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winterlight -> i am not a true slave because i cannot kneel (10/5/2007 11:14:29 PM)

or sit on the floor?




RumpusParable -> RE: i am not a true slave because i cannot kneel (10/5/2007 11:16:56 PM)



Huh?  Can you elaborate?




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: i am not a true slave because i cannot kneel (10/5/2007 11:17:34 PM)

I'm sorry you have to ask this question.  Anyone who says you aren't a "true slave" because of something, or says you are a "true slave" because of something is just trying to seduce you into paying them some attention.

The quicker you realize there are no hard and fast rules except what works for you, the happier you'll be.




BitaTruble -> RE: i am not a true slave because i cannot kneel (10/5/2007 11:19:16 PM)

You misread the big book of BDSM Rules and Regulations for submissive slavey slaves. Being incapable of an 'action' doesn't detract from your orientation nor does being capable of an 'action' enhance your orientation.

Celeste





FullfigRIMaam -> RE: i am not a true slave because i cannot kneel (10/5/2007 11:21:34 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: winterlight
or sit on the floor?
And why can't you?  Nah, just kidding.  Needless to say those are stupid parameters from the big book of true anything.   M




LadyHugs -> RE: i am not a true slave because i cannot kneel (10/5/2007 11:38:21 PM)

Dear winterlight, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
I can say as a Dominant, that I much rather have a slave/submissive who is physically challenged but serves from the heart and soul as a slave/submissive; than some physically abled individual to whom sees slavery/submission as a means of being a social butterfly, rude/crude, self-absorbed and someone who I would be embarrassed to have a collar on.
 
Just some thoughts.
 
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs




hermione83 -> RE: i am not a true slave because i cannot kneel (10/5/2007 11:42:06 PM)

2nd everything that was said, hugs! And pssst, my nick is almost always winterlight everywhere I go, but here! Is that a reference to the Linda Ronstadt song too!?! We should chit chat sometime, lol. Just too weird.. that plus both being slaves!!




wwwkevinww -> RE: i am not a true slave because i cannot kneel (10/5/2007 11:58:31 PM)

TRUE MASTER or TRUE SLAVE is the problem - they make fun of the entire notion in the book SCREW THE ROSES, GIVE ME THE THORNS.....




georgejames68 -> RE: i am not a true slave because i cannot kneel (10/6/2007 12:01:04 AM)

I have read postings from many, many subs/slaves on this site, they moan and groan about not being able to do certain things due to some accident/illness/condition and then go on with life being the very best sub/slave they may be. Anybody who would make such a statement totally misses the aim/objective/intent of this site and most of the people on it... and is in fact a retard... That's my polite estimate of their mental capability, you simply wouldn't want to hear my real opinion!!!!

Live life with your partner in the very best way you can and ignore those who think they are Gods and know it all and prove themselves to be A..Holes!

George




breatheasone -> RE: i am not a true slave because i cannot kneel (10/6/2007 12:06:11 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: georgejames68

I have read postings from many, many subs/slaves on this site, they moan and groan about not being able to do certain things due to some accident/illness/condition and then go on with life being the very best sub/slave they may be. Anybody who would make such a statement totally misses the aim/objective/intent of this site and most of the people on it... and is in fact a retard... That's my polite estimate of their mental capability, you simply wouldn't want to hear my real opinion!!!!

Live life with your partner in the very best way you can and ignore those who think they are Gods and know it all and prove themselves to be A..Holes!

George

Hmmm....




Guest123 -> RE: i am not a true slave because i cannot kneel (10/6/2007 12:09:52 AM)





service from the heart and attitude of mind, is what makes a person true... A/anyone that tells you differently is a liar or completely clueless.
i've seen P/people  go through the motions, pulling off the perfect stance, posture, etc and be living a lie... to quote a wise Man...... "to thine own self be true"






MissMagnolia -> RE: i am not a true slave because i cannot kneel (10/6/2007 12:14:13 AM)

Hasn't the word "true" been banned from here yet? And if not, why not?[:D]

Anyone who insists on someone doing something they are physically incapable of doing need to be passed over. It's a bit like demanding that a man carry a child so a chickie won't "ruin her figure" with pregnancy. Or me giving up chocolate. It can't be done.

The end.[:)]




ExSteelAgain -> RE: i am not a true slave because i cannot kneel (10/6/2007 12:19:43 AM)

Thinking physical problems keep someone from being a slave are asinine.  Speaking as a Dom, making her submissive in whatever body she is trapped in is all mental anyway. Not being able to kneel or some such thing reminds me of making out some kind of insurance form where you will be paid if you have enough problems.  

Just do what your Dom wants if you can.  If you can’t, tell him and he will find something else for you to do that will make you feel soooo  slavelike, I bet.




wwwkevinww -> RE: i am not a true slave because i cannot kneel (10/6/2007 12:24:33 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: georgejames68

I have read postings from many, many subs/slaves on this site, they moan and groan about not being able to do certain things due to some accident/illness/condition and then go on with life being the very best sub/slave they may be. Anybody who would make such a statement totally misses the aim/objective/intent of this site and most of the people on it... and is in fact a retard... That's my polite estimate of their mental capability, you simply wouldn't want to hear my real opinion!!!!

Live life with your partner in the very best way you can and ignore those who think they are Gods and know it all and prove themselves to be A..Holes!

George


George, I'm not sure you took the context of what was said in the proper vein or who you're talking/replying to.  Nevertheless, I think you're real opinion is coming thru, at least in the confrontational tone.....

Also, replying doesn't sound like you are ignoring anyone....."Live life with your partner in the very best way you can" seems like common sense but is reasonable.

Disabilities are best to ignore, at least socially.  Person missing legs, don't talk about it, dont' ask how it happened, etc....

People are not always equal in what they can do, but they should still be treated equally as much as possible within reason.

I think my point was that the notion that anyone is TRUE this or that was debunked in that particular book.....




wwwkevinww -> RE: i am not a true slave because i cannot kneel (10/6/2007 12:30:04 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia

Hasn't the word "true" been banned from here yet? And if not, why not?[:D]

Anyone who insists on someone doing something they are physically incapable of doing need to be passed over. It's a bit like demanding that a man carry a child so a chickie won't "ruin her figure" with pregnancy. Or me giving up chocolate. It can't be done.

The end.[:)]


jeez, now you made me want to think up ways to make a person give up chocolate.  lol

chocolate is supposed to release similiar chemical dopamin levels as sex, so substitute sex/orgasms for chocolate.  The best way to cause change is positive reinforcement....I'm not sure how well the idea would work, but at least you'd be getting more sex. [:D]




wwwkevinww -> RE: i am not a true slave because i cannot kneel (10/6/2007 12:33:13 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ExSteelAgain

Thinking physical problems keep someone from being a slave are asinine.  Speaking as a Dom, making her submissive in whatever body she is trapped in is all mental anyway. Not being able to kneel or some such thing reminds me of making out some kind of insurance form where you will be paid if you have enough problems.  

Just do what your Dom wants if you can.  If you can’t, tell him and he will find something else for you to do that will make you feel soooo  slavelike, I bet.


So asinine I think the OP was being sarcastic.

I think your second paragraph has some wishful thinking in it.......LET THE DREAM GO ON.....





winterlight -> RE: i am not a true slave because i cannot kneel (10/6/2007 12:43:28 AM)

meant to put sub/slave...




obis -> RE: i am not a true slave because i cannot kneel (10/6/2007 1:38:26 AM)

My last slave couldn't kneel due to knee problems, and she is only 19 years old. I would think as we age such issues would only become more common and accepted (by any reasonable person you'd want to submit to). Of course as others say, there's no "rulebook", but I suspect your question was more along the lines of whether or not others have similar issues and if it is a dealbreaker.




littlebitxxx -> RE: i am not a true slave because i cannot kneel (10/6/2007 3:09:16 AM)

In my opinion, serving from the heart is much more important than serving from the knees.




chiaThePet -> RE: i am not a true slave because i cannot kneel (10/6/2007 5:24:24 AM)

Well then, i suppose you could pursue a career in fast food.

Then you'll be a true slave.

chia* (the pet)




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