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Sleeping arrangments - 10/2/2007 10:57:39 AM   
TLlilone


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RE: Sleeping arrangments - 10/2/2007 11:00:27 AM   
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RE: Sleeping arrangments - 10/2/2007 11:11:58 AM   
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Status: offline 		depends on how many submissives in the household and which submissive it is and how big the beds are...need more details

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RE: Sleeping arrangments - 10/2/2007 11:16:44 AM   
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depends on how many submissives in the household and which submissive it is and how big the beds are...need more details


This is true. If I end up getting a girl, she will sleep in the bed with us and me in the middle. But if we didn't have a big bed we wouldn't be able to do that.

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RE: Sleeping arrangments - 10/2/2007 11:18:08 AM   
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ORIGINAL: TLlilone

Where do the submissives usually sleep in the household?


Next to me...

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RE: Sleeping arrangments - 10/2/2007 11:18:58 AM   
goalie62


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RE: Sleeping arrangments - 10/2/2007 11:23:47 AM   
RCdc


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RE: Sleeping arrangments - 10/2/2007 11:24:13 AM   
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Status: offline 		Same with me, they typically sleep by my side, unless they've pissed me off, in which they would sleep on the couch or the floor.

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RE: Sleeping arrangments - 10/2/2007 11:25:31 AM   
chellekitty


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Same with me, they typically sleep by my side, unless they've pissed me off, in which they would sleep on the couch or the floor.


and when you've pissed them off?

i tend to like the arrangement of never going to sleep angry...


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RE: Sleeping arrangments - 10/2/2007 11:28:18 AM   
RCdc


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i tend to like the arrangement of never going to sleep angry...



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RE: Sleeping arrangments - 10/2/2007 11:34:32 AM   
LadyPact


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RE: Sleeping arrangments - 10/2/2007 11:51:37 AM   
SunNMoon


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RE: Sleeping arrangments - 10/2/2007 12:22:37 PM   
GhitaAmati


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Status: offline 		I see I wasnt the first one to think up an utterly snarky response for this thread topic....

"the bed" was gonna be my post...pretty much all the submissives I know sleep in one. But then I guess it depends on the number of submissives and the number of beds in your house.

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RE: Sleeping arrangments - 10/2/2007 12:28:40 PM   
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in 8 months - next to his side


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RE: Sleeping arrangments - 10/2/2007 12:30:40 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

in 8 months - next to his side



Isn't that the most deliciously frustrating countdown?

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RE: Sleeping arrangments - 10/2/2007 12:38:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		At the foot of our bed or in the dorm room...On a special occasions they may snuggle in between us...

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RE: Sleeping arrangments - 10/2/2007 12:44:51 PM   
kikinymph


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Status: offline 		I am lucky enough to be able to sleep next to Himself.... He gets most crabby when, for illness, or insomnia (or whatever other reason) I am not in the bed with him.  Sometimes, when our third is with us, and one of us thinks to not be in the bed, He really gets crotchety!!  His bed, his choice.  Most of the time, even if I'm sick he doesn't want me to isolate myself from him.

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RE: Sleeping arrangments - 10/2/2007 1:19:51 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl
in 8 months - next to his side


wooooohoooooooooooo


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RE: Sleeping arrangments - 10/2/2007 1:50:30 PM   
gypsygrl


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RE: Sleeping arrangments - 10/2/2007 2:01:00 PM   
babygirl005


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Status: offline 		Wherever Master wishes.  If i am to fidgety it is on the floor.  95% of the time it is in the bed next to Him.  i tend to have sleeping problems, so that is when its on the floor for me!!  Actually, sleeping on the floor doesn't bother me, and serves to remind me of my place.

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