RE: Sleeping arrangments (Full Version)

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion



Message


PsyVamp -> RE: Sleeping arrangments (10/2/2007 7:18:56 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDolly

quote:

ORIGINAL: TLlilone

Where do the submissives usually sleep in the household?


It depends on the male and how happy I am with him.  It could range from my bed to outside.


*smiles*  Last person I left sleeping outside was my husband.. he was on the driveway. 
but I digress, that was many years ago and he is no longer with the living.   - and NO, it had nothing to do with me.

My pet has his own bed at the foot of my bed.  Sometimes he sleeps there, sometimes he sleeps with me.  I notice though, that when he sleeps with me, I wake up finding that I have stolen all the covers... and the sweet boy that he is, will not try to sneak under them.

~Psy... who is thinking of all the little details like that tonight.




DocRudy -> RE: Sleeping arrangments (10/2/2007 7:20:34 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Pyrrsefanie

Typically in bed all cuddled up against my Master.  It's my favorite place to be!

Although there have been a few times that we've done "pettification," if that is a word, where I've been collared and made to sleep on the floor next to the bed.  This is a fairly rare occurrence, though.



That about sums it up nicely. [:)]

-DR




Decimus -> RE: Sleeping arrangments (10/2/2007 7:32:08 PM)

In the bed with my domme.




smilezz -> RE: Sleeping arrangments (10/2/2007 7:33:03 PM)


I sleep in His bed......and never take for granted that it's a priviledge not a right. I have my own room at the end of the hall that was given to me when i first moved to Arizona...i still sleep in that bed from time to time when He is gone.

~smilezz~




Kalista07 -> RE: Sleeping arrangments (10/2/2007 7:34:26 PM)

Because He has a single bed (Who has a single bed in this day and age!!!!![image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m22.gif[/image]) i sleep on the couch or on a blow up mattress next to His bed..




YourhandMyAss -> RE: Sleeping arrangments (10/2/2007 7:35:49 PM)

Older trailers do. The bed platform at daddies is a single and so he sleeps on the floor and I get the bed.
quote:

ORIGINAL: Kalista07

Because He has a single bed (Who has a single bed in this day and age!!!!![image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m22.gif[/image]) i sleep on the couch or on a blow up mattress next to His bed..




HollyBlue -> RE: Sleeping arrangments (10/3/2007 1:13:23 AM)

When we initially go to sleep, unless some physical limitation or illness prevents me, I curl up with my head on his lower abdomen, a special pillow under my shoulder, and his cock in my mouth. Generally, we fall asleep like that, and we both absolutely love it.

After one of us wakes up and/or has been in the same position too long and needs to move, we usually curl up together...me lying with my head on his chest, or him spooning me. If I'm facing him and can reach, I'm expected to hold his cock in my hand whenever possible.

He thinks it's funny that, once I fall asleep with his cock in my hand, I generally won't let go of it, even in my sleep. Come to think of it...I think it's funny too. Good thing I'm fairly easy to awaken if need be. [;)]

<edited to fix grammatical error>




twistedkytten -> RE: Sleeping arrangments (10/3/2007 1:23:57 AM)

in the box under His bed...
on the floor next to His bed...
next to Him on the couch... 




subboi3382 -> RE: Sleeping arrangments (10/3/2007 1:46:27 AM)

I sleep in bed with my master sometimes, in my own, in my cage, at the foot of his bed or in a dog house




sirguym -> RE: Sleeping arrangments (10/3/2007 3:37:38 AM)

Generally in the bed, as most replies.

But if/when I stay with a new subbie at their place, the first time, I generally have them sleep on the floor next to their bed - which I expect to occupy.

It sets the tone of the relationship in a very direct way - and if they like me insisting on that, then from experience it will be a good relationship.

If they don't like it, then probably it will not work out - they are takimg too much for granted!




sirguym -> RE: Sleeping arrangments (10/3/2007 3:42:20 AM)

Generally in the bed, as in most replies.

But if/when I stay with a new subbie at their place, on my travels around the UK and mainland Europe, for the first time, I will generally have them sleep on the floor next to the best bed in their place, which is probably usually their bed - which I will expect to occupy alone.

It sets the tone of the relationship in a very direct way - and if they like me insisting on that, then from experience it will be a good relationship. If they don't like it, then probably it will not work out - they are takimg too much for granted!




leakylee -> RE: Sleeping arrangments (10/3/2007 4:15:41 AM)

chained to the bed is just a good place to be. now it is just snuggled into the middle of my bed wrapped up in amuoungst 15 pillows or so. a girl has to have something to nest up into at night, dern it..hehe..




breatheasone -> RE: Sleeping arrangments (10/3/2007 4:35:06 AM)

Sleeping on the floor, in a cage, or anything of the like is something I doubt highly my Master would have me do. its always in bed next to Him.




velvetears -> RE: Sleeping arrangments (10/3/2007 5:54:26 AM)

If i am going to be functional or able to actually be able to move the next day it would have to be in a bed with my 6 pillows. Otherwise the pain from sleeping on the floor would greatly intefere with my ability to function the next day, and probably several more. 




Celeste43 -> RE: Sleeping arrangments (10/3/2007 6:00:40 AM)

I get the right side of the bed and my favorite down pillow. Funny thing is, when he moved up here one of the things I stated outright as a limit is giving up my pillow. I even take it with me when we travel as other pillows give me headaches from my neck being in a bad position.

His preferred position is with his arm around my breast. Occasionally I wake up in the middle to discover he's tweaking my nipple in his sleep, and once I woke up crazed when he slipped his fingers into me while sleeping. Oh, and I have full permission to wake him up at those times and demand he gives me an orgasm.




SirMichealspeach -> RE: Sleeping arrangments (10/3/2007 6:12:36 AM)

I am chained to the bed with ankle cuff and enough chain to reach the bathroom. Most nights I start out on a mat on the floor beside Him. If I get cold or have a bad dream , or just get lonely during the night I am allowed to get up in bed with Him.
Sir Micheals peach




BlackKnight -> RE: Sleeping arrangments (10/3/2007 5:31:13 PM)

Hollyblue, I used to feel Your sleeping arrangements were rediculous, back when I discovered my needs,
now, I'm obsessed with it! I need a slave to sleep with my cock in her mouth. Actually, my need for this oral
worshipping of my cock has grown, and I want it while playing on the 'puter, watching Tv, driving.
I have also wondered about positioning while sleeping to make this work.




completenz -> RE: Sleeping arrangments (10/3/2007 5:46:34 PM)

i always sleep in His arms, in our bed. Depending on our position i cup His balls in my hand. This is, according to Him, where i belong.
sheer bliss
c




MaamJay -> RE: Sleeping arrangments (10/3/2007 6:16:16 PM)

Master and i sleep together in a queen-sized bed, but as W/we are both large people and like a bit of space, there's no fondling happening. He does object to my "angel wings" (arms out but bent elbows) every now and then though! But then, He steals the covers and lies on them ... yep, there's usually some good-natured bed-fighting going on! It's generally too warm here in Oz to do a lot of snuggling unless the air con is on. Master wouldn't have me sleep anywhere else though, my place is beside Him. Neither of U/us sleep well when apart even if W/we do take O/our favourite pillows!

My sub sleeps in the spare room in a double bed, she's happy to sleep alone. Any sexual play I do with her occurs in there, not in Master's bed. Ultimately, if things work out, Our first preference would be to build a little bedsitter unit in the yard, so she will have her own little space to retreat to ... with an intercom to the main house. Then We'll have the spare room back for its intended purpose for travelling visitors.

None of U/us are of the age/health status to be sleeping in cages or on the floor or anything other than a good chiropractic mattress!

Maam Jay aka violet[A]




favesclava -> RE: Sleeping arrangments (10/3/2007 6:20:39 PM)

in bed next to Him. if more than one we arrange ourselves to the most comfortable. once in a while i sleep on cushions by the bed. when we do this . His hands are always reaching down to pet me or just touch me fleetingly




Page: <<   < prev  1 2 [3] 4   next >   >>

Valid CSS!




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy
0.046875