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Mercurialdame -> RE: Question for all sub/slaves (10/2/2007 10:51:41 PM)
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Be careful what you wish for, sometimes you might just get it.
ok, this is personal, and you asked for it.
Your post.
It includes IM jargon. Chatrooms are the last place id go searching for a partner, so one that includes such jargon is OUT.
Your profile.
Its black ink on blue background, and difficult to read for me, so id not bother.
You have not used punctuation, so it becomes even harder to read. Im probably going to assume your not that articulate in written form. And your losing points fast in my book just for that. Im going to need you to be able to communicate in various mediums, written and oral. And one of those skills you lack. Not sure what your spoken communication is like, so cannot say.
Your 18, had a sub for the past 2 yrs, ergo, you began at 16. Now, i realise that bdsm is not age related. And if your seeking someone of a similar age, that's fine. But lets not get all grandiose, and claim that you've trained a 16 yr old girl, to be a sub in two years. Maybe tone it down a little with words such as 'id like to continue my journey' blah blah.
Drop the James Bond look on the profile pic, its too obvious. Its got, im trying to make myself look older, written all over it. Your 18, 18yr olds dont hang out wearing a tux do they?
But my biggest advice would be to switch off the computer, and join in real life. Get out and meet others who like you, are accepting this as what they are, and what they need in life.
other than that, its a numbers game. Your a guy, they outnumber females. So they have to go that little bit harder. Luckily for you, your not sub and male, who really do have to try harder just to get noticed.
And above all else, dont bullshit. We can smell it a mile off. And you'll come a cropper for it eventually. Say your new, say your young, say your learning. All honest, all acceptable.
Personally, i dont rank bdsm experience highly. There aint a skill that cant be learnt. But some may take longer than 2 yrs.
Whilst you searching and yearning. Get along to some workshops, lectures, read up.
Statistically speaking, your 18. you have a long time ahead in terms of sexual activity. BDSM activity, you've not been hit with the ugly bat, you'll do fine.
But out of chat rooms! If your serious about this being a need of yours, not a want, you'll have to.
I wish you all the luck. I envy your position on this journey. Sooo much to gain still, your sitting in a wonderful space to my way of thinking. Have a ball.
Mecurialdame
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