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advice please - 10/3/2007 1:01:40 AM

passionflower2

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hi, im sub and have been with my master for 9 months now . My master has asked me to post this to hopefully get some help.When we played he used wax on me which i love, but this time i was blindfolded and he poured quite a considerable amount all over my back, it was a total shock but i loved it!, the problem was i immedietly went into sub space and he couldnt get me back, apparently he tried all his normal techniques but nothing, i have to say i felt very weird, not like i normally do , this went beyond the lovely lightheaded, cosy, bright lights, i couldnt move any part of my body, i could hear him trying to talk me out of it, but couldnt talk, move not even a finger!, i felt like i was looking down on my body.Master said my breathing was really shallow and my eyes were wide open but just staring and not blinking. What he thinks is that i somehow got stuck between sub space and reality and became suspended inbetween. He didnt know what to do, should he have slapped me! but i love that and he wasnt sure if that would have made things worse. He stayed awake all night and it was 7 hrs ltr before i returned as he put it. Has anyone any idea what happened to me!, master said hes only heard of this once before and would genuinely seek advice from anyone. thank tou xx

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RE: advice please - 10/3/2007 1:05:52 AM

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I've seen this before. .It doesn't happen often but it does happen.

Waiting is all he could do, unless their's a special way to 'bring you back.' People can tend to lose themselves when they reach a new level of things like excitment, thrills, or on a worse not depression, stress.

This is why it's usually best to 'work up' to these things. . But since you got so excited over the 'incident', this is probably what occured. You will be fine, but just make sure you're in a safe spot before doing something that'll put you into subspace again.

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RE: advice please - 10/3/2007 2:14:57 AM

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The only time i had such an experience was when i fell off a horse and was knocked unconscious. i was floating above my body looking at it and the people around trying to revive me. For me, it wasn't subspace it was being unconscious. That i was 'aware' didn't matter, i was still unconscious and i would not want to be unconscious for 7 hours and no one take me to the hospital. Not saying that was what you experienced but only that it sounds like that to me.

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RE: advice please - 10/3/2007 2:21:31 AM

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I've never heard of anyone being out for 7 hours either. . 2 hours at most is what I heard before. Not impossible but just glad you came back. :)

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RE: advice please - 10/3/2007 4:19:48 AM

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Generally, getting the girl off into sub-space at some stage is the main aim of a scene (for me, anyway). When she's floating happily, I usually am, too (in a Dom way)! And the shallow, almost non-existant signs of breathing are generally a good indication the sub is deep in space. So I'd generally think all went well....?

But seven hours seems an inordinately long time and I can see your master being concerned - feeling helpless is NOT a good place for us Dom/mes! Yet I wonder.... With sub-space comes sub-drop - usually the greater the high, the harder the fall. So how were you for afterwards, including... sayyyy.... 2 days after?

I'd think if you've generally suffered no ill effects then this may be how it works for you. And perhaps you (or he) should experiment with some "exit strategies" if it's leaving him ill at ease, including monitoring if sub-drop affects you too negatively from doing so.

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RE: advice please - 10/3/2007 5:48:40 AM

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We both agree 7 hrs was a long time, its usually antwhere between half an hour and an hour or so.I felt strange for the next couple of days with far stronger emotions than my normal sub drop, but no lasting worries, we have decided to leave the wax play for a while and concentrate on other ideas, ive since had what i consider normal sub space episodes so it must just have been the shock, thank you for your replies x

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RE: advice please - 10/3/2007 7:45:49 PM

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And I bet if he'd really worked at it, he could have gotten you out of it without a problem- and that's not a bad thing to try once just to make sure.

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