MistressDREAD
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lonleyman paraphilia is A condition in which the person's sexual arousal follows very narrow channels. Usually thru a channel of a fetish such as to nylons. In a nut shell this arouses you, and gives you a pleasent feeling . Providing that you otherwise have a normal exsistance outside of this one kink, I would not worry about it and enjoy it because if you function totally normal with freinds coworkers and family with out any major problems then you do not have a bonafide phychiatric disorder. Sum will call your fetish a sexual disorder and others will call it sexual enlightment. A fetish is an object. Fetishism is a disorder whereby a person is experiencing difficulties in their lives because of the fact that they like these particular objects to provide for them a great deal of sexual arousal. The only way they can achieve this type of sexual satisfaction is with an inanimate object, a non-living object. If you gain pleasure sexually from beings and not just objects then this attraction is not harmful. Only you can deciede if this is a good thing or bad thing to you and then accept this with in your self and move on. A good way to test and see if you have the actuall fetish is to use the nylons to acheive a hard on with out cumming then let your self return to a soft state and then use a person to give you the same pleasure not cumming but the sight or touch of the person giving you the same end as the nylon did to a hardness. If you cannot acheive hardness without the use of the nylons then you have a bonifide extream fetish, if you are capable of getting hard with other things that are not objects then your kink is soft in nature and simply enjoy it. JMO
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