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Faramir -> I Have Called You... (7/25/2005 10:10:47 AM)

One of my particular pleasures is when I stumble upon something in literature that especially or evocatively articulates some aspect of power exchange. You find these gems in the most unusual places – some author, in discussing non-sexual (or at least not explicitly erotic) relationships says something and you are struck dumb. “That’s it, that’s how it is,” you want to say.

One of my favorites is from Paradise Lost – the interaction between Eve and Adam before the Fall. In book IV she says to him, “my author and disposer, what thou bidd'st unargued I obey.” She also says, “God is thy law, thou mine: to know no more is woman's happiest knowledge and her praise.” *

What a graceful articulation of surrender on her part – she has her eyes fixed on him, and his will is her law. What man would not feel like a king, what woman would not feel a queen, with a lover so composed?

Another favorite of mine is from Jack London’s Whitefang. For anyone unfamiliar with the work, Whitefang is part wolf and part dog, and the story chronicles his enslavement under men.

His first god is Gray Beaver - dour, stoic, unemotional Gray Beaver, who beats and breaks White Fang as a puppy, enslaving him into service that is neither cruel nor loving. It is merely service, just and fair in a harsh sense, but without any emotional exchange beyond fealty for power.

White Fang is sold eventually to Beauty Smith, the hate god, who does add emotional content to White Fang’s slavery. White Fang’s servitude becomes one of torment, as he is tortured until he becomes a fiend, nothing good left in him, only savagery and the reality of his god, a god of evil, “the hate-god.”

Eventually White Fang is rescued by the love god, Weedon Scott (son of Judge Scott in TCotW). A new god replaces the old, and White Fang’s slavery is completely reshaped, given new meaning and dimension. Before his slavery was one-dimensional – the emotional content was a point: hatred. The love god adds a second point to that equation, and thus a second dimension – White Fang now knows love in counter-point to hate. A capacity undreamt of emerges. There is wonderful description of this love in physical action:

quote:

Having learned to snuggle, White Fang was guilt of it often. It was the final word. He could not go beyond it. The one thing of which he had always been particularly jealous, was his head. He had always disliked to have it touched. It was the Wild in him, the fear of hurt and of the trap, that had given rise to the panicky impulse to avoid contacts. It was the mandate of his instinct that the head must be free. And now, with the love-master, his snuggling was the deliberate act of putting himself into a position of hopeless helplessness. It was an expression of the perfect confidence, of absolute self-surrender, as though he said: “I will put myself into thy hands. Work thou thy will with me.”



I love that, “It was the final word.”
Later he says:

quote:

White Fang allowed all the members of the family to pet him and make much of him; but he never gave to them what he gave to the master. No caress of theirs could put the love-croon into his throat, and, try as they would, they could never persuade him into snuggling against them. This expression of abandon and surrender, of absolute trust, he reserved for the master alone.


I would imagine there are some here who would find those words, “It was an expression of the perfect confidence, of absolute self-surrender…” resonant. How many people here know well “the fear of hurt and of the trap, that had given rise to the panicky impulse to avoid contacts,” only to have a love-master entice them into putting down their head in trust? There are many ways to skin the D/s cat, and this won’t make sense to everyone here. Still though, hell of thing to have a relationship where one could say “I will put myself into thy hands. Work thou thy will with me.”

My last favorite snippet is from the Book of Isaiah, 43-1: “I have called you by your name. You are mine now.” I love that powerful, bold expression, that ultimate state of possession. It was said to a people for whom names and naming was of paramount importance, and I think the statement can be borrowed from its original context in a way that retains power and meaning. Regardless of faith, many of us in M/s would find great meaning in being able to say, or have said to us, “I have called you by your name. You are mine now.”


Does anyone here have any favorite literary passages that articulate something in PE especially well for you?



*No doubt the mention of God will cause someone here to spaz out, but taken as a purely personal statement on her part it would take a mean spirit to take offense.

NB Parts of this are from a previous post at b.com




stormsfate -> RE: I Have Called You... (7/25/2005 10:16:28 AM)

Yes :) One of my favorite quotes (do you consider a quote a literary passage?) that I have used as a tagline for years is:

quote:

"There are moments when, whatever be the attitude of the body, the soul is on its knees." Victor Hugo




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*Edited to add what this means to me...

Regardless of who we are with, or the circumstances that surround us...the dynamic does not change. Even though I rarely enter the age old debate on whether 24/7 is possible these days, this is a part of my silent response to those who believe it is not possible. :)




Faramir -> RE: I Have Called You... (7/25/2005 10:26:48 AM)

Sure it's literature [:)]

The question would be what you find in there about PE - what part of PE, what element, what aspect does this articulate or illuminate for you? Why is it special for you?




EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: I Have Called You... (7/25/2005 10:34:08 AM)

The first one that springs to mind is the first chapter of "Disillusions" by Richard Bach.




Faramir -> RE: I Have Called You... (7/25/2005 10:44:01 AM)

I have not read the book - perhaps you might give us a quote, a brief synopsis of that portion you find significant?




IronBear -> RE: I Have Called You... (7/26/2005 12:35:17 AM)


"I never saw a wild thing sorry for itself. A small bird will drop frozen dead from a bough without ever having felt sorry for itself."
D.H.Lawrence (1885 - 1930)




darkinshadows -> RE: I Have Called You... (7/26/2005 1:48:42 AM)

Anything by Rumi - total, unbeatable, unashamed longing P/E.

(I will post something, just don't have time this moment and theres too many to pick from without taking my time to choose the most beautiful - but reast assured, I will)

Peace and Love




kisshou -> RE: I Have Called You... (7/26/2005 10:15:28 AM)

"How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.
I love thee to the depth and breadth and height
My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight
For the ends of Being and ideal Grace...."

Elizabeth Barrett Browning poems: Sonnets from the Portuguese


"I'm not gonna lie
I want you for mine
My blushing bride
My lover, be my lover yeah...

Don't be afraid
I don't mean to scare you
So help me Jesus"

Lyrics from possum kingdom by the Toadies

The first quote evokes the depth of submission, love and devotion which is so beautifully romantic. The second lyrics evoke the pulse pounding, edgy , sexually charged atmosphere in an erotic power exchange.




perverseangelic -> RE: I Have Called You... (7/26/2005 10:41:26 AM)

"From the time she is very young, all Plum wants is this: to be loved for who she is with complete and awesome devotion. She tries to dress herself the way she feels inside so that the love of her life will recognize her easily."

Francesca Lia Block--"Milagro" _Nymph_




Lordandmaster -> RE: I Have Called You... (7/26/2005 12:50:36 PM)

Someone today sent me a quote that I think is right on:

"What is it that the Master teaches the initiated one? He shows the initiated one the truth of her own being. He does not tell her something new or different. He shows her something which her soul already knows, but which her mind has forgotten." -
Hazrat Inayat Khan




darkinshadows -> RE: I Have Called You... (7/29/2005 6:38:04 AM)

WHISPERS OF LOVE

Lover whispers to my ear,
"Better to be a prey than a hunter.
Make yourself My fool.
Stop trying to be the sun and become a speck!
Dwell at My door and be homeless.
Don't pretend to be a candle, be a moth,
so you may taste the savor of Life
and know the power hidden in serving."



Mathnawi V. 411-414 (translated by Kabir Helminski)




darkinshadows -> RE: I Have Called You... (7/29/2005 6:40:14 AM)

Oh Beloved,
take me.
Liberate my soul.
Fill me with your love and
release me from the two worlds.
If I set my heart on anything but you
let fire burn me from inside.

Oh Beloved,
take away what I want.
Take away what I do.
Take away what I need.
Take away everything
that takes me from you.


Rumi




darkinshadows -> RE: I Have Called You... (7/29/2005 6:44:07 AM)

STAY CLOSE, MY HEART

Stay close, my heart, to the one who knows your ways;
Come into the shade of the tree that allays has fresh flowers.
Don't stroll idly through the bazaar of the perfume-markers:
Stay in the shop of the sugar-seller.
If you don't find true balance, anyone can deceive you;
Anyone can trick out of a thing of straw,
And make you take it for gold
Don't squat with a bowl before every boiling pot;
In each pot on the fire you find very different things.
Not all sugarcanes have sugar, not all abysses a peak;
Not all eyes possess vision, not every sea is full of pearls.
O nightingale, with your voice of dark honey! Go on lamenting!
Only your drunken ecstasy can pierce the rock's hard heart!
Surrender yourself, and if you cannot be welcomed by the Friend,
Know that you are rebelling inwardly like a thread
That doesn't want to go through the needle's eye!
The awakened heart is a lamp; protect it by the him of your robe!
Hurry and get out of this wind, for the weather is bad.
And when you've left this storm, you will come to a fountain;
You'll find a Friend there who will always nourish your soul.
And with your soul always green, you'll grow into a tall tree
Flowering always with sweet light-fruit, whose growth is interior.


Rumi




Faramir -> RE: I Have Called You... (7/29/2005 7:03:49 AM)

Thank you DA - I have never read any Rumi before. I particuarly liked the first quote from the Mathnawi.




darkinshadows -> RE: I Have Called You... (7/29/2005 7:15:42 AM)

I am glad to have offered something you may like... I also, am fascinated by the concept of the first...

Too just add - if you are interested in any kind of tantic experimentation, or are interested on a 'spiritual' level - I would recommend Deepak Chopra 'Gift Of Love' CDs - they use translations of Rumi... very sensual and deep and great backgrounds for massage, meditation and sexmagik...

Peace and Love




Faramir -> RE: I Have Called You... (7/29/2005 7:31:51 AM)

This is one of my favorite American poems - Benjamin (Ben-HAmeen) Saenz is a latino poet and writer from New Mexico, now a professor at UTEP. His writing is tied to the land often - in this case he takes Donnes Love Sonnet 14 ("Batter My Heart") and reworks it.

One of the most powerful D/s poems I have ever read becomes newly alive in Saenz's work (I love intertextuality in poetry - it is my particular delight).

quote:

To The Desert
Benjamin Saenz


I came to you one rainless August night.
You taught me how to live without the rain.
You are thirst and thirst is all I know.
You are sand, wind. Sun and burning sky,
The hottest blue. You blow a breeze and brand
Your breath into my mouth. You reach--then bend
Your force, to break, blow, burn and make me new.
You wrap your name tight around my ribs
And keep me warm. I was born for you.
Above, below, by you, by you surrounded.
I wake to you at dawn. Never break your
Knot. Reach, rise, blow, Salvame, mi dios.
Tragame, mi tierra. Salva, traga, Break me,
I am bread, I will be the water for your thirst.



I love in this poem how the speaker subtly shifts in line 13. The hallmark of a good sonnet is the turn - a point in the sonnet where something shifts or changes that adds a new depth to it, and the change of voice and reply does that here.

Save me, my god. Swallow me, my land. Save, swallow. (Salvame mi dios. Tragame mi tierra)

Compare that poem to Donne's original:

quote:

HOLY SONNETS.

XIV.


Batter my heart, three-person'd God ; for you
As yet but knock ; breathe, shine, and seek to mend ;
That I may rise, and stand, o'erthrow me, and bend
Your force, to break, blow, burn, and make me new.
I, like an usurp'd town, to another due,
Labour to admit you, but O, to no end.
Reason, your viceroy in me, me should defend,
But is captived, and proves weak or untrue.
Yet dearly I love you, and would be loved fain,
But am betroth'd unto your enemy ;
Divorce me, untie, or break that knot again,
Take me to you, imprison me, for I,
Except you enthrall me, never shall be free,
Nor ever chaste, except you ravish me.


Unless you enslave me I cannot be free. Rape me, that I might be free. Is that power or what? That's hot stuff.

The Donne sonnet is more obvious in it's power themes, the Saenz poem more subtle, but they both speak to me as strongly as anything I have read - speak of surrender and overthrow, burning thirst and need.




darkinshadows -> RE: I Have Called You... (7/29/2005 8:53:47 AM)

This is what I was looking for when I posted I would return to make a posting. I was trying to find the link, but could not. So I am posting this - It speaks(to me) of automatic, instinctive submission and Enslavement that isn't premeditated, but natural. Done without thought, instinct led, yearning and total, utter compulsion.

Yup - and makes me cry.[;)]

Peace and Love


A lover knows only humility -
He has no choice
He steals into your alley at night -
He has no choice
He longs to kiss every lock of your hair -
Do not fret - He has no choice.

In his frenzied love for you he longs to break the chains of his imprisonment -
He has no choice.

*****

The Lover asked His beloved
Do you love yourself more than you love me?
The beloved replied:
"I have died from myself and live for you.
I have disappeared from myself and my attributes.
I am present only for you...
I have forgotten all of my learnings
but from knowing you - I have become a scholar
I have lost all my strength
but from your power - I am able.
If I love myself - I love you.
If I love you - I love myself.''


*****

I am your Lover, come to My side
I will open the gate to your love -
Come settle with me,
Let us be neighbours with the stars.
You have be hiding so long,
endlessly drifting in the sea of My love.
Even so, you have always been connected to me.
Concealed, revealed
In the known - in the unmanifest.

~ I am life itself ~

You have been the prisoner in a little pond - I am the ocean and its turbulent flood
Come, merge with me, leave this world of ignorance.
Be with me, I will open the gate to your love...

I desire you more than food or drink.
My body, my senses, my mind -
hunger, for your taste....
I can sense your presence in my heart.
Although you belong to all the world -
I await with silent passion
for one gesture, one glance,
from you...

'Desire' - 'Do you love me' - 'Come to me'
From the writings of Rumi by Deepak Chopra




IronBear -> RE: I Have Called You... (7/29/2005 11:20:05 PM)

The following are my favourite five poems (in order) from the Persian Poet/Philosopher/Mathematician, Omar Khayyam

Rubaiyat of Omar Khayyam

~~~~~~~~~

The Moving Finger writes; and, having writ,
Moves on: nor all your Piety nor Wit
Shall lure it back to cancel half a Line,
Nor all your Tears wash out a Word of it.

~~~~~~~~~

A Book of Verses underneath the Bough,
A Jug of Wine, a Loaf of Bread--and Thou
Beside me singing in the Wilderness--
Oh, Wilderness were Paradise enow!

~~~~~~~~~

Dreaming when Dawn's Left Hand was in the Sky
I heard a Voice within the Tavern cry,
"Awake, my Little ones, and fill the Cup
Before Life's Liquor in its Cup be dry."

~~~~~~~~~

There was a Door to which I found no Key:
There was a Veil past which I could not see:
Some little Talk awhile of ME and THEE
There seemed--and then no more of THEE and ME.

~~~~~~~~~

Ah, make the most of what we yet may spend,
Before we too into the Dust Descend;
Dust into Dust, and under Dust, to lie,
Sans Wine, sans Song, sans Singer and--sans End!

~~~~~~~~~




Padriag -> RE: I Have Called You... (7/30/2005 12:33:33 AM)

I suppose I wouldn't be much of a bard if I didn't contribute something. [;)] Here are three that have special meaning to me.

To An Isle In The Water (W. B Yeats)

Shy one, shy one,
Shy one of my heart,
She moves in the firelight
Pensively apart.

She carries in the dishes,
And lays them in a row.
To an Isle in the water
With her I would go.

She carries in the candles,
And lights the curtained room,
Shy in the doorway
And shy in the gloom.

And shy as a rabbit,
Helpful and shy.
To an Isle in the water
With her would I fly.

-------------

She Was a Phantom of Delight (William Wordsworth)

She was a phantom of delight
When first she gleamed upon my sight;
A lovely apparition sent
To be a moment's ornament;
Her eyes as stars of twilight fair;
Like twilight's too her dusky hair;
But all things else about her drawn
From May-time and the cheerful dawn;
A dancing shape, an image gay,
To haunt, to startle, and waylay.

I saw her upon nearer view,
A spirt, yet a woman too!
Her household motions light and free,
And step of virgin liberty;
A countenance in which did meet
Sweet records, promises as sweet;
A creature not to bright or good
For human nature's daily food,
For transient sorrows, simple wiles,
Praise, blame, love, kisses, tears and smiles.

And now I see with eye serene
The very pulse of the machine;
A being breathing thoughtful breath,
A traveler between life and death;
The reason firm, the temperate will,
Endurance, foresight, strength and skill;
A perfect woman, nobly planned,
To warn, to comfort, and command;

And yet a spirit still, and bright
With something of angelic light.

-------------------

And this for every dom who is searching...

Waiting (John Burroughs)

Serene, I fold my hands and wait,
Nor care for wind nor tide nor sea;
I rave no more against time or fate,
For lo! my own shall come to me.

I stay my haste, I make delays,
For what avails this eager pace?
I stand amid the enteral ways
And what is mine shall know my face.

Asleep, awake, by night or day,
The friends I seek are seeking me,
No wind can drive my bark astray
Nor change the tide of destiny.

What matter if I stand alone?
I waith with joy the coming years;
My heart shall reap where it has sown,
And garner up its fruit of tears.

The waters know their own, and draw
The brook that springs in yonder height;
So flows the good with equal law
Unto the soul of pure delight.

The stars come nightly to the sky
The tidal wave unto the sea;
Nor time, nor space, nor dee,p nor high,
Can keep my own away from me.

~ finis ~




kisshou -> RE: I Have Called You... (7/30/2005 3:25:16 PM)

gosh you can't quote Yeats without this....



When you are old and grey and full of sleep,
And nodding by the fire, take down this book,
And slowly read, and dream of the soft look
Your eyes had once, and of their shadows deep;

How many loved your moments of glad grace,
And loved your beauty with love false or true,
But one man loved the pilgrim Soul in you,
And loved the sorrows of your changing face;

And bending down beside the glowing bars,
Murmur, a little sadly, how Love fled
And paced upon the mountains overhead
And hid his face amid a crowd of stars.




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