBG: See what I mean?

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