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RE: Punishments - 10/6/2007 5:24:23 AM

julietsierra

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Oh hell! That's just LIFE here! That's not punishment. Poor baby.. no orgasms for DAYS!!

Talk to me when you've gone weeks and more than a month and I'll start feeling badly for you.

And not ALL women have the situation happen where if they're denied for a long time, they don't want it anymore. I've gone months (back when he had things happening in his life that were more important than if I orgasmed or not) and still sat there shaking in anticipation when I finally saw him again.

Suck it up, deal and be patient. You'll be fine.

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RE: Punishments - 10/6/2007 5:42:28 AM

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ORIGINAL: sweetcreeangel

if you are a highly sexual being and on punishment and not allowed any type of release is it normal for your Dom to tease and torment you into wanting to break during the allotted days of punishment?if so how long does this last for?

8 1/2 days

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RE: Punishments - 10/6/2007 6:58:30 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: InkedMaster

quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetcreeangel

if you are a highly sexual being and on punishment and not allowed any type of release is it normal for your Dom to tease and torment you into wanting to break during the allotted days of punishment?if so how long does this last for?

8 1/2 days

ROFL... so, a week...that's hilarious

juliet (significantly lacking in sympathy here, but if getting people to laugh was also a goal, then congratulations... you've done it!!)

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RE: Punishments - 10/6/2007 10:41:31 AM

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ORIGINAL: SixFootMaster
Depends, if it's understood between the two that he's an insatiable torturing tease who revels in his control over her even to the point of overcumming her own desperate attempts to control herself to fulfill his command, then it wouldn't be unusual - just torturous play.

Which is fine when you're playing a mind fuck.

But really pointless and even destructive if you're actually trying to train behavior.

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RE: Punishments - 10/8/2007 6:15:56 PM

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ORIGINAL: julietsierra

And not ALL women have the situation happen where if they're denied for a long time, they don't want it anymore. I've gone months (back when he had things happening in his life that were more important than if I orgasmed or not) and still sat there shaking in anticipation when I finally saw him again.

juliet

It's not a matter of not having an orgasm or waiting. What I find problematic is the mind trip used as punishment and what the result might be. Denial is a tool many use, but to deny for a purpose, tease and then expect the submissive to handle it all with a certain result... might be where the problems arise.

Mentally it can all reason out if you use denial and teasing, emotionally it might not reason out as easily. Emotions can be conditioned responses. I can see a cycle of responses that come about from working this way. If it works for the people involved; cool. But something here is clearly not working or the message isn't getting across or there wouldn't be the post.

If I were to use denial as some form of lesson, I sure wouldn't be happy about my submissive complaining about it. But then, my submissive would have had far more communication in which to understand the big picture, and even in a mind phuck situation, you can communicate without giving it all.

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