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RE: Oral fetish. - 7/27/2005 10:38:43 PM   
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Superman asked... Where does it (oral fetish) come from? How often do you feel the need to satisfy it? Any more than your Dom? <snip> How often a day do you give oral? What is the urge like? How long have you had it? How often if ever are you rejected?


oral service disseration: how tos / mindset / etc.

i'm strongly orally fixated. Always have been. I got teased about it once when I was out at a restaurant with friends. I couldn't stop playing with my straw in my beverage... and didn't realize I was doing it, either. Oral contact with something is pretty much a subconcious thing - pens, lollipops, straws.... preferably Master's cock...

When I'm insecure, or upset, or scared, or really hurting in a scene - that's what soothes me fastest: Master's cock. It just reconnects me to Him in a primal way. It also gives me a nice good wiff of male sweat, which calms me down. (apparently I'm not the only one: Penn State Study)

Days off, i'm usually serving Master orally 1-3 times, usually daily on work days. Virtually all sex acts start with oral. Sometimes He decides He wants a different hole. There's times i beg for the priviledge of His cum down my throat.

I also get my oral 'fix' through my regularly scheduled training sessions, that keep my throat supple and keep my gag reflex subdued.

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RE: Oral fetish. - 7/28/2005 12:33:04 AM   
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Alright, you asked for it

Freud believed that there were five psychosexual stages of development including oral, anal, phallic, latency, and genital and each of them is connected with a different stage of physical development. There is a conflict in each stage, if the child has trouble working through this conflict, a fixation can occur.
This fixation can either be "positive" or "negative." This means that it can either cause someone to have either a fetish or a revultion with the particular stage of psychosexual development.

1. Oral - Usually occurs between ages 0-2, the pleasure source during this phase is the mouth and pleasure is obtained through sucking, biting and swallowing. The conflict that occurs during this stage is weaning (originally from the mother's breast, but later from bottles). In other words, if a child has difficulty in weaning, they may develop an oral fixation.

2. Anal - Usually occurs between ages 2-4. The pleasure source during this time is the anus and is obtained through defecating or retaining feces. The conflict in this stage is toilet training. If an individual is punished too much during toilet training an anal fixation may occur.

3. Phallic - Ages 4-5, with the pleasure source being the genitals. The conflict here is the Oedipus Complex for boys and the Electra Complex for girls (I can explain these too if anyone needs). Penis envy is also said to take place during this stage

4. Latency - Ages 6-puberty. During this time sexual feelings are avoided by spending a great amount of time and energy on hobbies and sports. There is thought that this stage is becoming smaller and smaller and may someday eliminated.

5. Genital - Puberty onward. During this time the physical changes in the body causes the sexual urges to reappear. At this time people begin to become sexually attracted to others. The conflict here is social rules, meaning that if a person has trouble with social rules they may develop strange sexual habits that are outside the social norm.


This information can be found all over the internet and in thousands of books on psychology. This particular information is from my brain and three years of developmental psychology classes.

< Message edited by siamsa24 -- 7/26/2005 8:43:05 PM >


Okay, what i really like to know is where did my vaginal envy cum from is that why i have an oral fixations on vaginas

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RE: Oral fetish. - 7/28/2005 4:57:09 AM   
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When I'm insecure, or upset, or scared, or really hurting in a scene - that's what soothes me fastest: Master's cock. It just reconnects me to Him in a primal way. It also gives me a nice good wiff of male sweat, which calms me down. (apparently I'm not the only one: Penn State Study)




I've fallen asleep before curled up under the covers with suckling away at Master. le sigh.. I'm not sure if there is a better feeling.

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RE: Oral fetish. - 7/28/2005 7:12:14 AM   
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Okay, what i really like to know is where did my vaginal envy cum from is that why i have an oral fixations on vaginas


There is not a condition known as "vagina envy", you may have an oral fixation and prefer to direct it towards oral sex, but penis envy was thought to be a very real problem that young girls go through while they are struggling with the Electra Complex as well.
They feel as though they are "missing pieces" and wish to develop a penis.

I am not saying that this is true, it is just what Freud thought (personally, I don't believe in penis envy, but I do believe that both the Oedipus and Electra Complexes exsist and are very real)

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RE: Oral fetish. - 7/28/2005 9:43:47 AM   
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Interesting chat, all.

What's the maximum number of times you've given head to your Master in one day?

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RE: Oral fetish. - 7/28/2005 12:17:14 PM   
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Oh how we must satisfy the cravings of our little subs, give them an inch they will take eight, looking for a little caress they will almost totally scrub it with their teeth, wanting only a kiss they insist on a super suck, looking for a tight fit they will invariably not take it all the way down, looking for a reluctant release they will continue with their teeth, oh for old age and a toothless sub.

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RE: Oral fetish. - 7/28/2005 2:47:01 PM   
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Any subs here have a strong enjoyment or even need to taste their Master's cum? If I can ask that ;-)


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RE: Oral fetish. - 7/28/2005 4:33:33 PM   
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Superman asked: What's the maximum number of times you've given head to your Master in one day?


4 to completion. (ie, orgasm)

~ sabis

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RE: Oral fetish. - 7/29/2005 11:38:13 AM   
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*laughing.... Superman.... I get such a big kick out of you... you've been posting so many questions for us to answer, I wonder if you are actually forming your own harem of subs all at once! Especially after.. uhmm.... was it the mind control questions?

If that's what's going on... very cool idea.

I smoke... so I guess that satisfies the oral fetish in me about 30 times a day. lol

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RE: Oral fetish. - 7/29/2005 7:56:02 PM   
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If only you'd suck cock 30 times a day ;-)

Superman


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RE: Oral fetish. - 7/30/2005 7:15:25 AM   
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Superman..why donca tell US Yr oral fantasy? i feel as if i'm being asked for masturbation material, and i don't like it.

pinkpleasures (has a notorious bj fetish)


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RE: Oral fetish. - 7/30/2005 7:21:54 AM   
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ORIGINAL: pinkpleasures

Superman..why donca tell US Yr oral fantasy? i feel as if i'm being asked for masturbation material, and i don't like it.

pinkpleasures (has a notorious bj fetish)



careful pink! he's already admited to looking at your profile and feeling the need to masterbate!!

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RE: Oral fetish. - 7/30/2005 10:17:06 AM   
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Haha...

Did I offend anyone with my compliment to pink about how she can turn a man on? ;-)

Well, I'd love to get a bj about 5 times a day... I am a bit addicted to it, and if I don't get it often enough, I have gotten grumpy over it before. And it's been a while...

;-)

I'd love to softly carress the head of the sub sucking my cock, or have her at my side ,legs crossed, and as i gently carress her soft thighs, let the mouth on her be filled with my penis...

Any sub of mine would be blowing me constantly... I admit.

;-)

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RE: Oral fetish. - 7/30/2005 12:21:00 PM   
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"Did I offend anyone with my compliment to pink about how she can turn a man on? ;-)"

you've never offended me...

"I'd love to softly carress the head of the sub sucking my cock, or have her at my side ,legs crossed, and as i gently carress her soft thighs, let the mouth on her be filled with my penis..."

I am now totally convinced... you're working on a mass harem... does anyone see this or is it just me? I have no problem with it, actually, I found an online harem years ago I would have loved to join but my Master said no.

Superman and his mass harem... LIVE! Might make a nice sitcom. hahaha

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RE: Oral fetish. - 7/30/2005 3:20:59 PM   
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zaynab.... haha.

that would be something, wouldnt it

a mass harem of slaves all wanting to please me... i could live with that

;-)


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